Jump to content
Mental Support Community

females views etc (Trigger Warning!)


Jessie

Recommended Posts

Guest RandomDude

it's you telling people whether their penis is good enough or not. Its not unintentional RogerJ you've been doing it for years and made topics about it.

No offence or anything.

Ive done nothing of the kind you fuckwit troll!

Ive deleted the posts but your still whining?! Seriously go jerk yourself.

No offence or anything.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

First I want to compliment you gentleman on keeping the discourse rational and civil.

Second, RandomDude, we have been at this for years and there are numerous studies that do indeed conclude that penetratively orgasmic women express a preference for slightly bigger than average penis. I think the magic number was approximately 7x5.

Third, Jessie, what you never seem to want to focus on is the fact that many women don't orgasm from intercourse and the last thing they want is a big one.

Many women don't like sex much at all and only do it to keep the relationship together. Married male friends have told me this and these are guys I know to be sincere and authentic.

Fourth, even to women that love sex, penis size is but one factor. If it doesn't get and stay real hard it is worthless. Also women are aroused by the whole guy, not just the genitals. Scientists tell us that it is hormones that govern arousal and a guy gives off that masculine vibe is what gets panties wet.

Fifth, the proof is in the pudding. if women preferred big dick so much there would be no small ones! In a free society women would simply not choose small guys for reproduction. We are long past the days where young women of child bearing years "need" a husband.

Lastly, we are human beings, all of us, we are not a collection of statistics. We have one all-too-short life to live so I say live it!

There! I am sure that settles it.

1. thanks

2. I would say NBP 6.5 x 5.5 or BP 7 x 5.5 (but we pretty much agree- excluding size queens)

3. I absolutely accept many women dont orgasm from penetration and many dont want a large one

I have never suggested otherwise.

But neither of these 2 points of agreement help me.

Because even women who dont orgasm from PIV sex still enjoy penetration hence the UCLA results.

And not wanting a large one is not the same as wanting a pathetically small one

3b. Many guys dont want their partner to 'not enjoy sex' and to be with them for mortgage reasons etc- Im one of them- old romantic that I am.

4. I agree that impotence is a turn off. And a permanently impotent large penis is' worse' than a functioning small penis.

That doesnt help me either.

4b. Whilst size is not the only factor, for most women, a sufficiently large penis is a CRITICAL factor- like height, cleanliness, fully abled etc.

5. In a world with totally free choice, and no religion etc then small penises would have been phased out through natural/sexual selection.

But globally and historically most marriages are arranged and/or many women get married as they are so lonely and turn a blind due to the fact their husband doesnt satisfy them.

For example I nearly married my 1st GF- I jolly well planned to.

A few years ago what happened to Patrick Moote would not happened as the girl who rejected him would have different social dynamics.

A modern emancipated woman can refuse a small penis openly now and will be heralded by her 'sisters'.

Karen Owen & Catherine Townsend exist in this century not the last 20.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest RandomDude

@Irmajean

Respect is all good but I dont appreciate idiots telling me Ive said things I have never said!

And what about Jessie? Even like his last post? HE is continually telling people whether this or that size is 'good enough'. No freaking problems. But if I link to a university study I suddenly get weird trolls in my hair.

Is this forum for real?

Im fucking well rage quitting right here. Go delete my account.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

I use the blog feature here exclusively now and read bits of this forum only occasionally and without any give-a-fuck, but when I see a friend attacked without justification as having an agenda by the same individual who continually returns to this forum and is up to his third alias now, I have to wonder what agenda he has and what kind of large penis happened into his life to compel him to keep coming back and waging a public health crusade for his own peace of mind? Me personally, I've opted for sex reassignment to cure my small penis anguish.

Throwing in a few fucks and shits among your posts won't disguise you RogerwatcherRandom J.

I've known who you were for a while, but I didn't concern myself with it until now, and if you're going to accuse Jessie of being a snake oil salesman, it's only fair you should be called out for who you really are.

Hi Klingsor,

I tried to read your message the other day but the site kept saying 'you dont have permission'

It did finally let me your message today but still wont let me reply.

In answer to your question I used the NHS for a while but the people they gave me werent suitable so I got a referral to a specialist.

I daresay its very different in the usa though,

Link to comment
Share on other sites

@Irmajean

Respect is all good but I dont appreciate idiots telling me Ive said things I have never said!

And what about Jessie? Even like his last post? HE is continually telling people whether this or that size is 'good enough'. No freaking problems. But if I link to a university study I suddenly get weird trolls in my hair.

Is this forum for real?

Im fucking well rage quitting right here. Go delete my account.

I for one have no wish for you to delete your account.

For clarity I have (very fairly and accuratley I think) interpreted published data and/or reported my own personal experiences or direct observations.

Its not about what I personally think is an ok size- its about what prospective partners feel is an ok size.

I have my views supported by evidence and experience, you have yours too.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

The one point where we vary the most, Jessie, is that it has been way more than 20 years that Western women have been free to choose their partner. Here in America at least since the 1950s. Sure girls felt pressure to get married and to a guy acceptable to the family but not to any particular guy or to any man they found repulsive. A man born in 1955 would be 60 by now so plenty of time to test my hypothesis.

All good, just sharing some thoughts. Cheers!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

The one point where we vary the most, Jessie, is that it has been way more than 20 years that Western women have been free to choose their partner. Here in America at least since the 1950s. Sure girls felt pressure to get married and to a guy acceptable to the family but not to any particular guy or to any man they found repulsive. A man born in 1955 would be 60 by now so plenty of time to test my hypothesis.

All good, just sharing some thoughts. Cheers!

But world wide this would take many generations to be noticeable statistically (i.e. a reduction in the number of small penises and increase in larger men)

And then you have large communities which are very religious or whose political mantra is not sex positive.

Another factor is that pollution is a possibly reducing penis size in 1000s of individuals.

This is not conclusive but there is good evidence for this e.g. androgen disrupters in food and waste and products.

If this is true small penises could be increasing not reducing.

One must also consider that some genes are recessive so a man with a large penis might still have son with a small penis.

But is it true that many men are commiting and/or considering suicide and/or are on their own? I would say yes

Are a big subset of these men like me i.e. rejected or phobic due to their size? I would say yes

Link to comment
Share on other sites

The following is a recent tweet from a uk sexpert- this reminds of conversations I used to hear from women in the pub when i was younger.

Catherine Townsend@lovedetective_ Aug 5

@Aisleyne1 Ewww so gross! I got a similar one once; the guy's penis was about the same size as his thumb. Tragic all around. Miss you! x

0 retweets1 favoriteReply

Retweet

Favor

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest RandomDude

Random dude. It was mentioned that you are "RogerJ" before I started posting, and you did not deny it, so I didn't realize it would offend you.

Can we call a truce? I don't want to cause more bother for Admins.

Well no I guess it doesn't offend me - you can call me Roger Rabbit (or even Jessica fucking Rabbit!) if you want! :)

But I dont like the other stuff ya know - the untrue accusations about stuff Ive said and wotnot. That pisses me off.

Truce yeah okay - but Im leaving anyway.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest RandomDude

Mts is right. I made a promise to the admins I wouldn't start any more trouble here, and for their sake, I have deleted my previous comment, Random.

Thanks. And Im sorry I lost it on Sunday. I do have some anger management issues (but Im not normally a bad guy.)

I will only add this - for so many men for whom this issue is the taproot of so much crippling occupational, social, and personal dysfunction, it is a real shame that the therapeutic value of this very unique forum is ruined as a place to talk about those issues and vent at their situation in a way that they ordinarily could not or would not do outside the safety of anonymity, but perhaps that was never its intent.

Maybe that explains some things. But you see this is where I was all wrong. I thought it was a forum for guys with some insecurities to support each other and discuss facts instead of the random bullshit that floats around the internet, and shit like that. And I though that meant guys who are 5-6 inch (depending on measure) and average girth.

Its no matter now (cos Im leaving) but there is stuff that still seems damn weird to me. I once posted a link to a penis gallery showing normal sizes (ya know Im talking normal instead of monster size from porn) And it just got deleted by the moderator! But other people (no names) post stuff which is in my humble opinion fake (girls talking about 11 inch or 14 inch whatever - fantasy sizes) and the moderators dont do shit about it!

But its cool cos Im gone now. This forum aint (now how did they use to say?) 'conducive to my mental well being'.

To the moderators:

Delete my account. Just damn well do it. Please.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Are you sure that is what you want, Random? Could you please confirm this with me by pm or here?

Members aren't allowed to post photos of penises here or links to photos of penises....I understand the nature of the discussion in this particular forum can sometimes be sexual in nature, and we try to give some leeway with this, but we draw the line at photos. Regarding other posts and links, judgment calls can be difficult to make sometimes, or often times, and possibly some posts may be missed. If a post seems inappropriate, I recommend reporting it.

Best wishes to all.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Hi

- first I would reiterate that I dont feel there is a need of anyone to be deleting accounts

- 2nd, I think some of my posts have been criticised by RD, namely the clip of a minor celeb talking about her opinions on size.

To be clear she only briefly mentioned 13 inch penises in a hypothetical sense.

And she also said she would be prepared to go 'as low as 5 inches' provided the guy compensated by being very aggressive.

She was also very clear she was in the minority of women in her attitude to sex in general.

However she gave an interesting account of why the vagina responds to pressure and stretching and why, for her, she has a strong preference for certain sizes.

She wasnt abusive or derogatory and she has posted hundred of clips on a successful you tube channel. There would be no reason for my posts or her commentary to be moderated and obviously her views are pertinent to this thread (which I started I think) about womens views on size.

Guys like me are obsessed with womens views on size and we yearn for the truth - day in day out - hopeful & fearful both.

ps yes of course the moderators aren't going to allow pics of genitals on here (I think thats the right call personally) but if you want guys to feel better by using a certain link then post the link to particular site (ensure it doesnt lead straight to a picture) and that wont get deleted or simply give the name of the site then you wont need to post a hyper link at all.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest RandomDude

Another poll of women on penis size. It's OK this one should make some feel a little better.

http://www.cosmopoli...l-women-survey/

Good link lifelong but it does show only 7% of females list their partner size as "Small". I will leave you to draw your own conclusion as to why that is.

I dont know whether its a good idea? I actually deleted some stuff on this thread because I was accused of aiming to attack micro penis victims by saying average range is okay.

I have been thinking (like really seriously) about it and I think its true this could cause some feelings of rage. Its like if you say girls who are up to 20 pounds overweight are still attractive...well...thats going to really piss girls who are 30 or 40 pounds overweight, right? (But they could lose weight. The penis issue dude has no choice.)

So yeah I guess its not fair to say this stuff in public.

@Irmajean

I already said 2 times I want you to delete my account. Please show me RESPECT and do it.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Good link lifelong but it does show only 7% of females list their partner size as "Small". I will leave you to draw your own conclusion as to why that is.

Not sure what your point is. Are you suggesting the real number should be higher? that more women think their partners penis is small but just don't want to come out and admit it? maybe.

Still even if it was higher there's still a good percentage who say they're fine with it. The world isn't full of big cock hungry women.

Even so it doesn't get to the crux of the problem (at least for me)

-------------------------------------------

Why is deleting your account such a big deal? if you don't want to be here anymore just go. Nobody is going to stop you or force you to click the link to come back.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Not sure what your point is.

7% of the women surveyed said their boyfriend has a small dick. That means 93% of the women do NOT have a boyfriend with a small dick. Logically there are only 2 possibilities: 1) pure happenstance in this particular survey or 2) the vast majority of women do not want a small dick. Just sayin...

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

Loading...
×
×
  • Create New...