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Hate having a 4" erect penis

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I was actually working on cardiovascular stem cells when I came across literature that dealt with mesenchymal stemm cells (one step down from embryo if you will) in penis injuries. There need to be a lot of things figured out but I wouldn't say 10 years from now

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me too.

its possible they might reject us both... but I reckon the odds are that at least 1 of those possible 3 might.

Cece wouldnt reject 4 inches automatically.

Its true only a minority of women will accept us- I get that- but they are out there....

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Yeah but this link wasn't meant to have any statistical inferences drawn from it. It's anecdotal evidence as opposed to more scientific studies where, like you know, it's been found that 70% of women who rate their partner's penis as small desire a larger one.

After reading quite a lot of threads, I've realized people like Cece are very rare

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I'm like micro I need to sit down to pee or need a hard on how do you think I feel dude some people wish they had bigger so they can go out and paint the town red and be a porn start my biggest wish is to stand up and pee without making a mess of myself instead of sitting down like a female how do you think I feel I'm not a man I'm a freak

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I used to think that if you had a big penis that no matter what, you would be happy. I used to be mad at my dad because he had a big penis and I didn't. Well my penis didn't start to grow until after I turned 20. How old are you? Maybe you still have time to grow. Listen to my story, I wanted to have sex in highschool more than anything. I had a decent 5.5 or 6 inch length, but my penis was thin. I wasn't able to have sex in highschool mostly because I was overweight and I just didn't have good luck. Well after I graduated high school I became depressed and gained more weight. My penis was around 6 inches and I thought because I was in college, I was done growing in height, that my penis was done growing. Wrong. After I turned 20 my penis really started to grow and I reached about 8 inches. I was pretty pleased with this and thought that my 8 inch thin penis was great. I was still overweight and had never had sex. Then I found fitness. This was the greatest thing to ever happen to me, I became fit and athletic. My diet was the most important thing. Once I changed my diet I noticed that my stomach fat lessened, and my erections became better and more powerful. I even had sex when I was 23. The girl was very heavy and not attractive, but I had sex just to have the experience. Well the girl said "I had a big dick" and she said it was like a bat. She nicknamed it the "Louisville Slugger". Now this girl was big, so width wise she could have taken a horse cock, she could have taken way wider than what I provided. But she loved it anyway. Length wise I have been blessed. At this time I was about 9 inches long and average thickness. The first thing I felt when I entered her was her cervix, then I felt the cervix retract. After that I couldn't feel the cervix anymore. She held her legs in a position so I could only stick my penis halfway inside her so I didn't hit the back of her. Then I pounded away for a few minutes and stopped. It wasn't that great because she wasn't attractive, she was nice though. Anyway, I am 29 now and that was my only sexual experience. I am deeply depressed even though I have a large penis. Over 9 inches and 6 inches in circumfrance. I do not get laid, I have a very bad resume and have only had minimum wage jobs doing labor, even though I am smart. I have had tons of depression and I am still trying to get through junior college. I am stuck in the past and I just want to be a highschool kid, having sex for the first time. The girls my age have had a lifetime of sexual experience. I have almost none. I am way behind. That being said, I did absolutely nothing to achieve my long penis. So there is nothing you can do to get one. You have to focus on being a good person and a healthy individual. Exercise will increase the potency of your erections. If I were you I would decide, do I want to live or die. If you want to die then just end it, millions of people kill themselves because they are have ambiguous genitalia. A man from Canada, who had his circumcision botched and was sexualy reassigned as a woman killed himself because he knew he could never have sex. This is a real situation. I want you to live. There is a man in this world with a large penis, and he wants you to live, and to be happy. If there were no men with small penis' then how could a man have a big one? We need you, everyone needs you on this planet, no matter how small your penis is. You are part of life, please just spread as much good will as you can and don't have anger. I love you. Decide to live and make the most of what you can do. Peace Out.

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>>>>>> Well I mean its hard to explain to a women how man feels about a penis…I don’t even know if it can be done.

Let me try it this way, take something that makes you feel feminine something you identify with as a women. I have no clue what that could be, it might be something different for all women…for example women who lose their breasts to cancer often feel like something a part that makes them a “women/feminine” is missing so they get implants or something else to make up for it in some way, so they can feel better about themselves and also how they are perceived.

Well I guess that’s how man feel with tiny penis, we feel like something that makes us a man is missing, and no matter what we do we can never be complete.

At least that how I feel about it, might be different for others.<<<<<<<

I am posting something that a woman posted on a website I am a member of...

What is Small:

I was just browsing the Small Exchange forum, and there were two stories, pretty similar, that I read. Both guys were in the 4.5-5.5" (length, circ) range and both felt that they didn't have the "manhood" to offer their lovers that other men did.

So, yeah, there's the statistics that say that this is average. That's not going to change anybody's feelings of inadequacy if he keeps exposing himself to above average and using it as the standard.

...but I don't have a dick in my pants that I can just whip out and compare to what all of you post as your dimensions. So I took a sheet of paper and ticked off 4, 4.5, 5 and 5.5 on the edge of it. I held it out straight. I rolled it up. I thought about my two current lovers, and I got hot enough just imagining that the paper in my hand was someone's cock and that it was sliding against the walls of my pussy that I had to take a breather (I'm in a public cafe right now), and I had to write to you guys.

...My smaller lover is probably something between 4 and 4.5 in circumference in the shaft, and maybe 5 in length, based on my hand ticked notebook roller ruler. Maybe 5.5. Definitely not 6. His head is really flared and when he pulls back, I clamp down with my muscles and always feel guilty when I come before he does and can't squeeze him anymore. He really gets off on the pussy squeeze. (God this is difficult to write and maintain composure!)

Ok, so here's the other part. I unrolled my paper to the 5.5 tick mark (circ), and holy shit! I was seriously unnerved by the idea of that much going inside me. My biggest dildo is about that big around, and the only time I've actually fucked myself with it was when I was video chatting this guy and masturbating for over an hour and the clitoral gasms just weren't satisfying me. Most days it hurts.

My larger lover is probably 5 around and 6.5 long. Once he's in, I can just sit back and enjoy the ride, but if I'm not gushing before he penetrates me, jeezus is it painful going in!

I don't have to tell you guys that a large dick can hurt -- Bronxy and Carla have done such a great job, and they have much more experience than I do -- but now that I finally put numbers to my experience, I can tell you that

1. Your 4.5x5.5 cocks are neither thin nor short. You guys keep writing that "I'm embarrassed because I'm thin and I have nothing to offer my lover" and that's bullcrap! You made "thin" up. You also made up short. To my eyes, a 4.5x5.5 is NOT A SMALL PENIS. It's a good looking piece of man-meat that I wanna shove all up in my hooha.

2. Man eyes, woman eyes, rulers and porn all have different ideas of what "small" "thin" "big" and "average" really are. If you were to have asked me before I made my paper roll if 4.5 diameter could satisfy me, I probably would have thought of my smallest guy ever, and told you some story about how there was this particular technique he used that really got me off. You would read that and be like "yeah, i get it. 'it's what you do with it.'but, fuck, if i was just bigger i wouldn't have to learn some fancy technique to *compensate*" -- you wouldn't feel any better because you would get the impression that i thought you were small, which i did.

But now that I've actually looked at what 4.5 means, I know it's not small! IT'S PLAINLY NOT SMALL. I don't have to tell you some story about how he did this thing, because THERE'S NOTHING SMALL ABOUT IT. It doesn't look small, it doesn't feel small. When I reach in a man's pants and wrap my fingers around a "measly" 4.5" dick, I'm like "oh, yay, a hard cock to play with" and it doesn't even occur to me to be like "aww, well i guess i can still have a great time with his *only* 4.5, thin little pathetic cock if i remember that i want him for him and not *just* his prick." bullwads!

so when you talk about numbers online and with girls, remember that YOU know what the numbers mean, but WE really don't. if you keep going around saying that 4.5x5 is "small," then if you ask a girl "hey, i have a 4.5x5 dick. could that satisfy you?" she's gonna think "hmm. yeah, that's small. small dicks don't satisfy me." and then she'll either be a bitch and say "no way, loser" or she'll try to be nice and make something up about technique. But the fact is, she only thinks it's small because *someone* (read YOU guys) keeps saying "4.5" or "5.5" or "6.5" and small in the same sentence. Even a woman's perspective isn't trustworthy if you guys keep using this kind of language to refer to your perfectly normal, perfectly satisfying, bordering on the frighteningly thick, sized dicks.

3. I really wanted to have a list with three bullet points, but I went off so much on number two that I've run out of steam.

So, guys, I can't make this a sticky post on this forum, or in your heads, but I think that from now on, if any of you start talking about your dicks as being "small" or "thin" or "pathetic" or whatever, unless you're actually in the micropenis category, which is a medical definition, I'm going to tell you to read this post and think about how your attitude and your language to refer to yourself is hurting you and is hurting every other guy who has no reason to be ashamed, or feel inferior, or feel disadvantaged, because of his perfectly satisfying, lovely, gorgeous, delicious cock.

So there. Now I'm gonna go jerk off, but the girl version.

Pinkie B.

Read it and read it again guys...This is from a real woman.

You are not your penis...Your penis is part of you...To think otherwise is a self-defeating proposition.

PS...Did you read it...GOOD!!! now go read it again!!!

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4.5 is kinda my size and I have been rejected by my 5 partners due to its size.

2 explicitly broached the issue- that it was too small.... I dunno... i suspect shes underestimated her partners...

4.5 inch is less than 95% of Caucasians.

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Jessie, do you approach partners already dejected and apologizing for the size? One has to be ready to love a woman, and give her all one has, unashamedly. I have only half an inch more than you do...half an inch! My lover stands 5'9", and she is madly in love with me, and I with her. She adores my penis and wants it inside her all the time...no kidding. This is convincing me, it's all about sexual chemistry. My girlfriend knows I love her, just by how we have sex. She is delighted, for example, because I can't get enough cunnilingus (I give her analingus too, free of charge)...and while I perform it I talk dirty to her and caress her whole body...and she goes into orbit By the time I finish, she is all over me, begging me to be inside her. Foreplay and communication...eye contact, gentle touching, talking, etc, are essential, even for the guys with a big shlong. The sex with my GF is mind blowing, and she says with absolute certainty that it is by far the best she's ever had, and she has had guys twice my size. The last thing on my mind is my size...it's all about confidence in demonstrating my love for her.

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Mmm, this is not the easiest concern to advertise ...

I was going to suggest word of mouth, but that's not really the end that you're working with.

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