Wastedlife Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 I don;t know, but I do think we men care more than the women do.Well I would say men whine about it more which would be “caring” I guess, but that’s only because we are stuck our whole life with this curse without ever having a single second of relief or hope for something better. Women don’t have to talk about it much because they just simply say “aww you poor thing, its ok...its not a big deal” after which they go off to have sex with a man that has a 8” inch penis and tell him how big and sexy his penis is.... Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perseverance Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 Well I would say men whine about it more which would be “caring” I guess, but that’s only because we are stuck our whole life with this curse without ever having a single second of relief or hope for something better. Women don’t have to talk about it much because they just simply say “aww you poor thing, its ok...its not a big deal” and they go off to have sex with a man that has a 8” inch penis... Oh yea? That's what they say? Interesting. Crazy how it's that easy for a girl to find a guy with an 8" penis. Cause they just like... Go off and do it. This has gotten worse because of porn. Not a doubt in my mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wastedlife Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 Oh yea? That's what they say? Interesting. Crazy how it's that easy for a girl to find a guy with an 8" penis. Cause they just like... Go off and do it. This has gotten worse because of porn. Not a doubt in my mind.why would it be hard? they got 1 in 3 chance of getting someone 6.5+...and chances are guys who hit on girls in clubs and other venues are packing anyways cause small penis man are to shy and awkward to try in most cases....and when they do get the occasional "pinky penis" they just give the standard "I like you as a friend" or thousands of other excuses and move on... Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 Well, it's true that women have a 50-50 chance of getting a guy who's average or above (that's what average is supposed to mean.) But that brings up the question of why any under-average guy ever gets to have sex. I think the only answer is that at least something other than size must matter to some women. Why not cultivate whatever that something else is? It could be charm, decency, bulging muscles ... but clearly, if only above average satisfies, then only above average would ever be having sex.The thing that I think gets to most of you guys is the "everything else being equal" argument: what if she found a guy who is everything I am, plus is bigger? The problem is that everything else is never, cannot be, equal. You are unique, each one of you, and if any particular woman doesn't value that, why would you want to be around her anyway? You're the only you, and somewhere there's a person who will value you, if only you can let her see who that is. Perseverance and gone 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perseverance Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 why would it be hard? they got 1 in 3 chance of getting someone 6.5+...and chances are guys who hit on girls in clubs and other venues are packing anyways cause small penis man are to shy and awkward to try in most cases anyway....and when they do get the occasional "pinky penis" they just give the standard "I like you as friend" or thousands of other excuses and move on...True. Which is why I stayed away from clubs. Don't get me wrong I have picked up girls but I never made a habit of it. Like I said it's been 50/50 when it comes to dealing with women about this. It's clear that when I met a girl in a normal location other than a bar the sex was more successful. Actually the relationship as a whole. Get a dog and go to the park. Coffee shops/book stores. Shopping. Jesus Christ anywhere but a bar. There's a different class of girls that "go out" every fucking weekend. Wouldn't want to deal with them even if I was normal sized. You know my gf is committed to our relationship. Talks about marriage, buying a house, and so on. My dick is skinny and 4.5. There's no doubt in my mind in the smallest. But apparently I'm enough for her. I'm sure other guys have fucked her better than I ever will. That kills me. I know guys. There's no feeling I've experienced in life up to this point that feels worse than that. But... I risk losing all the good I have in life if I never get over it. It's hurts me just as much knowing you guys are hurting like I am. That's why I post. Being open and honest is the only way you're going to set yourself up to be happy. Not hiding and complaining. You're going to tell me out of a million women you can't find one? There's women that really don't give a shit about sex also. I'm personally wiling to do whatever it takes to be happy. I grew up pretty unhappy most of the time. I want to see better days. So if I have to fuck my gf with my little dick and suck it up that I can't fill her up then whatever. If I gotta buy toys I gotta buy toys. Btw she hasn't even used the fucking vibrator that u bought her which is bullshit waste of money. Lol. If it's vibrators, dildos, bringing in another guy (which she's against anyways on both sides) then whatever. I'm to the point where I'll blow a guy myself if it meant I'd be happy in life. I mean that's how far this has pushed me. WhTever it takes to be happy. Tired of being miserable. But trust me I much rather marry my gf and be straight lol haha Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 why would it be hard? they got 1 in 3 chance of getting someone 6.5+...and chances are guys who hit on girls in clubs and other venues are packing anyways cause small penis man are to shy and awkward to try in most cases anyway....and when they do get the occasional "pinky penis" they just give the standard "I like you as friend" or thousands of other excuses and move on...Im convinced this is true- both in real life and on videos I have heard women say most willies were between 6-7 or 6-8.But the science says its 5.7i think its over exposure of girls to bigger guys in society- they have the confidence to womanise.In a usa medical show last year a guy said the average was under 6 and the females in the audience openly gasped in astonishment.they simply couldnt believe the average was that small. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 What's interesting is that you take their surprise to mean that they had encountered mostly larger than average penises, but my interpretation is that women don't actually have a very good idea of how big any guy's penis is. For one thing, the only person I can imagine measuring a penis is a guy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perseverance Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 Im convinced this is true- both in real life and on videos I have heard women say most willies were between 6-7 or 6-8.But the science says its 5.7i think its over exposure of girls to bigger guys in society- they have the confidence to womanise.In a usa medical show last year a guy said the average was under 6 and the females in the audience openly gasped in astonishment.they simply couldnt believe the average was that small.Jessie women have no clue what actual inches look like. You think they have rulers at their bedside? It's a guess mostly every time. Unless the woman is a carpenter or designs clothing for a living there's a strong chance she's mistaken on judging the size. Plus things look a lot bigger when they're right in front your face ha. Like how many women I've seen online say her ex was 10 inches. Lol get the fuck outta here. You see that comment a lot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 What's interesting is that you take their surprise to mean that they had encountered mostly larger than average penises, but my interpretation is that women don't actually have a very good idea of how big any guy's penis is. For one thing, the only person I can imagine measuring a penis is a guy.If I recall correctly the presenter said it was slightly smaller than a dollar bill.He held up the bill to the camera.And the women were shaking their heads in disbelief.I assume usa women know how big a dollar bill is... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 Jessie women have no clue what actual inches look like. You think they have rulers at their bedside? It's a guess mostly every time. Unless the woman is a carpenter or designs clothing for a living there's a strong chance she's mistaken on judging the size. Plus things look a lot bigger when they're right in front your face ha. Like how many women I've seen online say her ex was 10 inches. Lol get the fuck outta here. You see that comment a lot.I'm sure there are women who over estimate and they don't obsess on inches like we do.But I have heard women discuss length and girth using inches in a very detailed sophisticated way.And well, you have seen some of the clips and articles I have linked here- they are often very specific about size. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 But it's also likely that very few women have ever had a dollar bill inside them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perseverance Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 There's also a chance my gf is a little self conscious about her body, most girl have something. Wether it's her ass her breast or her arms or stomach or whatever. Truth is I find her insanely attractive. There isn't a thing I would change about her. And I'm sure she's probably not your ideal type. But she's mine. Wouldn't trade her for anyone. Is this a one way street that I can feel this way and women can not? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 There's also a chance my gf is a little self conscious about her body, most girl have something. Wether it's her ass her breast or her arms or stomach or whatever. Truth is I find her insanely attractive. There isn't a thing I would change about her. And I'm sure she's probably not your ideal type. But she's mine. Wouldn't trade her for anyone. Is this a one way street that I can feel this way and women can not?Im convinced women DO feel this way about imperfections- arguably more so than guys actually.But there is a functional aspect to size (on top of a societal expectation) which is to do with depth and fullness.And for some, perhaps not all though, that lack of fulness ruins the moment a bit, leaves them frustrated or unsatisfied.Then they (some) cannot help comparing you to others who could satisfy them (they are only human), then they feel less attraction and if the sex is bad the relationship suffers and then you have the spiral. blah, blah.Meh, life is compromise and preference and opportunity- you got lucky P- I for one am very happy for you- don't ever leave this place.ps wish Cece would come back... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 But it's also likely that very few women have ever had a dollar bill inside them.Indeed- but they will know whether or not the penises in their lives are bigger/smaller/equal in size compared to daily currency.And the women in that audience, on that day, could not believe what the presenter was claiming. thats all. NarDakSquarma, muttymori and Hedagoalley 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 Maybe. I have no idea whether the one attached to me is longer or shorter than a dollar bill, so it's conceivable that not everyone makes those comparisons. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wastedlife Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 All this comparing and assuming...women see a penis and they know if its big or small. Trust me when I tell you no women will mistake a 4 inch penis for 8 inch one...lol they know what they like. Weather hey can tell the difference between a 3.5 inch penis or 5 inch penis is inconsequential. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 Penis sizeI'm bored. My man is on lates tonight and if i'm being frankly honest i'm bloody horny! So lets have a late night naughty bare all chat about penis size. Whats the biggest you've seen? whats the smallest you've seen? whats the average size do you think? does size matter? I'll go first. Biggest I've seen was someone I had a one night stand with I met at a club when I was a teen. Was about 9 inches. The smallest I've seen was my first boyfriend about 4 inches. Maybe its grown since The average size I would say is 6 inches. And yes it does matter. The guy still needs to know what to do with it but a big one definitely helps in my opinion. Come on then everyone, your turn! xx Angela O(79) Member Join Date Sep 2010 Posts 3,277 I once had a bloke that was so thin it was like a baby carrot! The size was the same as a baby carrot too! The head on it was massive. It reminds me of a mushroom every time I think about it LOLOL MY OH is 7 inches, I remember measuring it with a ruler when we hadn't been together for that long - he knows what to do with it too Like Clarissa S [*] Member Join Date Jan 2006 Location kent Posts 649 Report [*] Cheryl H(331) Member Join Date May 2013 Location Exeter Posts 325 Aw poor guy. I do feel sorry for men with small tackle. Their confidence must be really low but it some cases it really is what you do with it! Like Today, 22:57 [*] Hayley F(64) Member Join Date May 2009 Location North Yorkshire Posts 2,673 I've only had three partners. I've been a lucky girl...all three had 8-9" penises when erect, so I'll say 8" is my smallest, 8.5" is average and 9" is the biggest. I don't know if size counts, having never had a smaller one but I'm pretty sure it does, I can't imagine getting much pleasure from a smaller penis. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 sorry the paste was all spaced out- don't know how to stop that.Still the quotes say it all- encapsulates our predictment so awfully.."I can't imagine getting much pleasure from a smaller penis." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 "Yep, I always thought 8" must be average and all that stuff we learned in sex ed' about "average" being 4" or whatever it was was just to make smaller boys feel better"The above is a quote from a mom of 2 who has been on that forum for 4 years and has made over 2000 posts on a wide variety of topics.Fuck this world franky. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perseverance Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 Jessie sometimes I want to strangle you with the shit you post. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted October 9, 2013 Report Share Posted October 9, 2013 strangle away ....you cannot harm me anymore than society and rejecting women already have.... ps sorry, just been reflecting on some bad memories today... black mood coming... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perseverance Posted October 10, 2013 Report Share Posted October 10, 2013 strangle away ....you cannot harm me anymore than society and rejecting women already have.... ps sorry, just been reflecting on some bad memories today... black mood coming...I swear I try and help and you post the most negative shit possible. It's not helping. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IrmaJean Posted October 10, 2013 Report Share Posted October 10, 2013 Do you ever wonder if thinking about your body as specific numbers and measurements is disrespectful to yourself?Indeed- but they will know whether or not the penises in their lives are bigger/smaller/equal in size compared to daily currency.It's part of the body of a human being. If someone I cared about wanted to share themselves with me I would not think of anything other than getting to know that person's body exactly as it was. I've only been with one person and have no idea about measurements, wouldn't care to...it's his and that is everything. If I love him, I'm going to adore his body because it's his.This is my personal opinion that I've expressed before here many times, but just to illustrate that such opinions are out there.What can you do to be accepting of and okay with yourself? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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IrmaJean Posted October 10, 2013 Report Share Posted October 10, 2013 Sorry you're feeling down. I like your avatar, Jeep. I hope it has meaning that is comforting to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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