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Thewhitelioness

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I heard about the syndrome from this web-site and researched it. I don’t like people as much as I use to. I’m paranoid about people and have a hard time trusting them. I don’t understand people but I sometimes think about what is going through another person’s head. I can sometimes be told that I don’t care about people but I can be told that I’m nice and honest. The common way to express my affection is to buy presents for people. I’m not great at showing affection but I can still care about people but I sometimes wish that I didn’t care about them. A have the habit of avoiding people because I believe that they are the source of my misery. My friend complains about how I never say Hi. I prefer to hang around women than men because I think that men are mean to me. I distrust men more than women.

I feel as those people are only interested in me sexually and have an attend to avoid things sexually unless I feel broken then I might push my limits but not actually do anything sexual but might accept that fact that I should be a stripper, porn star, or a hooters waitress. I haven’t applied or want to for these jobs. I might research them. I don’t think sex is evil but it can be used to be morally wrong.

I get along better with adults or people over the age of 25. It feels as if teens care only about my sexually, body, or the fact that I always alone. Adults are more forgiving towards me and try to understand my personality.

I have a strong interest in drawing and writing. I don’t think that I can quit drawing or writing even though I think that I’m not very good at either subject. I’m very creative. I have plenty of hobbies to keep myself busy.

I would like a boyfriend who has a goal in life. I tend to rock back and forth and will twirl and put my hair in my month. My parents accuse me of mumbling under my breath. I tell them that I’m not. (Maybe I’m thinking out loud) I sometimes think that ghosts, monsters, deformed people, or handsome people are in my room at night. I know that they aren’t but sometimes it scares me. If I get to attach to an anime character I might start thinking that he’s real and in my room wanting to talk to me or want me to give them some attention and I’m thinking like you’re not real, go away. I have an imaginary boyfriend.

I like biology and zoology but hate chemistry. Physics is ok. I would love to learn more about the how the human body works. I’m told that I tend to think in statics. I have a speech implement. It’s a lot to read but if you guys can tell if I do have a personality disorder I’ll be grateful. I know that I think differently from other people.

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You're a person, lioness. (Okay, that sounds a bit funny, but you can be a lioness too, if you want.)

Some persons are different from others, and some of them have a biological reason for that difference. But we're all still people.

Teenagers in general are not very good at trying to understand other people's personalities. {Note that this is not true of individual teenagers, but of groups.} This is partly because they're currently trying to understand their own personality, and how they fit in with all the other personalities out there. It's fairly common for teenagers to act differently in groups than they would alone. It becomes less common as people become more secure in who they are, but mob action does still happen occasionally at all ages.

Is there any basis in your experience for the different way you perceive men and women? You are far more than a sexual object, and I would suggest holding out until you find people of either gender who can see that.

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You're a person, lioness. (Okay, that sounds a bit funny, but you can be a lioness too, if you want.)

Some persons are different from others, and some of them have a biological reason for that difference. But we're all still people.

Teenagers in general are not very good at trying to understand other people's personalities. {Note that this is not true of individual teenagers, but of groups.} This is partly because they're currently trying to understand their own personality, and how they fit in with all the other personalities out there. It's fairly common for teenagers to act differently in groups than they would alone. It becomes less common as people become more secure in who they are, but mob action does still happen occasionally at all ages.

Is there any basis in your experience for the different way you perceive men and women? You are far more than a sexual object, and I would suggest holding out until you find people of either gender who can see that.[/QU

I didn't have the best father to grow up with. I don't get along with my brother. I was bullied by a few guys when I used to be in high school. I begin to assume that guys are self-center and think that they are the best things to walk the face of the earth. I know not all guys act like this.

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