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  1. I'd like to make the same offer that looking made. I'm a lonely guy who has a small penis and anyone anywhere can feel free to message me. I'd love to make a friend/friends. I'm in my late 40's so if you're younger, maybe I've been through something that you haven't. Age/race/orientation makes no difference to me. I'd be happy to talk to you and I'm genuinely interested in helping other guys who have the same problem(s) that I do. Hope to hear from you.
  2. I can't really add much more than what others have said, but I can say that I've been through the exact same situation as you. Had a g/f, we had mutual friends, we broke up, she told the biggest mouth bitch of the group and then it was all over the place. Now I handled it a bit different. She didn't have any pics of my small guy, so I just denied it and offered to whip it out for anyone who wanted to see. I called their bluff, and of course they all said "no, don't do that". But I realized that these people were NOT my friends, and I cut them out of my life. I went on to get married. Now, that didn't exactly work out but it had nothing to do with my small penis. I tell you that because we all should realize that there are women out there who don't care about size. They are indeed more difficult to find, but they are out there. It's been my experience that it's best to be upfront about your size before any sexual activity occurs. That eliminates a lot of awkwardness, for you and her. I know how much situations like these suck, I know how frustrating/angry/sad/lonely, etc etc it can be. Just make up your mind that the size of your penis does not define you as a man and as a human being, because it doesn't.
  3. Wow, you've got way more courage than me. I avoid the doctor's office because I don't want them to see my tiny little pecker. I could never go in for a wax, but I salute your courage. I think I'd get aroused if I had a female touching me down there. Hell I know I would.
  4. I started shaving down there completely bald when my ex-wife said she'd prefer that. Until then, I had just trimmed. But you know what? I personally think it does make it appear a bit bigger. And, I kind of prefer it being bald down there, though it is a pain in the ass. I shave once about every 2 weeks.
  5. You are indeed a lucky man u.r......
  6. I dated this girl once for almost a year. It certainly wasn't love that kept us together. We broke up several times during that year, but she'd always show back up at my door. One time I asked her "why do you keep coming back? we obviously don't get along"....and she said "I miss the sex".
  7. I'm uncut, which is pretty rare here in the USA. It's seen as an oddity by some. So yet another thing to stress over about my little guy. I know in Europe it's more common to be uncut. Anyone ever had a problem with being uncut?
  8. I've lost all hope of ever being confident enough to be with a woman or ever having a job that makes me happy. The only hope I have is certain religious beliefs I have. Don't worry, I'm not here to proselytize, lol.....But having hope of a better life to come is what keeps me going, really.
  9. 'Unforgiven' is a great movie, and yes...the whole movie is about this group of hookers who hire 3 gunmen to kill the guys who slashed up this hooker because she laughed at "his tiny little pecker". The ex and I were watching "Walk Hard' a few years ago and there were visible penises in it. One guy was standing there totally soft, un-erect and the wife giggled "hey, he's as big as you are when you're hard". But it was just a joke between us, she really didn't care.
  10. Grief, I have a very small scrotum as well. It's tiny, with tiny testicles. And my penis is only about 4.5 inches erect so you've got me beat there. I know what you mean about depression. I deal with it everyday. This is such a cliche, but it's true....I just try to get through each day, one at a time. I've a pretty miserable life, but I try to find happiness in the little things....watching sport, my cat, music...Music is big for me. I come home lots of days from work, strip down to my underwear, put on some music i like and just sing along. I've thought about getting testosterone shots, but from what I've read they have their advantages and disadvantages, plus I'm not sure I could afford it. Just hang in there pal, you are not alone.
  11. Dreams and fantasies here all the time! I like to find a porn clip (i like amateur clips as opposed to pro shot) with a girl that looks like my ex-wife. I've had very taboo dreams, i won't even share them here lol....I think when you're not having regular sex it's normal to have dreams and fantasies that normal people might not have.
  12. The worst mistake i ever made was dating someone I work with. This was about 15 years ago. We dated for almost a year. The sex, for me, was fine. And it must've been for her as well 'cause even after we broke up she'd show up at my door just wanting sex..and I obliged her. But then a really bad scene happened between the 2 of us (having nothing to do with sex) and naturally she told the female with the biggest mouth where we work how small i was and that she could only feel me when she was riding me, etc etc....The whole place knew I was small. It was tough...it was humiliating....but I just tried to spin it that I was normal size and that she was extra large in her vaginal area because of her slutty past and would offer to whip my cock out on the spot to prove i wasn't small....they'd always stop me. I called their bluff and I won. I sucessfully spinned the story against her, even though I was lying my ass off. But I'm not above lying if it avoids me feeling humiliated.
  13. Sorry to hear that, griz...That's tougher than what I went through. My wife really wasn't all that into sex, I don't think she is even to this day. We still talk on a regular basis though we haven't seen each other in 5 years. Still, I can't help but think that if I could've delivered the goods to her in a better way, things might have been different. People are really cruel to one another. In the end, we're all going to get old and get sick and a mate is someone who should be there to see you through those times. How do you measure (pun unintended) a person's loyalty and genuine affection by dick size or even by looks? I've known many women who go after the "bad boy", the one that treats them like shit....but "he's cute" and "he's hung"....they usually end up divorced, then repeat the pattern. It's an insane world.
  14. I had a double whammy as a teen. I had serious social anxiety/self-esteem issues, so I couldn't even think of doing anything with a female. I knew I was small because when I was really young, like 11 or 12, me and a friend of mine would steal his father's dirty magazines and sneak off into the woods to look at them. One day he pulled his 12 year old cock out and it was full adult size, like over 7". We started masturbating together to these pics. My little guy was about the same size it is now....4", maybe 4.5" on a good day....Later on in high school, I'd see guys in the locker room who were unashamed to be totally naked in front of a large group of guys. I never ever got naked. We had to change into shorts for PE class, and I'd change as quickly as I possibly could. Anyway, I spent my twenties just hiding from life, just going to work, coming home. In my very late 20's, I started taking meds that helped my social anxiety....so I sought out female company. And I found some, but none of them lasted. Most were kind to my face, but a couple of them "told" on me to others about being so small. That was hard to deal with. I finally got married to a woman who was as sheltered as I was. She was in her late 20's, me in my mid-30's...she'd never been with a man sexually. So I suppose she didn't know what she was missing. But I could never bring her to orgasm with my dick....only with my tongue. She finally told me she just wasn't interested in sex, so our sex life pretty much just stopped. We divorced 4 years ago, and I've not been with anyone else sexually. No prospects of it ever happening again.
  15. Tell me about it brother, lol....I've fantasized about winning the lottery and what I'd do. That's the only way i'll ever be rich. I'd definitely organize (or hire someone else to) a big meeting of all us "smaller" guys...and I'd pay for everyone's expenses to get there. Ok I'm dreaming now, but I figure somewhere like NYC...we could rent out an entire floor of one of those swank hotels in Manhattan....Not sure what we'd do, but to just be around people that understand and care about a common problem would be great. Maybe hire some entertainment ;).....I'd definitely do that. That's it, I'm gonna buy a lottery ticket today....
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