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Hey TooOld, all good, point taken; just for the fun of it to let you know where I am coming from is that in my life I have been betrayed sooo many times by family, friends, coworkers, neighbors. So many times when these folks were down on their luck I was the guy they turned to for support, friendship, fun, assistance w life crisis like moving, transportation, health issues, etc but the day they get back on their feet - recover, find a job, find a relationship - is the day they lose my number. Now listen, I get it, there is something I am doing that is evoking this behavioral pattern but if I knew what it was I would fix it and that doesn't mean it don't hurt. I think in some ways I remind these people of "the bad time" and they don't want me there resurrecting the past.

IR, sorry your thread got high jacked here. You know I have been in your corner from day 1 always hoping things improve for you. If you want me to delete this shit I will.

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((shivers)) same story with me, VOB. Its sad but you can at least cheer yourself up by saying that you did a good thing and that's what matters. That's what I do at least. But I have to admit, sometimes sweet vengance is tempting.

Anyway, back to the main issue. Sorry infrared. I hope you feel better today.

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I don't agree with the last two posts, w'ever and VoBN1C.

I mean, you're entitled to your opinions, and mine certainly aren't any more brilliant than yours.

That said, i think you all are forgetting what the purpose of this forum is.

We don't do The Big Existential Questions of Life here; this is a place to unload our hurt feelings.

Yeah, in the long run, who's going to care what inf_rad feels about his own race.

In the long run it doesn't matter; HEY, NO KIDDING.

But this forum is a place for us to give voice to the tiny insecurities that give some of us pain every day.

That pain doesn't matter in the grand scheme of the universe, certainly.

But you know what? The pain is Issue #1 for that person for as long as the pain lasts.

So the rest of us try to ease the pain by being non-jugmental and comforting.

I'm not saying that what you wrote was out of line, or that you were jerks for posting it.

It just wasn't helpful.

Somewhere out there on the Web there's a chat room where people spend hours playing Jean-Paul Sartre.

Hope you find that chat room and have a good time there.

But here we do support and comfort.

I understand your point totally.

But listen, i have/had a similar problem like IR have that means:

- White race is going to extint because of white whores and dumb white males

- while resting at my home thought of black man fucking a white woman would give me erection better than any white on white porn, give me feelings of shame, guilt, low value etc...

- Thought that the average black man have more value in eyes of any woman than white man. I would watch white males as a joke, try hards what else.

So why i give IR that big perspective? Because i thought that my problem which is in present moment is universal, that it will be there always, that i am going to suffer til my grave.

That is why i pointed biggest fear like all black men on this fucking earth fucking fertile white women in 20s. It doesn't mean shit. It is ridicilous if you look at it.

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But I'm aware that this shit can always return to me. I can now talk about how healthy mind i have but in 20 days from now i could be on interracial/cuckold porn binge.

I should also look for therapy in next month. I'm already into working out and beginner in meditation but those two are solo activity which can't help as something with group.

I cutted a lot of my porn view this year. I have binge here and there. My last binge i forced myself to watch interracial porn to see how stupid and fake it is. That was 12 days ago. So im not healthy like i preach.

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Hey man,

Watch this "your problem" from a different perspective. This earth exist for 5 bilions year there are milions of life forms here on Earth, we are just one of them, nothing special, our speciality is that we can think as long are organism is in function, it will expire one day, from dust to dust as someone said.

So why this "problem" of black men fucking a white women is such a problem?

Will that matter in 10000 years from now?

Was that a problem 2000 years ago?

Time is just passing by and you are losing your energy on watching how many white women are with black men. And how are they fucking.

None of that matter in the grand scheme of things. Only things that you should care for is YOU. Fuck all of this shit. These things such as race, fucking, politics, other people, all men are bastards and all women are whores, accept that and move on.

Try to imagine worst absurd scenario. Tommorow all white women are going to fuck black men, white men are going to stay home and jerk off. How's that sound? Does this still cause you anxiety?

In some post you mention how can white women choose white man, that is absurd to you right? You clearly don't have a clue how a women are "thinking". Go to reddit/redpill, thanks me later.

So this was my best shot in helping you my man.

As english is not my first language, this post might have some error or is generally confusing. But maybe that is just my confused mind.

I'm waiting for your reply Infrared radiation!!

What is this reddit/redpill that you speak of?

What do you mean I don't have a clue?

I didn't say that it was absurd. I just said that it was evolutionarily anachronistic. Learn the difference.

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But do not belittle me by suggesting that I don't understand female behaviour or psychology.

It's pretty simple to understand.

The task of the female is to make it as difficult as possible for the male to obtain sex. The evolutionary reason for this is because of the limited supply of eggs, and the abundant supply of sperm, and the large toll that the reproductive process takes on the female body.

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So - in a nutshell - the solution to my problems is:

"Stop thinking about this shit, and go and find something better to think about"

Yes?

This works.

It works until you start thinking about what you were thinking about again.

But the world forces you to think about what you were thinking about, so it becomes a recurring problem. You can't get away from it.

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This works.

It works until you start thinking about what you were thinking about again.

But the world forces you to think about what you were thinking about, so it becomes a recurring problem. You can't get away from it.

I hope you'll keep posting here, inf_rad.

Here we don't force you to think about it.

Indeed, i'd like to think we give you reasons for ignoring it

(some of which reasons i've posted myself).

See, the mere fact that popular culture depicts something over and over again, doesn't mean it's true.

Repetition is driven by other factors (especially, the commercial incentives of the repeater);

it's not driven by fact.

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That other poster, the user "whatever", clearly posted ridiculous scenarios.

There's never going to be a situation in which ALL white women will go for black men.

Likewise, there's never going to be a situation - as long as we're talking about a multi-racial society - in which NO white women will go for black men.

Men of a racial group are NOT in control over what the women of that racial group do. It is possible to argue that from a historical perspective, wars were fought with the implicit purpose of preserving difference.

I feel ill right now. I feel like I'm going to be physically sick.

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But do not belittle me by suggesting that I don't understand female behaviour or psychology.

It's pretty simple to understand.

The task of the female is to make it as difficult as possible for the male to obtain sex. The evolutionary reason for this is because of the limited supply of eggs, and the abundant supply of sperm, and the large toll that the reproductive process takes on the female body.

Difficult, are you kidding me? Women throw themselves at men who project high 'social market value'.

While making it difficult for men who are less value.

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As i said those scenarios i posted is just absurd/anxiety provoking. It helped me to think more straight in terms of race, sex, dating what else.

IT is like a technique for people who have social anxiety. When anxiety start, breath gets shallow, heart beats go up, instead of trying to calm yourself onr should says " come on beat more motherfucker, i want more anxiety, i can't die from this little"

That technique cause relief most of the time.

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Western conceptions of morality are focused on the primacy of the individual. Therefore reproduction, and thus sex, is held to have no intrinsic moral value or wider significance, but simply to be one of life's personal choices rather than any kind of social duty or evolutionary imperative.

White, Western men are completely at the mercy of women. Women call all the shots. At least non-Western, non-white men retain a level of control, and in addition, are often able to attract white women as well.

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http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/loss-of-libido/Pages/Introduction.aspx

Loss of libido would be a good thing for men to have according to most feminists, and indeed a lot of women in general, so why is it being said to be a health problem?

I saw a thing in a toilet recently advertising something about promoting awareness of testosterone deficiency syndrome, as if that would be a problem for your average feminist! Feminists would love it if all men lost all their testosterone and all their sex drive, so they'd stop being disgusting, misogynistic creeps that make unwanted sexual advances.

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So basically... I honestly feel like all my sex life is ever going to consist of is one blowjob a year from an overweight female if I'm lucky.

In evolutionary terms that's pretty lame. I might as well just kill myself. Clearly, my genetic lineage is not "fit to exist", either at the racial or the individual level.

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