modestman Posted December 26, 2014 Report Share Posted December 26, 2014 From another forum. This man was promiscuous earlier, and is happily married now.I have a tiny little penis.... It's rather slender and a bit over three inches. Picture your thumb on steroids. (Just made myself laugh with that image!)I've never been shy about it though. My wife thinks that I overcompensated before I met her and was attempting to be a male slut! So I had lots of experience and yes I have been told it was too small, for intercourse. I still had sex with the women and was still able to satisfy them, just by other means. Only once did the girl suddenly acquire a horrible headache and decide she had to leave after finding out my size. No big deal (pun intended).So yes, I've gotten some giggles and a gasp or two. I've always been matter-of-fact about it though, like "Yeah, I know, it's a tiny thing, but I love doing naughty things to a woman as beautiful and sexy as you," as I'd slowly begin working her entire body over with soft kisses and strokes.So I've only actually been totally rejected the one time. Others didn't want to fuck but they always got me off and I them. I received an awful lot of quickie hand jobs and some oral. It's like that saying when the girl asks who you're going to get off with "That" little thing? Me! I'd get her off in other ways. It all works out and while some were obviously surprised by how small I'm built, none of them were ever mean about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted December 26, 2014 Report Share Posted December 26, 2014 From another forum. This man was promiscuous earlier, and is happily married now.Quote:"I have a tiny little penis.... It's rather slender and a bit over three inches. Picture your thumb on steroids. (Just made myself laugh with that image!)I've never been shy about it though. My wife thinks that I overcompensated before I met her and was attempting to be a male slut! So I had lots of experience and yes I have been told it was too small, for intercourse. I still had sex with the women and was still able to satisfy them, just by other means. Only once did the girl suddenly acquire a horrible headache and decide she had to leave after finding out my size. No big deal (pun intended).So yes, I've gotten some giggles and a gasp or two. I've always been matter-of-fact about it though, like "Yeah, I know, it's a tiny thing, but I love doing naughty things to a woman as beautiful and sexy as you," as I'd slowly begin working her entire body over with soft kisses and strokes.So I've only actually been totally rejected the one time. Others didn't want to fuck but they always got me off and I them. I received an awful lot of quickie hand jobs and some oral. It's like that saying when the girl asks who you're going to get off with "That" little thing? Me! I'd get her off in other ways. It all works out and while some were obviously surprised by how small I'm built, none of them were ever mean about it."unfortunately, statements like these only reinforce the idea that small penises are inadequate for intercourse, which is what most men are primarily interested in sexually.and i really hope this part doesn't apply to his wife as well: "Others didn't want to fuck but they always got me off and I them. I received an awful lot of quickie hand jobs and some oral. It's like that saying when the girl asks who you're going to get off with "That" little thing? Me! I'd get her off in other ways". Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest glennj Posted December 26, 2014 Report Share Posted December 26, 2014 Not really a success story. Just anecdotes from someone who was fortunate to be born with the "right" brain to go with his "wrong" penis.I wish I had a brain that worked that way or a bigger penis. One or the other. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted December 27, 2014 Report Share Posted December 27, 2014 Yeah but it's still sad that none of his women enjoyed intercourse w him and some did not want to try. But I really do admire his attitude. The mouse that roared! Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest glennj Posted December 27, 2014 Report Share Posted December 27, 2014 But he still got to be with them. To share some kind of physical interaction. That's more than I ever got. If I met a woman I was really attracted to and I like being with I would be content with no sexual intercourse as long as I got to experience her body as much as I wanted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Strawberrypam Posted December 30, 2014 Report Share Posted December 30, 2014 "the mouse that roared" lol that was pretty funny and kinda mean. i been with all kinds of men, of all shapes and sizes… and the best lovers were smaller. Also i know a lot of very attractive women who prefer smaller than bigger. to me its the motion of the ocean not the size. modestman and Victimorthecrime 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymous2014 Posted December 31, 2014 Report Share Posted December 31, 2014 I just wish all the woman in the world who think this would stand up and be counted. There are guys out there who are suffering horrible mental torment over this issue - even some whose size is entirely in the normal range.There are some truly heartbreaking stories on this forum :-(Don't believe everything you read, Watcher.(I meant the woman's comments, not the guys' heartbreaking stories)Happy New Year! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymous2014 Posted January 1, 2015 Report Share Posted January 1, 2015 What seems peculiarly tragic to me about SPS victims is that they apparently *do* believe anything and everything that they read or see just so long as it reenforces the complex. But at the same time they are (at best) highly sceptical about any information which runs counter.I really wish there was something which I could do to help. But (as a poster pointed out on another thread) dismorphobia is a serious matter and can't just be switched off :-(But yeah, happy new year all round. Some of you dudes really deserve some happiness and peace, one way or another.I base what I believe on real life experiences. I am not even small, I'm average, yet not one of the 20+women I was with stayed very long. Information that runs counter, in my opinion, comprises more than a pity post from a newbie who was probably so distraught with the pathetic stories she's read on this forum, she basically wrote what the readers wanted to hear, I'm pushing forty and I've never heard any woman say she prefers smaller over bigger. Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted January 1, 2015 Report Share Posted January 1, 2015 Hate to agree but the research overwhelmingly confirms womens strong preference for larger penises.ps happy new year… Anonymous2014 and DatDude90 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest glennj Posted January 1, 2015 Report Share Posted January 1, 2015 What research? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted January 1, 2015 Report Share Posted January 1, 2015 Google it Glen. There have been several widely reported studies on this subject in the last 2-3 years. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DatDude90 Posted January 1, 2015 Report Share Posted January 1, 2015 Hate to agree but the research overwhelmingly confirms womens strong preference for larger penises.ps happy new year…Based on what I've read, the general ideal size is 7x5.5-6, in theory bigger is better. I think anything less than 6 or 7 inches will leave the woman unsatisfied to a certain degree. That's just regarding penetration of course, in some cases you can make up for lack of length with oral sex. That's assuming she is content with achieving orgasm by any means possible, and doesn't just desire it through intercourse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted January 1, 2015 Report Share Posted January 1, 2015 Based on what I've read, the general ideal size is 7x5.5-6, in theory bigger is better. I think anything less than 6 or 7 inches will leave the woman unsatisfied to a certain degree. That's just regarding penetration of course, in some cases you can make up for lack of length with oral sex. That's assuming she is content with achieving orgasm by any means possible, and doesn't just desire it through intercourse.as jessie will also tell you, it's not just about orgasm. penetration is important to women on more than one level. modestman 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DatDude90 Posted January 1, 2015 Report Share Posted January 1, 2015 as jessie will tell you, it's not just about orgasm. penetration is important to women on more than one level.That is the unfortunate truth. Thinking a woman will settle for lack luster intercourse in exchange for good oral sex or any other means of sexual pleasure, is pretty damn idealistic. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted January 1, 2015 Report Share Posted January 1, 2015 If a guy is in the top 68% of size within his context he probably has a partner 'ok' with his size.Thats not to say his size is perfect for his partner but simply that she is ok with it.For guys in the bottom 16% they have it bad as they almost certainly will have a partner unsatisfied by their size.For guys like me in the bottom 5% we summer emasculation, ridicule, rejection, loneliness etcAs for evidence- off the top of my head….Sources?UCLA Study 2008 "Lifespan Impact"KellermanEisemanMautzThought Catalogue SurveyPubMedPsychology todayScottish Study 2012UCLA 2014Articles/views?Em & LoCatherine TownsendCarlin RossBetty DobsonCosmoMarie ClaireMumsnetNetmumsCafemomMedia?MadonnaGagaRhiannaSwiftAgueleraAllen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted January 1, 2015 Report Share Posted January 1, 2015 I do try to.But I would have to throw away my TV my phone my radio my computer….Never listen to the news or to music or watch films.Its very difficult to isolate yourself from size comments in life…..ps Im never going to meet those singers obviously- however their attitude is ubiquitous - they are the mainstream… Resolute 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted January 1, 2015 Report Share Posted January 1, 2015 i hear you jessie. and much of this applies to most aspects of an individuals traits/qualities (specs), not just the penis. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted January 1, 2015 Report Share Posted January 1, 2015 I agree that the Australian study was flawed for the reasons listed but found the Scottish 2012 study to be damning as it specifically targeted women who reported that they do indeed orgasm via intercourse and a majority of those women reported a preference for a longer than average penis. I read it in Huffington Post among other publications. Happy New Year! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymous2014 Posted January 1, 2015 Report Share Posted January 1, 2015 I'm sorry to hear that, I'm sorry you've suffered pain in your life.But this is plainly not the experience of *most* men in the world whose size is in the normal range.I guess I'm just lucky we have trolls like you on this forum to point that out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted January 1, 2015 Report Share Posted January 1, 2015 http://m.livescience.com/23785-penis-size-matters-orgasms.htmlYou can try this link if you like re the study we mentioned. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted January 1, 2015 Report Share Posted January 1, 2015 Thanks for the link, Victim.It's an interesting and nuanced piece, which I see also incorporates sceptical expert opinion (such as Barry Komisaruk from Rutgers University.)I think (as I myself said on another recent thread) there is no doubt that penis size can and does matter especially for some women who orgasm in some ways. So I don't think I would actually disagree with any of this, really. (But I'd agree with Komisaruk, that there is a quite wide variation in preference.)I am much more sceptical about the Australian study - I think it has significant flaws for the reasons I said above. I think for women "size" has to do with how an erect penis feels, not so much how a flaccid penis looks in aesthetic terms.Either way, it is a fact that most men are relatively near to average (whatever that is.) And society couldn't very well function if most men were being rejected by most women. So what I find so sad are stories (such as Glenn's) where guys who are completely regular dudes are troubled about their size.i don't wanna be the bearer of bad news watcher, but who says society is actually functioning properly?this is the age of materialism and shallowness, and everyone wants more and better of everything, and penises are no exception.now i'm not saying that most guys are necessarily being rejected for penis size per se, but it is an area of significant consideration to many women nowadays. why settle for "regular" when you can get "jumbo"?same goes for money, looks, etc..and in cases where women do settle for someone with a sub-par (or sub-ideal) characteristic(s), they can always (or often) cheat, since there are no significant foreseeable repercussions in most cases, these days. or just divorce the unsatisfactory guy and replace him with a newer and improved model.so, in short, i really don't think society is functional. Victimorthecrime 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted January 1, 2015 Report Share Posted January 1, 2015 Wow really good posts on this thread. Just some random thoughts:I would like to ask Glenn - if your measurements were 8" X 6" tomorrow what impact would that have on your life? I suspect it would make little if any difference. I agree society is disfunctional and becoming more so but I don't know if it is out of the norm of human history or not. I believe that more and more men are being reject by women. Many women I work w have children and little to no relationship to the fathers. One of the on line trends in 2014 was guys advertising "no strings natural insemination" to women that just want their genes - brains Heath and looks.Women are married to their jobs or to the social services they receive. Men have been replaced. That said I want to reiterate that I intend to live 2015 w a positive but fact based sober state of mind where I pursue my self interest but in a win win kind of way for the most part. Food for thought. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest glennj Posted January 1, 2015 Report Share Posted January 1, 2015 http://m.livescience...rs-orgasms.htmlYou can try this link if you like re the study we mentioned.Quote "In the new study, Brody and his colleagues asked 323 women, mostly Scottish university students...........They found that 160 of the women experienced vaginal-only orgasms and had enough sexual partners to compare size experiences. Of these, 33.8 percent preferred longer-than-average penises, 60 percent said size made no difference and 6.3 percent said longer was less pleasurable than shorter."So 66.3% preferred average or less for vaginal orgasm. That sounds like MOST to me.and for non vaginal ie clitoral orgasm penis size doesn't matter at all. Perhaps we should start measuring our tongues and fingers too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest glennj Posted January 1, 2015 Report Share Posted January 1, 2015 Wow really good posts on this thread. Just some random thoughts:I would like to ask Glenn - if your measurements were 8" X 6" tomorrow what impact would that have on your life? I suspect it would make little if any difference. Not now it wouldn't. I have far bigger problems in my life now than dating, women and the size of my dick. However put me in a time machine and take me back to 1977 with my 8 x 6 and the following 40 years would be much different.I seriously doubt many men if any are being divorced because of the size of their dick. If women divorce guys it's usually because HE cheated not her. I read somewhere the other day a woman saying she left her husband because he spent all day on the computer and was cheating on her and she said he was smaller than average. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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