Willpower Posted March 24, 2012 Report Share Posted March 24, 2012 I have plans tomorrow so I can't write out the most elaborate topic this thread deserves but if anyone comments or has questions I can add stuff in.So it 'finally' happened for me last night. As of a few days ago I knew it was going to happen immanently. I've had a lot of dates lined up with girls that are really into me. We were going to meet next week but I had the free time so I asked her if she was busy and she wasn't so I moved the date up.As a virgin you really don't get how utterly inconsequential sex and being a virgin really is. My friends told me this and I knew that was correct but I didn't actually feel that way. Now I'm on the other side and I see it. I was an actual fool a lot of the time. You can think 'oh but you've had sex, of course it doesn't matter' but it really doesn't. I've had to catch myself calling myself a virgin still already several times.The only thing that feels different is how it's going to take a long time to reprogram my mind with the new experience of how unimportant being a virgin actually was. If I knew what I know now I wouldn't have cared if I lived my entire life a virgin. The sex was good, it felt good, but the virgin status was really a much bigger deal in my head than it should have been. honeys3l1, TooOld4This, Indinkese and 11 others 14 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
devils daughter Posted March 24, 2012 Report Share Posted March 24, 2012 Hurray, hurray, hurray!As an (OLD) woman this is really none of my business.But as a human being, I say, Hurray, hurray, hurray!I think you are correct:As a virgin you really don't get how utterly inconsequential sex and being a virgin really is.But until you know it for yourself, you just don’t know.I’ve been reading all your posts and been wanting to say “Hurray” for some time. That you took charge of your life and have made such a difference is really a wonderful example for others. Maybe that won’t work for some of us, right now. But it’s great to know that it can be done. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willpower Posted March 25, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 25, 2012 Thank you! Yeah, this is me coming off the tail end of my real problems and picking up the pieces afterwards. It really has been wonderful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AmericanPsycho Posted March 29, 2012 Report Share Posted March 29, 2012 Did you do it like they do on the Discovery Channel:confused: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willpower Posted March 31, 2012 Author Report Share Posted March 31, 2012 Did you do it like they do on the Discovery Channel:confused:More like HBO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AmericanPsycho Posted March 31, 2012 Report Share Posted March 31, 2012 More like HBOBut HBO doesn't have softcore skin flicks. Cinemax and Showtime does. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willpower Posted April 1, 2012 Author Report Share Posted April 1, 2012 But HBO doesn't have softcore skin flicks. Cinemax and Showtime does.Sick burn We did everything but anal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest glennj Posted December 10, 2014 Report Share Posted December 10, 2014 I've never had a problem with the stigma of being a virgin. I never thought about it much. What I did think about is the fact that women have never really been a part of my life. The lack of touch, of intimacy, of their femininity, of their smell, their skin, their warmth.These feelings never changed once I was no longer technically a virgin. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shrimp Fried Life Posted August 11, 2015 Report Share Posted August 11, 2015 Breathing air is inconsequential until you stop breathing long enouugh. Victimorthecrime 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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