YOTH Posted September 14, 2018 Report Share Posted September 14, 2018 I spoke to Klingsor tonight through Zoom. Apart from how impressed I was with the connection and how clear it was, it was good to put a voice to the name. It's easy to download and use on smart phones and it's another way of connecting off forum. Anyone interested in chatting 1to1 or in a group get in touch. It's a piece of piss to set up and you can have have an actual conversation. Let me know if you're interested. If you're in the UK or on UK time, I'm pretty much good to arrange talking anytime with a bit of notice. And around 12am (GMT) seems like a good time to talk with people internationally (US). The forum is helpful, but being able to talk in person beats the shit out of it. Obsolete 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Klingsor Posted September 14, 2018 Report Share Posted September 14, 2018 I ageee. Hearing a voice makes the dialogue more than an abstraction. I’m not a good conversationalist as Yoth will probably attest, especially 1 on 1, but I’m also available if anyone needs support. I listen well and don’t judge. Obsolete, YOTH and jazz 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YOTH Posted September 14, 2018 Author Report Share Posted September 14, 2018 I don't attest, you talk fine lol. I have a hangover that won't quit. My head feels like someone scooped out my brains and filled it with cement. It'd be pretty cool to have a group chat with a few guys from here, it's definitely easier to explain how you're feeling (at least for me, I read my shit back and it's reading a stranger's message). It was also good to chat about normal shit like politics and other things I can't remember because I'd had a skinfull ha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted September 14, 2018 Report Share Posted September 14, 2018 What works for your hangover? Any remedies? YOTH 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YOTH Posted September 14, 2018 Author Report Share Posted September 14, 2018 2 hours ago, Victimorthecrime said: What works for your hangover? Any remedies? Elvanse (ADHD medication) one the best things about it. Pop one of those and I'm back to myself again within the hour. I've never found anything other than that that actually works. Victimorthecrime 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YOTH Posted September 14, 2018 Author Report Share Posted September 14, 2018 I think it's also important to note that everyone speaking in these chats is a trusted member of the community, so there is no risk of any exposure in real life. The reason I chose Zoom is because you yourself can set up the room and invite us in privately by sending the code. Cameras can be switched off if you prefer and you can even use an alias if you prefer. I'm convinced after recent events that the human factor is important when it comes to helping eachother deal with this and sharing our experiences or solutions to problems that we are guaranteed to not hear anywhere else. When the elephant has been evicted, it's easy to talk openly without that fear and it just feels normal, like chatting with anyone. There is no helpline for us, there is no charity to call, there's nothing. I want there to be something and I think this could be it. jazz, LaLa and Smallbeans 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smallbeans Posted September 14, 2018 Report Share Posted September 14, 2018 2 hours ago, YOTH said: there is no charity to call, there's nothing. I want there to be something and I think this could be it. Amen to that YOTH 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YOTH Posted September 14, 2018 Author Report Share Posted September 14, 2018 Download the free zoom app @Smallbeans and we can do that anytime. You're on UK time anyway so it should be pretty simple to arrange. I couldn't believe how easy it was tbh, I was expecting lag or delay speaking to the US but I was impressed with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Klingsor Posted September 15, 2018 Report Share Posted September 15, 2018 One idea that’s been mulling around in my mind is working together as a group to make money. If you can’t have a big cock, wealth is the next best thing for getting respect on this spinning rock. If that’s too vain for you and puts you off, well consider this: with money you can afford to do things you actually enjoy to take your mind off SPS and possibly make your livelihood into something that is healthy for you instead of cubicle or office hell with a bunch of adolescent twats who never grew up. I’ve had a couple ideas that I’d share in a private setting with verified community members. Maybe this doesn’t resonate with anyone, but just like sex, money - if you never had any and don’t get any now - becomes that shining star always out of reach that everybody else seems to be able to touch, at least occasionally. YOTH 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YOTH Posted September 15, 2018 Author Report Share Posted September 15, 2018 @Klingsor I've had the same thought. There has to be a way of monetising it. I've had a few ideas myself, even taken a few to the next level. But I'm interested in what you're thinking of, I wouldn't say no to a bit financial wiggle room. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Small Posted September 18, 2018 Report Share Posted September 18, 2018 I had a look at zoom & the permissions they ask for the install is too much for my liking. I can do Skype & WhatsApp if you guys establish a group. YOTH 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YOTH Posted September 18, 2018 Author Report Share Posted September 18, 2018 Just used WhatsApp internationally and it works fine. Surprisingly easy to add numbers and a good strong connection. So, kind of forget Zoom, it's an arse ache. Victimorthecrime 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz Posted September 18, 2018 Report Share Posted September 18, 2018 I hope you're not going to 'zoom' off and not use the forum anymore 🎌 LaLa, Small, TheDane and 2 others 2 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sickandtired Posted September 25, 2018 Report Share Posted September 25, 2018 I’m up for connecting to on Whatsapp too. Have used with friends around the world and works really well, depending on your internet speeds, better quality than a cell call a few kilometres away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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