Very small and very sad

[Owls191]

Hey man, I'm 23 years old with a pretty small penis as well. I used to get super depressed about it and my confidence was really low. My first girlfriends ex had an 8" penis or something enormous he was like 6"6 tall. Yes girls get excited when they see a big penis and they are more pleasing to the eye but once you start getting down they want what ever you have. And because we aren't very big we DO use everything that we have. You wont find many women that get off from just a guy slamming her with his big dick. If you have the personality, the confidence that you can and will satisfy her and that shes going to love you for it then they aren't going to leave you....

I've hooked up with around 10 girls, and every single one of them has come back for more. Just focus on other parts of you.

[u.r.what.u.is]

Hey man, I'm 23 years old with a pretty small penis as well. I used to get super depressed about it and my confidence was really low. My first girlfriends ex had an 8" penis or something enormous he was like 6"6 tall. Yes girls get excited when they see a big penis and they are more pleasing to the eye but once you start getting down they want what ever you have. And because we aren't very big we DO use everything that we have. You wont find many women that get off from just a guy slamming her with his big dick. If you have the personality, the confidence that you can and will satisfy her and that shes going to love you for it then they aren't going to leave you....

I've hooked up with around 10 girls, and every single one of them has come back for more. Just focus on other parts of you.

This is a great post, and I agree with every word of it. But this is a tough message to get across. Anyone who is one millimeter smaller than you are will dismiss what you're saying and assert that you are successful because you are a millimeter larger. I'm exaggerating, but the point is. many guys are convinced they are personally too small for this to apply to them.

I think a large number of women dislike men being ashamed of a small penis much more than a small penis itself.

PS - Good for you, discovering this so young. I didn't really believe this until I was twice your age, and after I got out of a blah marriage.

[spitfire101]

Hey man, I'm 23 years old with a pretty small penis as well. I used to get super depressed about it and my confidence was really low. My first girlfriends ex had an 8" penis or something enormous he was like 6"6 tall. Yes girls get excited when they see a big penis and they are more pleasing to the eye but once you start getting down they want what ever you have. And because we aren't very big we DO use everything that we have. You wont find many women that get off from just a guy slamming her with his big dick. If you have the personality, the confidence that you can and will satisfy her and that shes going to love you for it then they aren't going to leave you....

I've hooked up with around 10 girls, and every single one of them has come back for more. Just focus on other parts of you.

　

　

　

　

Well I am going to be "that guy" and say it cannot be that small to get with 10 girls my friend. I am not saying that all my problems are because of my small penis but just the fact that if I were to be with a girl the first thing I would have to say is "sorry I am WAY to small for a condom." Yeah, being confidant and all that is good but when a dude cannot even wear protection because he is to small there is something wrong. But hey, good for you, I genuinely wish you 10 more if that is in the cards for you.

[Jessie]

KATIE: Does size matter?

LOUISE: Yes! It definitely does! I was with a guy for a couple of months a while back who had a really small one. It was just really thin. I felt quite sorry for him but, to be honest, I just couldn’t put up with it. We had sex about 10 times but I never had a single orgasm – I could barely feel it!

KATIE: I don’t think I’ve ever really had a fella with a small one, but I do agree that size matters. The guy I’ve just split up with thought his was massive and was always going on about how well hung he was but he wasn’t at all. When we split I told him he had a small one and he was gutted!

This is from that tabloid series I have mentioned before.

I swing by that particular site every other month so see if they interview any girls that DONT think size matters but they never seem to find any…

There are hundreds of interview but this resonated with me as it mirrored stuff an ex wrote about me…

She felt sorry for me too… and because I always selected nice girls I guess they pitied me instead of ridiculing me.

[PenisTruth]

KATIE: Does size matter?

LOUISE: Yes! It definitely does! I was with a guy for a couple of months a while back who had a really small one. It was just really thin. I felt quite sorry for him but, to be honest, I just couldn’t put up with it. We had sex about 10 times but I never had a single orgasm – I could barely feel it!

KATIE: I don’t think I’ve ever really had a fella with a small one, but I do agree that size matters. The guy I’ve just split up with thought his was massive and was always going on about how well hung he was but he wasn’t at all. When we split I told him he had a small one and he was gutted!

This is from that tabloid series I have mentioned before.

I swing by that particular site every other month so see if they interview any girls that DONT think size matters but they never seem to find any…

There are hundreds of interview but this resonated with me as it mirrored stuff an ex wrote about me…

She felt sorry for me too… and because I always selected nice girls I guess they pitied me instead of ridiculing me.

My girlfriend is more than 10, more than 14 in fact, years younger than me, and also that many centimeters taller than me (for you who think in inches that is over 5 inches). No, before you start assuming that only the desperate are available... she's not a tall freak, she's incredible looking.

She said she couldn't handle the height difference.

Later she said she couldn't be without me.

Point is, EVEN PEOPLE THEMSELVES will say things that don't apply to you!

FUCK !

I'm staring to see it now : )

YOU guys have all attached your manhood, to the idea that it is LITERALLY your manhood. You're being as dumb as some big cocked guy thinking that because some cock-obsessed bar-fly has sucked his dick, that it means he's special : D

So what's the problem with the above?

You can't date Katie or Louise. But they aren't the two women in the world.

Here's the other way to think about it... you don't have the smallest penis in the world. While you are on pause feeling sorry for yourself there is a guy with AN INCH LESS than you finding the hot, loving women who don't really care so much about that - or find that kind of penis size cute - and he's getting sucked and fucked. : )

If I had taken my girl's opinion as final, we wouldn't be in love...

*WAKE* UP - life is passing you by

I know, because I'm an expert at that, I let it happen for years.

[Jessie]

Its not just Katie and Louise!! If it was just these 2 we wouldnt mind

Try reading the opinions of the other several hundred interviews from all over the UK on that site.

None of the women I have been with could overlook my size.

I understand that theoretically there may be a girl who could overlook the inadequacy but I also understand the chances of meeting her are somewhat remote (unless I tried a lot of women over time and seriously compromised on age/looks/compatibility even more than I am willing to already- and I am far from picky)

I may not have the exact smallest on Earth but I am in the bottom 2% in the UK. I am just above micro, according to clinical studies.

Very large studies (UK) have already shown that if you are in the lowest 16%, and you are in a relationship, your partner is almost certain to consider your size as too small.

You may have already told us (or not) but may I ask what size you are?

[Victimorthecrime]

I really hope you'll put the effort into find a female that is ok w your size Jesse because it's sounds like you have everything else going for you. If you would be willing to overlook some of her "below average" statistics I bet things would work out just fine.

[Jessie]

Oh dont worry I'm very open minded.

I know I'm in no position to be choosy…

[Jessie]

READ THE 3 COMMENTS AFTER THE ARTICLE- NOTE THE GUILT THE WOMEN FEELS

THATS WHAT I INPSIRE IN WOMEN -AT BEST GUILT - AT WORSE REVULSION

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Somebody who was probably Candace Bushnell once said it’s not how big it is, it’s how you use it. But if you’ve ever gone from dating a well-endowed dude to a guy with a much smaller package, you might be quick to dash that idea. You know in this case, it isn’t always true. So what do you do when you’re already really into the guy who’s not so well-hung? One Shecky’s reader dished on her situation, asking for suggestions from ladies who have been there. Be sure and leave your advice in the comments. What would you do?

“I met and started dating my boyfriend of 4 years when I was 25. We had a strong connection from the beginning, and when I discovered he had a smaller penis, it didn’t matter to me. It was big enough – about 4 1/2 inches instead of the standard 6 or 7″ I’d had before – and he was able to satisfy me. We had a decent sex life for two years. We would try new things and use toys occasionally, and then I took a job in another state and we broke up. That’s when I started dating someone new. Let’s call him “Jared.” Jared had a large penis – he was a very well endowed, tall drink of water type. We had amazing sex – better than I ever had with my ex. I felt satisfied in ways I’d completely forgotten.

Unfortunately, my job was a temporary gig, just for a year, so I had to break up with Jared and move back home. I got back with my ex about two months after getting back, and I have been with him ever since then. We have had sex, but it is just not the same. I feel terrible, and I don’t know what to tell him. It’s really frustrating for me that I dread the thought of having sex with him, knowing I’ll have to fake orgasm. I really want to break up, but he’s a good person, I do love him, and I’m afraid “your penis is too small” is not a good enough reason to part ways. I’m afraid I’d be making a big mistake. I don’t know what to do, but I have to do something.”

adrian:18 days ago

• Jane,
  That what I’m talking about. You said you need sex to live a “good life” which is false. Life is not all about sex. That what I mean that you put too much stock Into sex. There are millions of other things to do.
  Studies shoe men have higher sex drive than women.
  Men can easily cum. Just give us 5 minutes and porn and were done. If we stick out penis in your vahina, we’ll cum. Its easier for us. So you’re theory of “if a guy doesn’t organs in two years he will go” doesn’t work since any girl can make a guy cum easily.
  Yes if you NEED a bigger cock to satisfy you, you ARE loose. Plain and simple. If that’s the case just keep looking for a guy thats bigger. Until then. Dont complain. Us guys would lobe to have tight vaginas, but will we break up with a girl if she’s loose? No! But you’re willing to break up with a guy just because his penis isn’t big enough for tour loose vagina. I suggest you kegel.{Reply}
  
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    Kim:16 days ago
    Nope. Every part of this is wrong.
    Some people DO need sex to have a good life. Others don’t.
    Men OFTEN have higher sex drives than women, but not always. I have had a lower sex drive than most of my boyfriends, but notably higher than others.
    Again, SOME men can easily come. Others can’t. Stress, excess alcohol consumption, anti-depressants and other medications, and distraction can inhibit men from coming, even if they want to and try to. If it happens regularly, it’s probably medical and can be corrected. Prescriptions can be changed. Therapy and meditation can help with the stress and distraction. But the guy has to be willing to do something about it. You’re not his mom, taking care of his body is his job, not yours.
    Needing a big cock doesn’t mean you’re loose. Maybe you have a fetish for it, and now that you’ve been exposed you can’t go back. Maybe you’re so convinced that you’re not going to be able too come that you’re unable to relax and let yourself go all the way. Or maybe there’s a different new stress in your life that keeps you from getting into it properly. Moving and new jobs are stressful stuff!
    I’ve been broken up with (after two years) because although I like pretty much everything else, I don’t like to be anally penetrated. In fact, I hate it. Even though it hadn’t been mentioned for the first 20 months, it was apparently a ‘deal breaker’.
    Though I have to admit, kegals are never a bad idea. {Reply}
    

  [*]Jane Doe:25 days ago

  When the sex is great for the small penis guy, and crappy for the unsatisfied girl … then it’s time to go!!

  My boyfriend has a very small penis that does not satisfy me. I have been conflicted about this because I love him, and he’s a pretty terrific guy. But after 2 years I have decided to end the relationship.

  At first I thought that he was terrific enough to overlook the small size of his penis. It’s fine for anal – not taxing at all. I would never do anal with a ‘bigger’ guy. But anal doesn’t get me off.

  And yes, in the right position he can hit my G-Spot. But that right position is me on my back, folded up with my knees up near my shoulders, while he leans in and pounds away. That’s hard to breathe after 20 minutes or so. And in that position I have to have the stimulation for quite a while to experience pleasure (not orgasm, just pleasure). Oral sex from him is not good & it has not improved at all over the past 2 years.

  I use vibrators when I’m with him, but I don’t like the feeling of a vibrator orgasm. It is not very pleasurable and it can be very uncomfortable. (I do orgasm from penetration – very orgasmic, in fact – and I prefer it that way. But it has to be a bigger penis than my boyfriend.)

  I’m tired of not having orgasms (I do not count the uncomfortable vibrator orgasms). I’m tired of feeling INCREDIBLY sexually frustrated. After 2 years I finally feel like it is not a great relationship for me.

  Which is worse: Sexual frustration when I go to sleep at night in my own apartment every night? Or sexual frustration after an hour in bed with my boyfriend???

  He enjoys the sex very much, and is always trying to make things great for me. (He says he knew we were “meant to be together” from the first time we were together because he thinks that my vagina is tight. Talk about guilt!)

  I hung in there for 2 years because I love him, but I feel like have compromised too much. Maybe I should have ended it a long time ago. I have male friends who say that I’m not really in love with him, and basically that I’m shallow & a bad person & I never really loved him.

  But I’ve been thinking about cheating for the past 2 months, so I know it is time to go.

[Victimorthecrime]

It's a free world (in the West) & people have sorts of opinions, preferences, prejudices. Some women don't like short guys, bald guys, hairy guys, glasses. There is not a thing you can do about it. That doesn't mean you have to obsess on it and give up on life.

If I am ever in a romantic relationship again I am going to be right up front & say "if you are looking for a stallion then buy a toy or hit next". Seriously.

Assuming the above posts are legit, all I can say is "good luck" to some of these gals.

[Wutty3]

I would add an admonition to some of these "women" "Good luck and DON'T LET THE DOOR SLAP YOU ON THE ASS ON THE WAY OUT!".

[dvnJ22]

That's just how women are.

[u.r.what.u.is]

That is a good bit of wisdom.

[Jessie]

Well it all seems lovely ... But I have I have an analytical mind

Now a small girls thumb is about an inch and a half .

That's half the size of a micropenis .

And she says she's seen two!!!

So that means she's had astonishing bad luck, cannot judge size, or is lying.

I also am aware of the ucla study that talks about the inadequate 16%

And 50,000 people are more persuasive than one who is probably lying.....

[Victimorthecrime]

Yeah that UCLA study is notorious in the SPS community. I still think that a guy who is confident & on his game will live a life worthy of a man, in the traditional pre-matriarchy sense.

[Jessie]

well maybe… up to a point… but most men like to have acceptance of a woman… without the list of humiliating compromises…

[dvnJ22]

Now a small girls thumb is about an inch and a half .

That's half the size of a micropenis .

And she says she's seen two!!!

So that means she's had astonishing bad luck, cannot judge size, or is lying.

Some people have some pretty big ass thumbs.

[Guest PhuckMyLife]

Based on the situations and the surveys and comments about small penis I'm pretty sure there won't be any more reasons to live this small penis problem is getting unbearable to endure I wish everyone good luck but all I can do Is accept the agony of defeat and wave the white flag

Because this small penis situation is too big to ignore

[Jessie]

jeez, these girls are even more obsessed with the topic than I am.

ps oh and more crap news for me of course…..

http://www.bellanaija.com/2014/05/05/does-size-matter-toni-payne-friends-talk-sex-dbanjs-package/

[Victimorthecrime]

I'll pass.

[malign]

these girls are even more obsessed with the topic than I am.

Jess, I might suggest otherwise: they didn't google your opinion.

I'll repeat myself: First, you're not helping yourself by searching for this stuff. Second, you're not helping anyone else, certainly, and probably not even yourself, by posting it here.

I know some will say I'm advocating burying your head in the sand and ignoring "reality", but seriously, if people were making fun of you for any other reason, would you, a] search out every word that was said and assume that it's the opinion of not only the ones you hear, but everyone else, or b] ignore it?

I'm not going to stop you posting what you find, both because that would appear like censorship and because I think that won't actually stop you from searching for it, it'll just deprive you of the chance to vent about it. But I will ask you (again) whether you think that's the best way to spend your time and the best way to use our site.

[Notdoneyet]

jeez, these girls are even more obsessed with the topic than I am.

ps oh and more crap news for me of course…..

http://www.bellanaij...dbanjs-package/

I wonder how horses and donkeys feel about it?

[Jessie]

I do hate their entitled attitude- its something I hate….

--- but its the ridicule and disgust… and the celebration of the bigger guys… unrelenting…

If I go out of an evening, which is virtually never these days … I hear and see this stuff….

[Jessie]

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This…. on You Tube today…

Malign, I know you said I should comment on my thoughts rather than just posting clips.

And thats fair enough….

Well, I think this clip speaks more than I ever could other than mentioning the girl here is a perfectly average, articulate, decent human being that talks about how other girls view the topic and how even a good looking great guy is effectively crippled by this cruel curse.

"really small… like 4-5 inches?"… I can only commend the documentary maker because he had been ridiculed and rejected in the Uk over size and here he is hearing the exact same stuff over in the USA… and kept a cool head.

Gotta respect that.

[dvnJ22]

That makes me so depressed.