ThePetPerson

I'm desperately attracted to lots of people I shouldn't be, but it doesn't mean I would jump on them if I hung out with them. Attraction is attraction, there's nothing you can do about it. As long as you never act upon those thoughts, you're totally fine.

@someone555 "if it's..my colour" actually crying with laughter :') made my day.

I don't know what to write, what to say, I've said so much and yet nothing at all. The grief is overwhelming and I just keep screaming that I'm sorry and it just bounces back off the walls, you'll never hear me say it and I say it again and again. The more people learn about your death the more I have to come to accept the truth but I don't want to. I am not ready to say goodbye to you. I keep letting myself believe it's some sick joke but the reality is dogging my every move, a cloud hanging over my head. I feel sick to my stomach. You'll have been gone a week tomorrow. I can't let this be tr

Yes, the answer is yes, you still deserve to forgive yourself. You care now, and that's what matters. I'm wondering what else is going on in your life right now, what may have lead you to dig this up? Don't let answering my questions hold you back from forgiveness though!

I'm not going to lie to you, you did a bad thing, yes, and you should never do it again. But you did not cause psychological harm nor physical harm this girl will never know what happened, and she consented to foreplay. You shouldn't hold onto this, it doesn't make you a bad person, we all make mistakes, and much worse ones than this, a lapse in judgement. A mistake made in a half drunken state in a foreign country with is NOT worth ending your life over. It never will be. You are a good person, and the fact that you feel guilty over something I imagine a lot of people wouldn't bat an eyelid

I take this to mean you work in like, a store, and she came in and you served her? The thing is, she's a teacher, and though you were 'cool' with her, it doesn't mean you had the basis of a friendship. You will have only had a handful of teachers in your life, whereas she will have taught hundreds or even thousands of students. If she became 'friends' with every one of the students she was 'cool' with, she would be overrun. I like the guy at the corner shop I buy cigarettes from, it doesn't mean I want to be friends with him. The boundaries between ex students and teachers being friends are un

Good to see you back!

I can relate to this big time. I can't remember the last time I watched the news or read a newspaper, I'm never quite sure whether it's anger or fear, but it makes me panic, it's all I can think about for hours.

Because I don't know what I'm talking about. You take care too.

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I love that you think you can hide behind your words, your eloquent way of speaking. You can't. I understood your statement, and possibly, because of my anger, my message wasn't particularly clear. You're willing to regard this woman as a pathological liar, because you find it difficult to believe that she has experienced all of these things, because you've never faced this much sexual harassment in your life. I'm not saying that as an attack on you, it's human nature, we can't comprehend how one person can suffer so much, so we don't believe it, it becomes a lie. Nor am I saying this woman is

Is there an actual delete button?

"so she doesn't deserve the benefit of the doubt" We're just going to invalidate her opinions because she 'sounds' like a liar?

Smalll, I don't care what you have to say about this article, how it made you feel, how it made your blood boil. You're going to call this woman a LIAR because she claimed she was raped and didn't react to it in the way you would expect? I still can't get my head around this. You've got no proof she's lied, that's just like me saying you are lying about having a small dick, maybe you don't want anyone hogging your 'pity me' spotlight. For everyone else on this thread, I'd just like to put it out there, that I think this woman is out of line, in an ideal world, no form of insult should be direc