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Blossom

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when i was little i wasn't allowed to cry because it was bad. even if ykw was after hitting me or saying mean things to me it was still wrong to cry. if i did cry she would call me more names and make me feel worse and that would make me cry even more and she would get even madder at me and send me to my room. because i was bad.

she always pretends to be nice to me in front of other people and i have to pretend to be happy so that noone will think bad things about us. we need to make everyone think that we're a perfect family. everything has to be perfect. except my perfect is never good enough:(

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There is some reason why she has chosen this strategy, and it is a reason that has absolutely nothing to do with you. She has issues, sweetie. Bullies do. I can have compassion for my mother but at a distance, if you see what I mean.

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Hey, ladyblossom. :-)

There are so many people I would wish I could change ...

if I even remotely believed that that's how it works, sweety. I tried for years to change my wife. She ended up changing me, until I put a stop to it.

There's only one person in the world you can change, and that's you. It's like the old thing I told star months ago: there are two piles. The one "over there" is where you put stuff you can't change, like other people's problems. You only get to put stuff in your pile that you can change. If you can let go of the ... B.S.? Unbelievable load of manure? ... that is the result of your mother's problems, not yours, then you won't be so tangled up in what she says. At least, that's how it worked for me.

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Baby, if you really were a pain, then maybe I might ignore you. So, why, when I don't ignore you, do you not realize that you're not a pain?

Baby, I don't ignore, partly, in order to try to make sure it's not too late, for you.

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very boring...

that's why its been left til the last minute...:)

i dunno..i think so..

it says we have to discuss it in terms of artistic style, ideology and politics. whatever that means.

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