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  1. Couple things.... While I enjoyed a Creighton basketball game and hearty steak dinner in Omaha, this location is not the geographic center of the US. This spot resides in Kansas. #2 If you have had great sex in the past, that tells me you can do it again. Unless your wife has sought other suitors who have given her a different experience in the interim. If not, and you have performance anxiety, I would recommend PDE-5 inhibitors, i.e. viagra, cialis, etc. You get erect more frequently and for longer and might be worth the money. Easy way to be 18 again per your penis. If
  2. There will be many, many books, documentaries, articles written about COVID, including the huge baby boom that will be upon the World starting in several months.
  3. Well what I would say that guys like us have to "trick" the opposite sex that we are confident enough to deserve their attention, despite our specific physical shortcomings.
  4. Uptight got in touch with me recently about what I thought about the pandemic. I just wanted to come clean why I have been absent. I was a frequent flyer in here for a time, as you know, because I was in distress. I learned from your comments, suggestions and opinions about a topic (SPS) I never really contemplated about in any real fervor. I reached a point where there was longer a need for me to talk/be involved in these discussions. There was no personal issue with any one of you, but rather I moved on from my despair of my short penile stature. So, I thank you. I wish you all well a
  5. Obviously, a question for SPS sufferers. If your wife or significant other tells you that they want an open marriage/relationship after 10 years of being together, would you: a. Yes, of course. Anything you want to make you happy. b. Yes, with reservations. c. No, we should work on our relationship. d. Hell no. Hit the highway.
  6. Okay so she is a hypocrite. I thought liberals were all about acceptance of everyone and everything and sexual orientation and no matter what you look like and what you feel. But time and time again it shows me that certain hypocrite liberals will only support or disparage things that are good for them, personally. These songs are all about going in the gray zone of social acceptance , creating controversy and giving her more attention then what is typically deemed necessary in the music Realm. This isn't uncommon, this is been done before numerous times in the music industry and continues to
  7. I was asked earlier from someone in this forum what would I do next. Find someone else? My initial reaction was I need some time. But honestly, I've been in a celibate marriage, not her, the day my wife told me she no longer wanted to have sex with me close to 4 years they day after we sought couples counseling for the last time. Sex was always an anxiety producing experience ever since I could remember. Knowing where I stood in the bell curve yielded my lack of bedroom confidence. So these last four years or so, I have not had that specific anxiety and I've been OK with that. Im
  8. I speak bad about my ex to my Mother and in this forum. That's it. Never to my kids. Oh yea, in therapy sessions.
  9. https://www.sandiegouniontribune.com/news/health/sdut-penis-length-study-2015mar02-story.html So, I haven't posted in awhile because I needed a break from this forum to reset my thoughts. Many of you know I like concrete stats, things that are black and white, and logical. When it comes to SPS, much of it is not logic and more about emotion and self inflicted ideals stemming from a lack of sexual confidence based on real or perceived small penis size due to societal expectations or personal experiences. I found this comprehensive study, although I'm sure many of you have found the same
  10. Actual still play one at work. I like what I do and I'm good at it. I have confidence in what I do and how I handle coworkers, put out fires, grow a business. IMO, this has much to do with my brain and my upbringing, rather than my penis size. The problem with me is when I went home and dealt with my significant other. I changed.
  11. In case you were wondering, my current mindset on relationships is nonexistent. I have zero intimate confidence at the moment. I'm focusing on my children and my job which are everything to me right now. She tells me she forgives me and wants to be friends, all knowing that she will get a multi-seven figure payout in a few months and monthly alimony, including half time child support, in the top 1% of income earners tax free. BTW, she does not work. I'm in no mood to have that kind of relationship with her, but only as the mother of my children.
  12. Both of you are generally correct from your interpretation from my posts. Johnson, my decision after knowing of her second affair, whose penis size I did not know, was to allow, per her request, to leave at most nights and come back the next day to keep the family unit intact. Kids were 10 and 7 at the time. He was married with similar children ages with a wife and children in a different state. I became exceeding jealous when she went for a weekend to meet his parents out of state. I begged, pleaded, bought her loads of expensive shit that I'm too embarrassed to divulge here and co
  13. Although I don't know you, what I do know for certain is that now is not the time for you to die. No way. From what I do know about acute psychosis is that you need to get on some type of psychotropic medication (perhaps temporary), calm your mind a bit and go into therapy, again. Reach out, no matter how awkward it may seem, to family and friends. I wish you luck.
  14. No need to regret posting anonymously. But from your words, you are in a very bad place and that sucks. You already know what you suffer from and I think that's a great first step... Acknowledgement. But you need to be brave enough to take another. Are you able to consult a licenced therapist? That would be my recommendation. No shame in that. I believe most, if not all of us here, have done that at one time or another.
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