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i recently started watching porn again after many months of stopping(big mistake)and i have come to the conclusion that there is no way the average dick is only 5 something inches. i am 5.3 inches and about 99 percent of the amateur/home made porn videos i watched nearly all of the men were bigger than me. most looked to be about 6.5 and up. i don't know if the camera makes them appear bigger than they're but the majority of them were obviously not in the 5 inch range. i think whoever came up with that bull shit put that out there so men wouldn't worry about our dick size so much. watching those videos just made me feel like the smallest man in the world.

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Hey ihave. Hope all is well. I raised the same question a couple years ago and many agreed that the average seems more like 6 +.

But porn is a bad research sample because really small guys are unlikely to post such a video.  

Every study I have read states 5.3" or so is average, but who knows?  It is often said that girth matters more to women anyway and then there is the issue of bone press and how to measure and the question seems to go on endlessly. 

My advice to guys, for what it is worth, would be: 1) base you opinions off of real women in the real world. Fuck the internet. 2) try to not beat up on yourself over something you can't control 3) remember there is more to pleasing a woman than size. A strong, long lasting erection, even if it is below average, is going to mean something to most women, many of whom dislike having their cervix bashed by a long one.  And of course there is more to sex than intercourse and more to a relationship than sex.  

Anyway, just sharing some of my thoughts.  Wish everyone the best.  

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13 hours ago, ihaveanuglydick said:

i recently started watching porn again after many months of stopping(big mistake)and i have come to the conclusion that there is no way the average dick is only 5 something inches. i am 5.3 inches and about 99 percent of the amateur/home made porn videos i watched nearly all of the men were bigger than me. most looked to be about 6.5 and up. i don't know if the camera makes them appear bigger than they're but the majority of them were obviously not in the 5 inch range. i think whoever came up with that bull shit put that out there so men wouldn't worry about our dick size so much. watching those videos just made me feel like the smallest man in the world.

Me either but it's understandably an unpopular view here.

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The question "what is average" kind of misses the point.

Let's say average is six and half inches. Let's say we are all this size. Yippie! Now how much does that help us if we are with a wife or GF that wants 8 inches?

The 5 inches guy who is in a happy (that's genuinely happy) relationship scores over us every time, doesn't he?

Maybe average just exists in theory?

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7 hours ago, Redux said:

The question "what is average" kind of misses the point.

Let's say average is six and half inches. Let's say we are all this size. Yippie! Now how much does that help us if we are with a wife or GF that wants 8 inches?

The 5 inches guy who is in a happy (that's genuinely happy) relationship scores over us every time, doesn't he?

Maybe average just exists in theory?

i just know that my dick isn't big enough

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1 hour ago, Resolute said:

@Redux, are you saying that there is no such thing as actual average penis size?

are you saying that there isn't a certain range of sizes that the majority of women prefer?

In a way, yes. But I do think you could work out the average sized penis - but that's just a maths number at the end of the day. It only exists in theory!!

You could have more than the famous "average size" and still not be cool about your size. Maybe your GF is a sizequeen? Maybe you just have fucked up inferiority feelings in your brain? If it's not big enough for you it's not big enough!

Same kind of thing goes for women, they all have an individual idea about what is okay or not.

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Let's just put it like this, some guys with less than big units still get lots of action - one way or another. And that's a fact.

A friend of mine in a school swimming team was a guy who was in the 5 inch range, and he got more sex (that's even before we graduated from there) than the rest of the team put together!

He was popular with girls, good looking, had the charm, etc. (But a horse he was not.)

 

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2 hours ago, Resolute said:

small he was not either. besides, take away his looks, athletic abilities etc. and then let's see how popular he is with the ladies.

O.K. 

But the thread is about average penis size, about whether it's more than 5 inches, and about penises in porno films.

 

On 21. Juli 2016 at 6:10 AM, ihaveanuglydick said:

i recently started watching porn again after many months of stopping(big mistake)and i have come to the conclusion that there is no way the average dick is only 5 something inches. i am 5.3 inches and about 99 percent of the amateur/home made porn videos i watched nearly all of the men were bigger than me. most looked to be about 6.5 and up. i don't know if the camera makes them appear bigger than they're but the majority of them were obviously not in the 5 inch range. i think whoever came up with that bull shit put that out there so men wouldn't worry about our dick size so much. watching those videos just made me feel like the smallest man in the world.

 

Whatever average size is, I think most people know that the actors in porno films are mostly bigger than it!!

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1 hour ago, Redux said:

O.K. 

But the thread is about average penis size, about whether it's more than 5 inches, and about penises in porno films.

 

 

Whatever average size is, I think most people know that the actors in porno films are mostly bigger than it!!

not professional porn films, amateur/home made ones. the videos i watched were just regular everyday people fucking. not paid porn stars.

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15 hours ago, ihaveanuglydick said:

not professional porn films, amateur/home made ones. the videos i watched were just regular everyday people fucking. not paid porn stars.

Oh I see. I don't watch pornos so much myself these days. But I'd guess it would still be mostly bigger guys who are volunteering for these home made films?

Update

So I just googled "home made porn" and looked at some random clips that came up. Of the 5 guys that I saw, 2 looked about my length, give or take. 1 was a bit bigger. And 2 were much bigger (more like normal pornstar length.) No idea what to make of that?? I could go on looking at more clips, but this stuff is pretty damn sleazy!! It's more fun to do sex than it is to watch it, to be quite honest.

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On 7/22/2016 at 1:04 PM, Redux said:

 

 

On 7/22/2016 at 1:04 PM, Redux said:

It's more fun to do sex than it is to watch it, to be quite honest.

i am sure it is but i am sadly a 26 year old virgin. i will never ever watch any kind of porn again for my own sanity. i get extremely jealous seeing other guys sex. especially if their dick is big.

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I have difficulty believing that the average erection is under 6", but honestly, I can think of only two occasions when I saw, in person, an erect adult dick other than my own.  My opinion is mostly based on the many flaccid sightings that mostly appear to be larger than mine.  I am a "grower" no doubt, but it still gives me (with 5" erect, or just a bit more on a good day) the impression of being quite small on the spectrum.

In relationships, I have not been rejected, nor even felt merely "settled for" yet, so I continue my journey with SPS kept at bay for the most part.

 

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  • 2 weeks later...

Most people don't believe the average is what is reported any more. But, honestly, 90 percent of what we see is on porn or guys who post a picture of their big dick because it is big. 

Mine is 5 inches max when erect (we all have different levels of erection) and I know I am below average. I wish I wasn't, but there's nothing I can do about it. It doesn't change my mental outlook, though. 

My only hope is that since I am in my 50s, that women who I meet will be less interested in whether or not I can rock their worlds with a big cock than if we are compatible in other areas.

 

 

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5 hours ago, asianfan831 said:

My only hope is that since I am in my 50s, that women who I meet will be less interested in whether or not I can rock their worlds with a big cock than if we are compatible in other areas.

well you're in luck; most women in their 50s have probably had enough cocks to last them several lifetimes, so i'm sure many of them will be interested in other stuff as well.

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On 22/07/2016 at 5:17 AM, ihaveanuglydick said:

i just know that my dick isn't big enough

Big enough for what? If the guy with 6 inches loses his erection and is working with a softer 5, surely that means your hard 5.3 would be appreciated, no? You'd be surprised how many men don't work the angles when fucking. They don't play with her ass, they don't bite, nibble and slap. Most men DO NOT role play. Women cum in their head just like we do. Ever watch that really good porn that was almost heaven sent and your eyes water? Same theory, just requires a good woman or willing partner. Obviously you're not every woman's cup of tea, but none of us are. Find the right girl/guy and thank your lucky stars you haven't got a micro penis. 5.3 is average statistically, but egotistically it's 6+. Who's gonna admit to smaller than 6 irl? Not a soul. Even average guys in porn are bigger than the statistical average. Penis statistics? What a load of cock

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