Small Penis End Of The Line

[Pointless]

 

 

[robert]

I am confused about you saying "because of small penis and loneliness you are gay and in a gay relationship? Trust me if having a small penis and being lonely caused you to be gay I would of been gay too a long time ago also as a man in his late 20's with a small penis too you deserve to hear the truth size does matter and as much as it hurts to hear that it's the truth if the guy you were with didn't care about your small penis you shouldn't of have broken up with him also you should find a better outlet for your pain other than self harm as bad as having a small penis is you only have one life on this earth and I'm pretty sure your family friends etc would miss you a small penis is just something your stuck with there is nothing you can do about it just live your life the best way you can although I should be the last one trying to offer advice when I'm in the same boat as you so do whatever helps you I honestly don't blame you for wanting to die also if you're gay you should embrace who you are welcome to the community btw

[Terrorised]

8 hours ago, Pointless said:

And please no one use the age old 'it's not the size that counts, but how you use it'. My rationale is that if two people have the same techniques and were equally good in bed, then the one with the bigger penis would still be preferable.

I have asked this to women who say size doesn't matter, that if two men who differ vastly in size, one small and the other big, yet both poses the same level of skill under the sheets, which would they choose to have meaningless sex with? I have never heard one woman say small.

[Terrorised]

8 hours ago, Pointless said:

I'm kind of at the last leg, grasping at straws, seeking some kind of solace or help with no idea where to turn.. I stopped the self-harming, but have since started again and frequently find myself thinking about suicide multiple times of day. Any advice? Please?

I'm sorry that you are hurting this much. I don't really know what to say but I really hope things get better for you. I don't condone self harm but I am all about doing what you must to lessen the pain one feels. Take care.

[ShameOnThem]

Hi Pointless, 

Welcome. I am also sorry to hear about your hurting, and it's disappointing that your counselor's couldn't understand and help you. I'm not an expert or anything, just a guy with a small penis, but I can say without a doubt that self-harm and suicide are not solutions to anything. We all hurt emotionally on the inside, some more than others, but hurting ourselves is not normal and I hope you will seek out help if you are feeling like you want to hurt yourself in any way. I've said it before to others when it comes up, but no matter what there are so many people in this world who care about you, even people who do not know who you are. And think of all the people in your life who would drop everything and come to you right now if they truly understood how you felt. Suicide is a selfish decision, what is truly brave is to ask out for help, and follow through with it when your pain tries to creep back into your mind. So that is my advice on your current situation; to remember about those who care about you, and to seek help when you feel like hurting yourself.

As to the small penis dynamic, I'm one of the more optimistic people around here. I think that 99% of the body image issues that you(and me, and many of us) have are socially constructed, more so than anything sexual. We are constantly told by society that our penis is indicative of our masculinity and our value as a sexual partner, but this is simply not factually true. There are millions of lesbians out there, and they have mind blowing sex without any penis(or strap-ons, real life=/=porn). If they can give eachother crazy orgasms with their penis-less bodies, what is stopping us from doing the same? The biggest issue is not in what our bodies can do, it's what our minds can make sense of it all, and how we can rectify what society has told us penis size and our own bodies. The first step of this realizing that so much of what we are told about penis size is bullshit. Of course in a vacuum two penises would feel diferent based upon size, but human beings are as far from a vacuum as possible. First, you are going to have an emotional connection with the woman, which many women and men will tell you is the single most important part of sex. Then you have to remember that most women simply cannot orgasm from PIV sex, regardless of size. It's not the size of the penis, its the distance between the clitoris and the vagina, if she's too far away, she's not going to have a traditional orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation. So focus on giving her pleasure if you are unsure of yourself, and there is nothing stopping you from giving her many orgasms just because you have a small penis.