Fred21 Posted July 9, 2014 Report Share Posted July 9, 2014 Whats up guys I felt inspired and decided to write this thinking it may help lift the spirit of some of you. This is coming from a guy who was disregarded and ridiculed as a kid by his own mom because of the size of his genitals, this eventually destroy his personality and self-esteem but is now trying to reconstruct his life and give happiness another chance What if SPS is a more of a mental condition than it is physical? would it help to work on the mental aspect of it than beat ourselves over what we cannot change(physical)? what if we decided to work on becoming more confident individuals? what if we try to become stronger persons rather than whiners? what if we focus more on the positive aspects of our lives rather than the negatives? what if we realize that we are much bigger than such a small part of our body? what if we decide not let what others think affect us? What if we only give importance to what we think about ourselves? what if we start thinking more positive about ourselves? what if we start learning to love ourselves and put this self-love as a priority in life instead of expecting love and acceptance from others?What if we were sent to earth to fight a great battle and become strong warriors? I mean wouldn't we be the toughest individuals out there if we learn to put up with the amount of crap we have put up with? what if we are angels on a mission to destroy and debunk the damaging porn industry(except at amateur level)? what if we give ourselves a chance to look for happiness from within rather than the outside? What if we start to disregard people who are superficial and understand that they are not better than us? what if we start looking for smarter people who look beyond the outside and judge on your character and personality?what if decide to help others instead of beating ourselves? what if we work on our own happiness and make it priority? what if we present ourselves as confident and happy individuals? would it make a difference? What if we decided to get up from our defeats and get stronger?What if we give all this possibilities a chance? after all are we not the only ones responsible for our own happiness? because if we keep expecting happiness from others it will simply never come. After all what is better happiness or sadness? self loathing or self-loving? And one last thing are we the size of our genitals or the size our attitudes, heart, mind and spirit? ShameOnThem, Lenafug, IrmaJean and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wastedlife Posted July 9, 2014 Report Share Posted July 9, 2014 What if SPS is a more of a mental condition than it is physical?But its not...i got a small penis and i'm inferior to man with larger penises in the society that we live in (and i agree with this). Plus how can any grown ass man be happy when they wake up ever morning and see pathetic 10 year old boys penis attached to his body (even if there was no stigma and constant jokes from society about it I would still not like my penis). This is like saying to really ugly person who has a dream of becoming A&F model "keep trying man one day they will see the inner beauty" this is not the world we live in. I personally appreciate what you are saying but i don't think it applies to guys with small penises. Small penis not only ruins your sex life but obliterates yourself confidence which in turn ruins your life if every aspect. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fred21 Posted July 9, 2014 Author Report Share Posted July 9, 2014 But its not...i got a small penis and i'm inferior to man with larger penises in the society that we live in (and i agree with this). .So that's it? you decide to live unhappily and beat yourself all the time? I have small genitals and I will never see myself as inferior compare to anybody, trust me never, and I come from a country where nearly every man has a horse dick, where average is considered tiny. I try to keep my self-esteem high as high as possible. I've been laughed at and humilated by own mother, but I learned they are the inferiors not me. I tell you are the size of your attitudes not genitals. what about guys like Shia Lebeouf or Daniel Radcliff? they have small genitals but they are amazing and successful individuals, you think they became what they became by beating themeselves up all the time? If I am happy with my penis despite the struggle and humiliation why cant you be? Oh! let me guess maybe its my attitude towards life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted July 9, 2014 Report Share Posted July 9, 2014 I see both points. Guys that are on the far low end of the distribution curve have been dealt a shitty and unfair hand. But I also agree that part of being a man is taking the pain, the body blows, and just grabbing the reigns and heading straight into battle each day. PenisTruth 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted July 9, 2014 Report Share Posted July 9, 2014 You can what if all you want, but your wrong. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted July 9, 2014 Report Share Posted July 9, 2014 the 2 individuals may well be fine when hardif they were my size there is no way they would be movie stars- as a real small dick would have destroyed them and actors need confidence Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeep Posted July 9, 2014 Report Share Posted July 9, 2014 Edit: sorrry a bit patronising, maybe I will reword it when I am less tired. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wastedlife Posted July 10, 2014 Report Share Posted July 10, 2014 So that's it? you decide to live unhappily and beat yourself all the time?I didn't decide anything. Fate decided for me when it put me in a world where man with large penises get worshiped by women/society and ones with small penises are constant punch lines in small penis jokes, also a reality where you need large penis for best sex... ba51th 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShameOnThem Posted July 10, 2014 Report Share Posted July 10, 2014 i'm in favor of this line of thinking, it seems like it's really the only answer to what is afflicting all of us, outside of some surgical breakthrough. Anybody can choose to be miserable or happy, and we can be confident in everything about ourselves except for being able to just stick our dick in a vagina and make it orgasm. We'll always have to work more at sex, but most of what affects us regarding sps is entirely mental and not physical. Confidence is everything, thanks, Fred. Victimorthecrime and frank123 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted July 10, 2014 Report Share Posted July 10, 2014 I didn't decide anything. Faith decided for me when it put me in a world where man with large penises get worshiped by women/society and ones with small penises are constant punch lines in small penis jokes, also a reality where you need large penis for best sex...Exactly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fred21 Posted July 10, 2014 Author Report Share Posted July 10, 2014 But its not...i got a small penis and i'm inferior to man with larger penises in the society that we live in (and i agree with this). am a very small 5.25 length and 4.5 a I believe some members of my family are similar yet they bang and live happy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wutty3 Posted July 10, 2014 Report Share Posted July 10, 2014 Watedlife I'm nit picking here but it wasn't your "faith" that decided for you. It was "fate". I too suffer your fate. dvnJ22 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted July 12, 2014 Report Share Posted July 12, 2014 am a very small 5.25 length and 4.5 a I believe some members of my family are similar yet they bang and live happy.STFU. Jesus fucking christ it's average. Your mocking everyone here with this. ba51th 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Senior penor Posted July 13, 2014 Report Share Posted July 13, 2014 STFU. Jesus fucking christ it's average. Your mocking everyone here with this.You need to wind you're neck in Kid Remember NOT everyone who comes here actually has a small penis (hell some dont even have penises at all).SPS is a mental illness - just because some guy has 5" or more does not mean that he wont suffer from SPS tooand if a guy with 5"+ does suffer from SPS then he will perceive his penis to be just as useless as you perceive your own to be - affecting his confidence and his ability to even have sex or even bother mixing with the opposite sex for fear of being laughed at and ridiculed, Nobody chooses to have a mental illness just like Nobody would choose to have a micro penis.so please ffs treat people with a degree of respect and learn that you dont have the right to treat people like you do just because they are DIFFERENT to you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gone Posted July 13, 2014 Report Share Posted July 13, 2014 You need to wind you're neck in KidRemember NOT everyone who comes here actually has a small penis (hell some dont even have penises at all).SPS is a mental illness - just because some guy has 5" or more does not mean that he wont suffer from SPS tooand if a guy with 5"+ does suffer from SPS then he will perceive his penis to be just as useless as you perceive your own to be - affecting his confidence and his ability to even have sex or even bother mixing with the opposite sex for fear of being laughed at and ridiculed, Nobody chooses to have a mental illness just like Nobody would choose to have a micro penis.so please ffs treat people with a degree of respect and learn that you dont have the right to treat people like you do just because they are DIFFERENT to youGood point. I've wondered before in a thread if the actually small guys even have SPS. I mean, we DO have a small one, not just a mental problem. Maybe you need an average or larger to suffer from SPS.After all, you're not a hypochondriac if you really ARE sick. I don't see how you can have sps if you really ARE small. or maybe I'm wrong....it's happened before. Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted July 13, 2014 Report Share Posted July 13, 2014 I have said this a few times- maybe guys of my small size should not be here as its not a mental issue for me- its a physical one.on the other hand maybe the solutions SPS sufferers use could help me too. dunno. gone 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted July 14, 2014 Report Share Posted July 14, 2014 Here is a fact: in March I had a close friend die of cancer. It started as rectal cancer and spread to lung and brain. He would have given anything to have his biggest problem be a small penis. Five years of suffering culminating in a slow painful death. I am not saying being small or having no sex life doesn't blow big time but there is such a thing as context and proportionality. Jessie, gone, Senior penor and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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