Toosmallforcomfort Posted February 6, 2020 Report Share Posted February 6, 2020 Obviously, a question for SPS sufferers. If your wife or significant other tells you that they want an open marriage/relationship after 10 years of being together, would you: a. Yes, of course. Anything you want to make you happy. b. Yes, with reservations. c. No, we should work on our relationship. d. Hell no. Hit the highway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted February 7, 2020 Report Share Posted February 7, 2020 D. I wouldn’t even talk about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wayless Posted February 7, 2020 Report Share Posted February 7, 2020 Generally, that proposal is made with an effort to make it attractive for the the husband. However, that seldom works out. Women find it much easier in the vast majority of cases to find recreational partners better than the husband (especially if the woman is not being satisfied at home). Hell no, I think would be the appropriate answer. I never got the question, but might have been enticed by it, thinking maybe other women would be more responsive to me. In fact, I opened my first marriage for myself in secret (cheating) for just that reason. No doubt my first wife would have found other men much better in bed if we had opened the marriage, just as she did after we divorced! We were idyllically in love when we married. But it turned-out I wasn't who either of us thought I was. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Obsolete Posted February 10, 2020 Report Share Posted February 10, 2020 D for divorce. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
basic11 Posted February 10, 2020 Report Share Posted February 10, 2020 D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YOTH Posted February 14, 2020 Report Share Posted February 14, 2020 On 2/10/2020 at 7:46 PM, Obsolete said: D for divorce. Long time no see. How are you? Obsolete 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Obsolete Posted February 15, 2020 Report Share Posted February 15, 2020 11 hours ago, YOTH said: 11 hours ago, YOTH said: Long time no see. How are you? Doing alright brother. Yourself? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CircusLeavesTown Posted February 15, 2020 Report Share Posted February 15, 2020 Option F: go fuck yourself Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YOTH Posted February 15, 2020 Report Share Posted February 15, 2020 18 hours ago, Obsolete said: Doing alright brother. Yourself? I'm ok, bit of a rough year, hopefully 2020 is kinder. Victimorthecrime 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted February 15, 2020 Report Share Posted February 15, 2020 18 hours ago, Obsolete said: Doing alright brother. Yourself? @Obsolete hey how are things? Any sign of that Coronavirus in Cape Town? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted February 15, 2020 Report Share Posted February 15, 2020 18 minutes ago, YOTH said: I'm ok, bit of a rough year, hopefully 2020 is kinder. Why was it rough? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YOTH Posted February 16, 2020 Report Share Posted February 16, 2020 3 hours ago, Victimorthecrime said: Why was it rough? Dunno really, the usual suspects?Addiction, depression and becoming a zombified husk of my former self. Turns out I'd never been depressed before, not at any point in my whole life, but I only realised that when I was actually depressed, until that point I had nothing to compare it to. It was honestly the worst feeling I've ever felt. But that was then, just need to focus on the future. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted February 16, 2020 Report Share Posted February 16, 2020 @YOTH sorry to hear that. I won’t dole out any dumb ass advice, shit you already know. But I hope you find a solution. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YOTH Posted February 16, 2020 Report Share Posted February 16, 2020 @Victimorthecrime Dole away, I'm open to suggestions and advice, if you want to say something, feel free. I'm ok atm, but it's an ongoing thing. Up, down, peaks, troughs, it never ends. Victimorthecrime 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Under5 Posted March 10, 2020 Report Share Posted March 10, 2020 B. I have no question about her love for me. And, I’m really confident that we really do have a great time in bed. YOTH 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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