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no offense glenn, but you seem to associate with some pretty stupid chicks.

No she's very smart actually and gorgeous too. I think most women feel the same way she does.

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glenn, are you sure you're evaluating her intelligence with the head on your shoulders and not the other one? ;)

No. She's not bimbo cute she's smart girl kinda cute. We just disagreed on this one point. I actually met her on a forum for guys with small dicks. She's one of those that doesn't care about size at all. She dated aguy with a small one for a long time.

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This is only place I have ever encountered where men can talk. The hateful feminists have a million blogs on Jezelbel, Huffington Post etc

You're right. I agree; this place is one of a kind. It's right that men should be able to speak freely here, when there is nowhere else for such men to speak.

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Here's what I think could explain "some women don't care about size";

They didn't experience a big one yet, or their experience with one was spoiled by bad technique, lack of foreplay, or lack of romantic interest and overall arousal. There could be cultural or personality issues, but that's kind of a grey area.

Not to discredit any womans opinion, but how can a woman seriously "not (ever) care about size"?

Surely, a vagina is an extremely sensitive part of the body. A big penis not only stretches the walls of a vagina, but it pushes fluids of arousal (ie "motion of the ocean") back and forth with more force. Not only that, but a big penis can be pushed to different angles, causing even greater pressure on vagina walls.

Bottom line, all women are potential size queens. Or could someone argue differently?

Maybe I should delete this post... -_-

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ok, but i still disagree on that most women are as naive as her.

I do. You go to the Youtube videos for that song and read the comments. Basically there are two groups of comments. Girls saying what a great song it is and how it's their favorite song etc and guys who are angry about it. Most of the girls just tell the guys to lighten up, it's just a joke, they're just having fun.

That's how the see it. They don't understand why guys get so bent out of shape about it.

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Here's what I think could explain "some women don't care about size";

They didn't experience a big one yet, or their experience with one was spoiled by bad technique, lack of foreplay, or lack of romantic interest and overall arousal. There could be cultural or personality issues, but that's kind of a grey area.

Not to discredit any womans opinion, but how can a woman seriously "not (ever) care about size"?

Surely, a vagina is an extremely sensitive part of the body. A big penis not only stretches the walls of a vagina, but it pushes fluids of arousal (ie "motion of the ocean") back and forth with more force. Not only that, but a big penis can be pushed to different angles, causing even greater pressure on vagina walls.

Bottom line, all women are potential size queens. Or could someone argue differently?

Maybe I should delete this post... -_-

Why delete?

Sometimes I feel this way and sometimes I don't. I think there are basically three types of women. Group one is women who love a bigger dick and would much prefer to have one. Group two is women who really don't care about size and prefer something medium to small. Then there are those who don't put much importance on size and won't go out of their way to find a bigger one but if one should come along she'll enjoy it.

What percentage of women fit into each group I have no idea. There are so many variables you have to take into account to make that determination.

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I have a question for anyone who wants to answer. I got into a conversation about all this stuff, penis size and how it effects guys, with a female friend of mine. We got around to talking about that song Short Dick Man and I said I couldn't believe they wrote a song whose lyrics consist of the worst things you can say to a guy. She disagreed and said that she didn't think that was the worst thing you could say to a guy. So I asked her what did she think would be worse? She said calling him stupid would be worse. I'm like WTF? you think calling a guy stupid is worse than ridiculing him for having a small dick?

What do you guys think?

It's conversations like this that I've had with women that leads me to believe that they just don't get it. Probably never will either.

You mean this song?

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And what do you find most offending then; the song by itself or the fact that is has a view rate of over 2mln?

I think the woman is being honest. She's one of those that doesn't care about size at all. She dated aguy with a small one for a long time. This says it all, right? When it isn't a problem for her (and she really believes so), it's quite logic that she can't understand why it would be a problem for you (I see now how it could even be insulting to partners in a really weird way).

I don't think you can blame people for their ignorance, jokes will be made about everything and everyone.

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Here's what I think could explain "some women don't care about size";

Not to discredit any womans opinion, but how can a woman seriously "not (ever) care about size"?

I think we all have our own personal view of the world and what we hold meaningful and "how things work" for us. I think too it can be easy to naturally believe that others view things the same way that we do when they actually don't.

What is meaningful to me, what makes intimacy so special to me, what I get pleasure from may not be what you are thinking. Many things are a factor, my feelings about relationships, my feelings about the person, what matters to me...

Reading something like "not experiencing a big one yet" makes me feel a little sick inside. In my view, men are not objects here for women to experience their penises. When I am with someone, I'm not with a penis...I'm with a person so my experience is with a person. I'm thinking about that person and my love and care and how I want to share and express love. He expresses himself with his body too and he is sharing his most vulnerable part of himself with me, there is the gift of sharing and being physically, emotionally, and spiritually close with another person, that is where the pleasure is for me. the respect, the gentleness, the tenderness, the love...

Things may be different for each person and I respect that, but for me it's all about love, sharing, and connection.

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Sorry for that disgusting post yesterday. My anger comes up when I post here.

Of course, it came across as "women are liars"...that's not what I mean at all. I didn't mean it to read that way. I did want to delete the post, as you can see, but my post was immediately quoted.

Some women don't care about size - that's true - but my personal experience leads me to believe that they are capable in the future of caring about size, not just in an objectifiying way but as an aspect of love.

I'm with a person so my experience is with a person. I'm thinking about that person and my love and care and how I want to share and express love. He expresses himself with his body too and he is sharing his most vulnerable part of himself with me, there is the gift of sharing and being physically, emotionally, and spiritually close with another person, that is where the pleasure is for me. the respect, the gentleness, the tenderness, the love...

That describes times when I've been in love on two occasions.

Yet, those girls both had a very different sexual experience after me with their next lovers, and they, and their lovers (my friends) bragged about it to me and everyone I knew.

I'm not trying to say it's about being an object. A penis is a part of a mans body, and if you love the man you love the body. I'm just saying that since his body causes more physical pleasure, she loved it, him and being with him more. It was more exciting, more satisfying.

I guess maybe I'm a little confused here. I don't know.

It's like if you had a toy when you were a child that you loved very much. Then you get older and you get new toys and you throw the old one in a box. When you get older, you might open that box and think about the connection you once had with that toy, but for most of your life you'll basically forget most of the time that it ever existed. This is how I see the concept of "new love".

Many people love more than once, and will say things like "he was my best love" etc. If someone was a "better love", it could be because of many factors. But I see no reason why more exciting and satisfying sex (as can often be most intimate moment of connection between two people) couldn't be one of them.

By chance, me and this woman could have stayed together all our lives. She would never have known that there was a better love out there for her, and may have been perfectly satisfied with me. That's great. Nothing wrong with that.

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I think we all have our own personal view of the world and what we hold meaningful and "how things work" for us. I think too it can be easy to naturally believe that others view things the same way that we do when they actually don't.

What is meaningful to me, what makes intimacy so special to me, what I get pleasure from may not be what you are thinking. Many things are a factor, my feelings about relationships, my feelings about the person, what matters to me...

Reading something like "not experiencing a big one yet" makes me feel a little sick inside. In my view, men are not objects here for women to experience their penises. When I am with someone, I'm not with a penis...I'm with a person so my experience is with a person. I'm thinking about that person and my love and care and how I want to share and express love. He expresses himself with his body too and he is sharing his most vulnerable part of himself with me, there is the gift of sharing and being physically, emotionally, and spiritually close with another person, that is where the pleasure is for me. the respect, the gentleness, the tenderness, the love...

Things may be different for each person and I respect that, but for me it's all about love, sharing, and connection.

Sorry.

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This is the kind of stuff that hurts. Not sure how real it is as it's on the internet. Anybody can make shit up on the internet but supposedly it's views from English college girls.

METITIA: I had a one-night stand with a lad in my halls of residence who had a really massive todger. It was about eight inches long. He had a great athletic body too. I couldn’t contain myself when I saw how big it was and was desperate to get him into bed. It was the best sex of my life and lasted all night.

ROSIE: The biggest one I’ve had was about nine inches and that was a guy I had a brief fling with. When I first saw it, I was over the moon because my friends had told me big willies are ace.

SAM: There was one guy who had such a small penis. It was really, really small. I decided to have sex with him and get it over with. The problem was I started pretending to cum but he hadn’t even put it in at the time. That was bad. Even when he did manage to get it in it didn’t make much difference.

FIONA: What’s the biggest willy you’ve ever seen?

ALI: That would be my current boyfriend — nine inches.

FIONA: So you think size matters?

ALI: Yeah, definitely. Girth is important too, you don’t want a thin dick because it won’t fill you up.

FIONA: I think girth’s important. I don’t know about my biggest but at a guess I’d say eight inches.

MIA: What’s the largest you’ve had?

SASKIA: A bloke I slept with turned out to have one that must have been nearly five inches around. It was like a flagpole and my jaw just hit the floor when I saw it. I thought it would give me the ride of my life but it made my eyes water!

MIA: The biggest I’ve had was nine inches when fully erect. But to honest, it was a bit of a let down. He just relied on his size rather than technique.

WORST SEX

NATALIE: I was having sex with this guy when he slipped out of me. But he didn’t notice and just carried on – he was having sex with the mattress! I’m not sure if he climaxed, but it was horrible and I didn’t have the heart to tell him. How about you?

JENNA: Mine wasn’t particularly the sex, it was how I felt after. I remember waking the morning after shagging this bloke and seeing a birthday card from his girlfriend. I felt pretty lousy. Actually, come to think of it, the sex was crap too. He put a condom on and it wouldn’t fit.

NATALIE: Because he was tiny?

JENNA: Yes. I hate it when that happens.

EMILY: Ever seen a really massive one?

SIAN: A bloke I had a one night stand with had an 11-incher. I remember walking into the pub and he was stood at the bar. It was so big you could see it through his trousers and I knew right then I wanted to take him home that night. When I did I wasn’t disappointed, he had me gasping all night.

EMILY: My biggest was 10 inches and it made me a firm believer in bigger is better. The guy was able to touch me in all the right places and hit parts no one else had before. Wish I’d kept his number.

ISOBEL: What’s the biggest willy you’ve had?

SAMMI: What in length?

ISOBEL: Yeah.

SAMMI: I think it’s more about girth than length. I mean as long as it isn’t ridiculously tiny I don’t think length matters.

ISOBEL: Come on, how long?

SAMMI: I don’t know, I’ve never really measured but I guess about seven inches. Now your turn.

ISOBEL: Eight inches is the biggest I’ve had. But I don’t think it’s the size that matters, either. I’m sure there are guys who have massive willies but are crap in bed. It’s not what you’ve got it’s what you make of it.

LISA: What’s the biggest willy you’ve ever seen?

GEMMA: My current boyfriend’s. And that’s probably why he is my current boyfriend. He has the biggest and best I’ve seen. It’s a lovely cock.

LISA: How big is it?

GEMMA: Nine inches, when erect. And let me tell you, size really does matter.

LISA: Yes, but it’s about the length, the girth and how they use it too. Of course it matters, but any size will do for me – I’m really not that fussy!

GEMMA: So what’s your biggest?

LISA: I’d say about eight inches.

LUCY: My ex’s was quite big, about seven inches on the slack. It’s hard to compare willy sizes though because small ones on big blokes look tiny, but on a small guy they look bigger. Have you encountered any trouser monsters?

GEMMA: My biggest was probably a French guy I met on holiday. He had a seven-incher too, but it was also really thick. I remember when it went in what a tight squeeze it felt. I was a bit scared he wouldn’t be able to get it back out again – ha ha!

LUCY: Do you prefer big willies to small ones?

MARIANNE: I do but as long as they know how to use what they’ve got, size isn’t that big an issue. Big ones are generally better though.

LUCY: What’s the biggest one you’ve had?

MARIANNE: About 10 inches. It was a guy I had a one-night stand with. It felt amazing and he gave me loads of orgasms.

LUCY: My boyfriend at the moment has the biggest one I’ve had. It’s about eight inches long.

MARIANNE: Do you think size makes a difference?

LUCY: It’s definitely a bonus but I think how they use what they’ve got is much more important than size.

JOANNE: Does size matter?

LOUISA: Yes – definitely! I was with a guy for a couple of months a while back who had a really small one. It was such a shame because he was great at foreplay, but when it came to having sex I could hardly feel it. I once had to ask him if it was in yet!

JOANNE: I don’t think I’ve ever really had a fella with a small one, but I do agree that size matters. The bigger the better as far as I’m concerned!

JULIE: I’m lucky to have my current boyfriend – his willy is massive. It must be seven inches long and it’s easily the biggest and the best willy I’ve ever had.

LEANNE: Does he know how to use it?

JULIE: He’s amazing in bed. That, coupled with the fact he’s got a big one, makes for a fantastic sex life.

LEANNE: I’ve got a shag buddy who’s got a big one. It’s about eight inches long. When I first had sex with him and saw how big it was, I had big expectations.

JULIE: Did he fulfill them?

LEANNE: No, the sex was average because he just lay there. He’s got better since though. I think size matters.

NICOLA: Have you ever been with a lad who had a big willy?

JAYNE: Yes, my ex was hung like a bloody elephant. It was nearly 10 inches long – it was scary when I first saw it.

NICOLA: How was the sex?

JAYNE: It was good but it was a bit of a struggle to get it in at first. It was no better than any other willy.

NICOLA: I’ve never had anything over six inches, which has always satisfied me, but I’d like to try a bigger one as well – just to find out what it feels like I suppose.

Holly: Do you think size matters?

Olivia: I know it must be hard for fellas who have got a small willy but I really think size does matter. Although if it is too big it can have problems too. I went out with one fella who had such a big cock that if we had a big session I could barely walk the next day.

Holly: My Dave has got a huge one and he certainly knows what to do with it. His is so big I always joke that he could be a porn star. The first time we had sex I couldn’t believe my eyes when he unzipped his trousers and saw the size of it. As soon as I saw it I knew he was the man for me!

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Depressing. Ever wish you had been born a woman? life would be so much better.

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Yes. I wish I had been born a women.

Cool. What would your name be? I think I would like to be a Haley. About 5' 5". Long dark hair and a nice ass. Maybe in my next life. :lol:

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Yes. I wish I had been born a woman.

Oh, God, I don't. Menstrual cycle? Childbirth? Hot flashes? Too dangerous to leave the house at night in most cities? No thanks.

Admittedly, my life as a man is better than what most of you have to deal with.

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