Robcapp0820

Thank you so much. This helps a lot. We have talked about it and she is very open about making me feel better about it. Also I never seem to have any issues when my parents or friends drink/smoke just her she means so much to me. I also feel that if I was there things would be much different. But that is to be determined in the future.

I personally don’t drink and I will avoid it as much as possible do to my life experiences. The bottom line is teens will drink it sucks it’s not the best but it kinda is what it is. She’s not being irresponsible not be reckless not hurting herself or anyone else. Although it is still underage it’s not causing a problem especially compared to some of the other problems are generation has.

She is extremely understanding about it and open I’m so grateful for that.

Ok so my girlfriend and I are both 16 and she goes to parties nothing excessive or anything above normal but she does drink a bit. Not like alcoholic but just like a normal teenager would. Now for some reason when she drinks at parties I get really nervous. Like super high anxiety and I just feel genuinely upset and I don’t know how to deal with this because she’s not doing anything wrong and I don’t want to make her feel bad by saying something. ( we have been talking about it together tho) I was In an abusive relationship (mental/emotional,physical) with my father I wouldn’t label him as an alcoholic but he definitely has a serious drinking problem. Maybe he is I’m not really to sure just looking for some coping advice for when my girlfriend wants to go out and have a good time and I have a panic attack and get really upset. Also I’m sorry if I was unclear just spewing out my thoughts; if any clarification is needed please let me know. Thank you for any advice.