Youtube video

[infrared_radiation]

Do you agree with what she is saying, yes/no?

[infrared_radiation]

Eh

[infrared_radiation]

I can post what I want. No reason to be on the attack like that.

What the hell has race got to do with what is said in the video anyway? It's about size not colour

[Victimorthecrime]

Look, she would reject me in a heartbeat but guess what? She has a right to her preferences. I don't think she was attacking small guys, just stating her preference, what works for her. Last I heard that is still allowed. I went to her website too - yowzah! Although now that I see she is very much in the game I have to question whether her opinions are sincere or an attempt to sell porn.

[Jessie]

i would say she's frank and articulate…. if you follow the whole clip.

yeah she's right

[IrmaJean]

I can post what I want.

I haven't seen the video yet. I will take a look if there have been concerns about it. It's not true that members can post anything they want, though. We do hope to allow as much freedom with this as possible, but ask also that everyone consider other members when choosing to post something. Ask yourself is it supportive? Is there a positive purpose for posting this?

[Resolute]

klingsor, i'm afraid i'm gonna have to strongly disagree with your theory about being fat is the person's own fault, and can be "changed"; while penis size can't be changed. i think both can be changed in theory, but in practicality, neither really can. there actually is a 'fat gene'.

[IrmaJean]

I don't have much time today--I have to work and will be visiting family after. I will view the video when I have the opportunity and possibly remove it, after consideration. I did edit out the sexual content from IRR's original thread in the quoted post above. There is no positive purpose in posting this information on the site.

[Jessie]

as far as i can see the clip posted does not violate any site rules and actually has a woman trying to advise guys with a small penis.

Her views and those of her friends give a context for the people reading the site.

We want relevant views from real people in real life- a true context.

Whats the point of hiding the truth or lying?

[Jessie]

Jessie, after everything you've been through because of SPS, I am dumbfounded that you still are so fucking passive and blase about all this shit. Do you not hear what this bitch is actually saying?

First off, within the first 15 seconds, "size matters". Ok, everybody here already fucking knew that, thanks for the bitingly witty comments about your pinkie and cumming up your nostrils. But do you not realize that what she says next, "just deal with it"..."accept it"..."make the best of it"..etc, is essentially admitting that having a small one is a handicap? What she's saying is that you have to compensate. It's an inferiority. Another way of stating what she says is to say a dude with a big one doesn't have to go that extra mile.

And it is so fucking typical of a woman to make the insultingly absurd comparison between having a small dick and bad "genetics" with having a big fat ass just because she can't lay off the fucking soda pops and three cheese pizzas. Do you realize what she's doing? She's trying to legitimize and justify her greasy, dimpled lard ass (i.e. something she can CHANGE) by comparing it to a physical characteristic that is totally unchangeable because she's too fucking lazy to exercise and diet. How fucking rich.

The only meaningful thing I got out of this is that I have to be funnier, richer, wittier, or bigger than the next guy because I have small dick so this bitch can continue to eat from a convenience store and feel good about herself and blame it all on "genetics".

The fact that this even has to be verbalized simply amazes me. I sometimes wonder if I'm still living on planet earth.

Only the OP would be so colossally stupid and insensitive to post a video like this and ask that question on this particular forum.

- I do hear what she is saying. I dont much like it but I cannot fault the logic.

- 'accept it' is a common phrase used by sexologists and counsellors. All my counsellors advised me the same. Is IS a handicap. A severe one.

- a fat ass may or may not be genetic or bad diet. For many women its mostly genetic. TBH big asses turn me off and small ones turn me on. Just my preference.

- I think the video gives a chunk of reality. She does indicate that most women would like a larger than average penis which was confirmed by a recent survey. Her preference was 8 inches but, in common with most women, she hates 10 inch penises as she finds them uncomfortable.

She finds 6 inches or less small and again, she represents a huge chunk of western women with that view. One could argue how big a chunk- but its clear she is not an outlier so her views are relevant to guys on this site.

[Victimorthecrime]

I agree deleted except for I think she leans to the size queen end of the spectrum when she says she is ok w up to nine inches. Just my take. But you are right there are a thousand similar videos.

[IrmaJean]

Okay. In truth, I really did not want to view the video. I can't speak to this one specifically since I didn’t watch it, but the few I have viewed were personally offensive to me. I hear a lot of objectifying, which always turns my stomach. My concern is that if these kinds of videos are viewed over and over again, some may begin to feel this kind of objectifying is acceptable...and to me it is not. My personal feelings and possibly not helpful.

[notbad]

I'm not saying her views are irrelevant...when have I ever shied away from unpleasant truth about this subject?? I'm the most negative, self-hating son of a bitch here, and I'm hated because I don't sugarcoat. There are plenty of us who have said the same thing on this site for years, I specifically have stated many times that 6" is small and that sexually desirable guys are normally in the 7-8" range. I've said it is a major fucking handicap to have one 4.5". Regardless of what any member says, they know this instinctively or else they wouldn't be here.

I am, however, questioning the relevance of a guy with an 8" cock posting this video here and asking this hypothetical question. I'm probably taking it personal, but as I've said over and over...I am constantly reminded about penis size every day through jokes, jibes, and innuendo - I don't need to hear some loudmouth bitch telling me how much of a handicap it is or a guy with a big one asking me "do I agree". Read the endless topics in this forum and answer your own damn question.

If a girl has sex with 50 diferent man, she has less than 1% chance of seeing a 7.5inch penis .

[Victimorthecrime]

Yeah but our gals are up to the task. You seen where Jessie's girl say 1.5 weeks w/o sex was a horrible dry spell that drove her into the arms of a (yikes!) small penis man??

[Victimorthecrime]

Double post...

[notbad]

My experiences tell me that's horseshit. But even if it's true, it only lends credence to what I've stated: a 7-9" dick is desirable and comprise the top 20% of sexually active men who are "in demand".

7inch penis is 6% . 8inch penis is 0.6% . 7.5inch is 1.7% .

[themike]

I support you Igiveup. I've not seen the video. But really I will not see the 80% of despair content that people are bringing here.

First thanks to you I know that the retor of this is a troll.

And Jessie, seriously, you are searching the web about personal opinion? That's crazy. You don't know anything about the creator or bloggers, but you trust every word.

I'm really upset about this. If I search about a woman who only dateNBA players 100% I will find a blog or a internet page like ionlydateNBAplayers.com. And because of this I blame myself? For me you are doing the same with penis size.

I will not see anymore stuff on Internet. It's a fake world.

Here, I'll only see posts about people who are suffering but want to improve.

[Victimorthecrime]

Well that one way of looking at it. Honest to god I am so far removed from that world I couldn't tell ya.

[infrared_radiation]

Aside from one user in particular with a serious attitude problem, the response to this thread has been good.

Now what I would also like to say is that don't you think the girl in the video - although, of course, she is attractive - is quite masculine for a woman in terms of mannerisms, language, etc?

What I'm trying to say is that she is very far from being shy and ladylike - she comes across as brash, cocky, and arrogant. Everything that a traditional woman is not. In terms of her mannerisms and behaviour, she's more of a man than some men.

In some of her other videos, she seems very bitter indeed. Like this one:

She makes plenty of fair points here, but she comes across as so bitter! Especially towards the end of the video. And it's clearly all over just one thing: money.

[Jessie]

If a girl has sex with 50 diferent man, she has less than 1% chance of seeing a 7.5inch penis .

your maths is wrong.

15% of white men have a penis over 7 inches. (BP) (bell curve from Lifestyle or Kinsey)

And larger men are more promiscuous.

So a girl dating 50 white guys will see about 8 guys over 7 inch.

But larger men are more promiscuous so you could double that to 16.

As we are talking 7.5 not 7 (so lower part of bell curve) I guess she would have seen maybe 10 guys 7.5+

which is 20% not 1%.

[Jessie]

My experiences tell me that's horseshit. But even if it's true, it only lends credence to what I've stated: a 7-9" dick is desirable and comprise the top 20% of sexually active men who are "in demand".

I would only half agree.

I have directly heard many women say slightly bigger then average is ideal and seen many articles confirm this.

And recently there was a survey saying similar.

I think the ideal penis is around BP 7.5 x 5.5 for MOST women.

Yes there are some size queens who like larger but they are the minority (I accept women may have been self censoring to a degree so will you will forgive my naivety perhaps)

Im sure there are many guys doing well with girls with a standard 6x5 due their height, confidence and/or looks

[notbad]

your maths is wrong.

15% of white men have a penis over 7 inches. (BP) (bell curve from Lifestyle or Kinsey)

And larger men are more promiscuous.

So a girl dating 50 white guys will see about 8 guys over 7 inch.

But larger men are more promiscuous so you could double that to 16.

As we are talking 7.5 not 7 (so lower part of bell curve) I guess she would have seen maybe 10 guys 7.5+

which is 20% not 1%.

good post. I was wrong .

Anyway, just to have another point of view about studys... http://howlongismyschlong.com/

This study says average bone pressed is 5.7 inch .

[Jessie]

If a study says bone pressed is only 5.7 I would be sceptical.

Do you know which study it was?

I will happily find the source paper and find its methodology- and if so I bet I will find basic errors…. I usually do.

[notbad]

http://imgur.com/a/3r5sH#0 (this link is in the http://howlongismyschlong.com/ )

[Jessie]

Thanks- it looks like they used the Wessels study as their primary guidance which uses a small sample and produces the smallest lengths of all the various studies.

However the width data agrees with Kinsey.

Wessels is nurse measured (so not always fully erect) and not properly bone pressed (the published Wessels paper is suspiciously vague on precise measurement protocol and sample selection)

This is a flag for biased results. e.g. was there a degree of self selection of guys who were already worried about size?

The associated website for the Wessels work is a very self serving and overly positive site about all sizes including men suffering from micro penis.

Personally, I would dismiss their data as very poor quality- that said, its not terribly far under the truth. Better than nothing I guess.