females views etc (Trigger Warning!)

[Victimorthecrime]

I kind of like that girl. I subscribed to her channel.

[Jessie]

THIS IS QUITE A GOOD RESPONSE FROM STOYA- A PORN STAR WHO DOES A BIT OF SEX ADVICE FOR THE VERGE:

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"I have a smaller-than-average penis and am very self-concious about it. It's just over 4 inches in length and getting naked in front of any partner is extremely nerve-racking for me, so much so that my inability to do so has resulted in relationships ending. I can't bring myself to talk about it with my partners, either, as I feel embarrassed about it and worry they'll laugh at me. I don't know how to move on from where I am considering enlargement surgery, but my doctor has warned against this due to the numerous complications that can arise." -O

Seriously. Put the rulers down. Have this hug instead.

CONSIDER A SEX-POSITIVE THERAPISTBefore you give any more thought to throwing down thousands of dollars on a risky and sometimes useless surgical procedure, consider seeing a sex-positive therapist. I’m certain that your penis is more than adequate and that plenty of potential partners wouldn’t bat an eyelash, but I’m also certain that there are people in the world who — because of insensitivity, naiveté, or outright cruelty — might laugh at you. Which sucks, but it is a real possibility. Working through the insecurity you feel about your body is going to take some effort, but it will also help you understand any rejections as an incompatibility of attributes and preferences that is out of your control. Plus, it will give you some tools to protect yourself emotionally from potentially thoughtless or mean reactions.

[Jessie]

I kind of like that girl. I subscribed to her channel.

I wish you handnt,

It makes me sad that she is so popular.

I accept that she is articulate and logical- that makes it all the sadder for me…..

[Guest RandomDude]

Jessie, Victim

Okay, so between you, you guys did it - you persuaded me to spend another X mins of my life watching a Jessie youtube video!

Yeah, it is more interesting than the last one. More nuanced maybe. She is honest to say that she likely isn't typical of most 'ordinary' women.

But still, she talks at one point about a 14 inch penis as if she has actually seen one (which again sets off my bullshit alarm - cos I have no doubts that this is literally one in a million size that very few women have ever seen.)

I find it odd she talks about length only not mentioning girth at all. (For most size queens girth is more important than length.)

And that crazy stuff about liking to be choked or hit during sex? Damit, one of these days shes going to have a guy kill her! (And who'll be to blame?)

[Victimorthecrime]

RD - she does seem like a self promoter but her misty-eyed passion for kinky encounters seemed genuine enough as evidenced by the awakening of the mighty bishop.

[Victimorthecrime]

I wish you handnt,

It makes me sad that she is so popular.

I accept that she is articulate and logical- that makes it all the sadder for me…..

I was just on her (Tara Babcock) Instagram and here is what I saw - fake hair, fake boobs, fake lips, even fake eyes (blue contacts)!! I could probably be good looking to if everything about me was FAKE.

[Guest RandomDude]

I was just on her (Tara Babcock) Instagram and here is what I saw - fake hair, fake boobs, fake lips, even fake eyes (blue contacts)!! I could probably be good looking to if everything about me was FAKE.

Yeah, Ive been thinking over my last post, and I reckon she (in fact like 99% of these youtube videos) is full of baloney.

She is saying she wants guys to hit her or choke her if they dont have a monster penis? Seriously?

This stuff isn't just bull, it could even be pretty fucking dangerous!! What if some young guys get the idea in their minds this is what girls want them to do to compensate if they dont have the (mythical and non existent) 14 inch cock?!

@Jessie

All jokes apart, I think you are watching too much of this youtube shit and it isn't doing you any good at all as far as I can see. You really need to focus your mental energy somewhere else (like sport, working out, art, music, books, ya know..)

[Jessie]

RD,

I think you may watched the clip too hurriedly or skipped bits.

She is quite clear that 14 inches is rare or non existent and that she is an outlier in her personal sexual preferences.

She says this repeatedly.

She has also done a clip on 'width vs length' and says she is an advocate of both dimensions…

[Jessie]

I wonder how viral this will get.

I imagine being black AND my size must be a special sort of hell….

[Guest RandomDude]

RD, I think you may watched the clip too hurriedly or skipped bits.

Thats a fair point. I would even feel bad about myself if I started spending time&energy on youtube sex videos (at my age too ya know, it wouldnt really feel right!)

[Darren15]

RD,

I think you may watched the clip too hurriedly or skipped bits.

She is quite clear that 14 inches is rare or non existent and that she is an outlier in her personal sexual preferences.

She says this repeatedly.

She has also done a clip on 'width vs length' and says she is an advocate of both dimensions…

Isn't Jonah Falcon 13.5 inches and he's the biggest in the world? I would rather be 5 inches than anything over 10 lol

[Jessie]

Isn't Jonah Falcon 13.5 inches and he's the biggest in the world? I would rather be 5 inches than anything over 10 lol

I'm inclined to agree.

And recent surveys show women ideal size, on average, was NBP 6.5 and 'thick'.

So this translates into maybe BP 7 x 6 being the ideal size.

That is a long way short of 10 inches… thus 10 inches is not ideal for most women.

[Victimorthecrime]

And recent surveys show women ideal size, on average, was NBP 6.5 and 'thick'.

So this translates into maybe BP 7 x 6 being the ideal size.

Remember though the surveys by definition contain women that enjoy penetrative sex and studies also show many women don't. So for that population smaller is better.

[Jessie]

Remember though the surveys by definition contain women that enjoy penetrative sex and studies also show many women don't. So for that population smaller is better.

one must not confuse women who dont orgasm with those that actively dislike penetration (virtually nil).

The former bunch 'like penetration'.

The survey simply asked what their ideal size was, not how much they rated penetration.

[Guest RandomDude]

And recent surveys show women ideal size, on average, was NBP 6.5 and 'thick'.

So this translates into maybe BP 7 x 6 being the ideal size.

Lets be honest, the 'recent surveys' is one study, right? One involving a very small group of college age girls (so not representing full normal population) who handled blue plastic penis models?

Hm.

The trouble with surveys is that they show can anything. Ive no doubt there are surveys 'showing' that most women dont much like huge penises, if we only looked for them! It would even make damn sense, really, seeing that most penises are nearer to average size & only few are huge. (And yeah, 6 inch girth is fairly huge! Seriously.)

[Sandstorm]

Isn't Jonah Falcon 13.5 inches and he's the biggest in the world? I would rather be 5 inches than anything over 10 lol

Jonah Falcon is a fraud. I don't think here is a single person in the world with an erect penis as large as what he claims to have. If you actually research Falcon, you will discover that NOBODY has ever seen his erect penis, and not a single picture of it exists. All he is is a dude with a large flaccid penis, and he spun that off into an imaginary tale of him having the largest penis in the world.

Think about it: he's a major attention seeker and has created a name for himself as having the largest penis in the world, yet not a SINGLE photograph exists of this penis.

There is a saying that extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence. Well, in Jonah's case, he has provided ZERO evidence for his extraordinary claim.

If you think about it, it's really quite amazing that he's managed to sustain the lie for as long as he has, and that his name is now synonomous with "the largest dick in the world".

[Jessie]

Lets be honest, the 'recent surveys' is one study, right? One involving a very small group of college age girls (so not representing full normal population) who handled blue plastic penis models?

Hm.

The trouble with surveys is that they show can anything. Ive no doubt there are surveys 'showing' that most women dont much like huge penises, if we only looked for them! It would even make damn sense, really, seeing that most penises are nearer to average size & only few are huge. (And yeah, 6 inch girth is fairly huge! Seriously.)

No not at all,

I have posted, on this site, many, many articles and studies showing the same trend over and over.

There is a minority of women who like huge penises- the size queens.

However the majority of women prefer a penis that is slightly 'larger than average'

The most recent study was the 1st to put a number on it (NBP 6.5) but it fits in with all the other studies and articles that say 'prefer a bit above average'

ps some of us have been posting here for many years -

if you read back some of the older threads you can see the subtlies of the data being gone though in more detail

[Guest RandomDude]

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[Jessie]

- all my posts are in this subsection of this site. type my name in search bar and read what you like.

Im not gong to reference every post- you can either believe or disbelieve - fine by me,

- no, not bitches- just honest

- while their preference is 6.5 it doesnt mean that 5.8 will frustrate them.

ideal and sufficient are not the same

- ahhhh the good old UCLA study. If you want to read a more detailed breakdown of this study then look up an old thread of mine.

In the meantime I have a question for you…

Now you say 84 % are satisfied with their partners size yes?

So that means 16% are not satisfied yes?

Now my question is …… on a bell curve distribution…. how many % men are significantly smaller than medium??

And when you work it out- consider the consequences of the maths…..

[Guest RandomDude]

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[Jessie]

Right- so 14% are too small- thats very close to the bottom 16% figure which is the left hand -1sd+ portion of the bell curve.

Or, in laymans terms…. if the guy is medium or large then his partner is likely to be happy with his size.

and If the man is small its highly likely his partner will be unhappy with his size.

ergo….. size matters

ps Im in the bottom 2% - yey!

[Victimorthecrime]

There isn't a guy in the world that if somehow given the choice would not take a 7" dick over a 5" assuming appropriate girth.

That wonderful insight is my only contribution. Hope everyone can find a way to accept themselves and enjoy their life without regard to any number.

[Guest RandomDude]

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[Guest RandomDude]

There isn't a guy in the world that if somehow given the choice would not take a 7" dick over a 5" assuming appropriate girth.

That wonderful insight is my only contribution. Hope everyone can find a way to accept themselves and enjoy their life without regard to any number.

Hell yeah I wouldnt mind being 7 inch!! Not sure whether Id want to be any thicker than I am though (being quite honest about that.)

What Id most like to be is younger though

[Jessie]

2 days ago there was a discussion on the radio on how SATC has caused women to objectify men.

Not all the speakers agreed so I looked up this at a quote site:

Remarkable- I can't imagine similar conversations, in a comedy, with guys talking abut girls like this.(or maybe I have just tuned it out- being a guy)

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All we talk about anymore is Big or balls or small dicks. How does it happen that four smart women have nothing to talk about but boyfriends? It's like seventh grade but with bank accounts. What about us? What we think, we feel, we know, Christ! Does it always have to be about them?

Samantha is crying

Carrie: What's going on, why are you crying?

Samantha: James has a small dick.

Carrie: Well, it's not the end of the world.

Samantha: It's really small.

Miranda: How small?

Samantha: Too small.

Carrie: Well, size isn't everything....

Samantha: Three inches.....

Carrie: Well....

Samantha: Hard!

Charlotte: Is he a good kisser?

Samantha: Oh, who the fuck cares! His dick is like a gherkin!

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Miranda: Don't beat yourself up, you had certain expectations, and your disappointed.

Samantha: Why? Why? Why does he have a small dick? I really like him.

Miranda: I thought you loved him?

Samantha: Well..

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Carrie: Oh, look we've all been there.

Miranda: That's for sure. I was once with a guy the size of those little miniature golf pencils, I couldn't tell if he was trying to fuck me or erase me.

(Carrie starts laughing and Samantha begins to cry)

Carrie: I'm sorry...it's just...it's funny.

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Miranda: Let's not lose perspective here, there are ways to work around this.

Samantha: Well, I don't wanna work around it. I love a big dick, I love it inside of me, I love looking at it, I love everything about it. When I blow him, it's like,

shrugs shoulders

.....nothing

Miranda: Well, can you talk to him about it?