tmays Posted July 12, 2012 Report Share Posted July 12, 2012 I can definitely relate though on a smaller level than the two of you. Really interestng! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frazzled1 Posted July 15, 2012 Report Share Posted July 15, 2012 How do you mean a smaller level tmays? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynthia Posted July 27, 2012 Report Share Posted July 27, 2012 How do you mean a smaller level tmays?Good question Frazzled, what do you mean by that tmays? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynthia Posted August 26, 2012 Report Share Posted August 26, 2012 Tmays,I hope you are okay? Wondering why you never replied here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShortbusNinja Posted October 3, 2012 Report Share Posted October 3, 2012 Ok so me, the new guy, copes in a different way... I have a mental warehouse. It's both a good thing and a bad thing. It keeps me functional but it also hides some stuff that should never come out. I have to meditate a lot to keep it organized. Think of it this way. I imagine a warehouse and have a section for emotions, peoples, events, etc. Each item has a box, door, or a trunk. Then depending on who or what it is the box is decorated accordingly. For example the stuff that pertains to my son are in a box decorated with trains (he loves them). Everyday I have to organize it all or it will be a rough day. Morning and at night. I need to put stuff up from the day or else it can linger and get bad. The down side is if a box opens and I don't get it closed and it has a lot of anguish associated with it then it takes over. It's kinda hard to fully explain without specific questions. It was the only thing in 10yrs that got me functional again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynthia Posted October 4, 2012 Report Share Posted October 4, 2012 Hi Shortbusninja,I'm not sure that would work for me but I am glad it works for you! There's more than one way to paint a picture.CBT/TEA forms were the answer for me and your warehouse works for you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShortbusNinja Posted October 5, 2012 Report Share Posted October 5, 2012 Yes it does unless i have issues like I have been for the past few weeks. I am a bit out of wack. The warehouse is like the warehouse from Warehouse 13. It can sense a disturbance lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jade Posted November 29, 2012 Report Share Posted November 29, 2012 I have what I like to call my "zone" of reading, writing to vent out my feelings, listening to music, playing video games, and watching old TV shows that take me back to when I was a kid and the abuse hadn't got so bad yet. If something is really getting to me, I find comfort in food or masturbate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tmays Posted December 6, 2012 Report Share Posted December 6, 2012 How do you mean a smaller level tmays?Just meant I was good at helping others before too, but it does not sound like i was as sought out as you guys were Hope you are well and ready for the holidays!I only do my TEA forms a few days a week now and can't believe how my life has changed. Just about four years ago I thought I was beyond help and going to on med the rest of my life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynthia Posted September 5, 2013 Report Share Posted September 5, 2013 Just meant I was good at helping others before too, but it does not sound like i was as sought out as you guys were Hope you are well and ready for the holidays!I only do my TEA forms a few days a week now and can't believe how my life has changed. Just about four years ago I thought I was beyond help and going to on med the rest of my life.Well put Tmays and so good to see the forum back. I am still doing my TEA forms several days a week but feel like they are my new natural way of thinking now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynthia Posted February 7, 2014 Report Share Posted February 7, 2014 Tmays and others how are you doing these days. Life is good for me. Would love to re-connect with everyone on here! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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