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9 hours ago, Redux said:

Improvise if necessary

A pocket vibrator is a small dicked man's best friend. Put a cushion under her arse, lift her legs up or apart, get a decent downward angle and put the vibrator on her clit. (Lift it on and off so it's not all mechanical but man and machine, simpatico) She'll come quicker than a rocket powered dog. 

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i'm afraid there are certain fundamental things that you two don't seem to understand. the issue isn't whether a guy can make a woman orgasm by any means or not; even a woman can make another woman orgasm, but that doesn't mean that straight women will start sleeping  with other women or fantasizing about them. the main issue is that a man needs to be able to pleasure a woman with his penis in order to feel like a man. anyone can use fingers, tongues, toys etc. but that don't make him a man, nor will it cause women to be attracted to him if he didn't have an adequate penis (i'm sure there are exceptions, but you get my meaning).

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30 minutes ago, Resolute said:

the main issue is that a man needs to be able to pleasure a woman with his penis in order to feel like a man. anyone can use fingers, tongues, toys etc. but that don't make him a man, nor will it cause women to be attracted to him if he didn't have an adequate penis (i'm sure there exceptions, but you get my meaning).

A lot of girls never come just through peen to vag sex!! So tongue and finger is in actual fact a must for them.

For most girls you don't need to have a v big peen.You really don't. So if you're like 5 or 6 inches or some shit like that you just need to go ball deep and do your best man!!

It's totally true that some girls do like v big though. What can we say? Avoid them!! Or you will be like the guy who brought a knife to a gun fight!!

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3 minutes ago, Redux said:

A lot of girls never come through peen to vag sex!! So tongue and finger is in actual fact a must for them.

orgasming is less important to most women than it is to men, but pleasure from sex is very important to them. in other words, most women would choose satisfying and pleasurable intercourse over orgasming without intercourse (or unsatisfactory intercourse).

 

3 minutes ago, Redux said:

For most girls you don't need to have a v big peen.You really don't. So if you're like 5 or 6 inches or some shit like that you just need to go ball deep man!!

It's totally true that some girls do like v big though.

that may be true (putting aside the matter of girth), but it doesn't help someone who has a 3 inch penis for instance. so guys who are truly small have every right to be "a whiney bitch".

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On 11/08/2016 at 10:15 AM, Resolute said:

i'm afraid there are certain fundamental things that you two don't seem to understand. the issue isn't whether a guy can make a woman orgasm by any means or not; even a woman can make another woman orgasm, but that doesn't mean that straight women will start sleeping  with other womenor fantasizing about them. the main issue is that a man needs to be able to pleasure a woman with his penis in order to feel like a man. anyone can use fingers, tongues, toys etc. but that don't make him a man, nor will it cause women to be attracted to him if he didn't have an adequate penis (i'm sure there exceptions, but you get my meaning).

I personally know this to be incorrect. Sometimes, when you're both in the mood and somewhat spontaneous, coming together can be an awesome experience. But coming is coming. If you feel like your dick HAS to be the thing giving pleasure, then you're going to talk yourself out of any chance you have of getting the confidence to do it. Sex is supposed to be fun, not a wander around a mental health clinic. I know guys with 7" - 8" cocks that swear by vibrators/butt plugs etc. Because if a woman wants to come multiple times they haven't got the stamina to keep up physically. A lot of dudes are out of shape, big cock or otherwise. I find even using your finger to massage the clit during sex can be incorporated right into the deed without it being an 'oh, my finger did it, not my cock' mentality. And there's no getting around the fact that even porn stars (women) play with their clits throughout. Everybody just wants to get off. Rather than creating a world of anxiety and depression around something so simple, why not just do what needs be done and improve a bit every time? I get that to make a woman come with your penis alone seems to be the ideal cure to every problem we have, but it's not. You've got to keep doing it. And you're only as good as your last successful punt. At least, that's what most men think. You have to unsubscribe to 'Manly Man' magazine and realise that the only thing that matters is your peace of mind. Free your mind and you cock will follow ☮

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On 11/08/2016 at 10:55 AM, Resolute said:

I know what you're saying, man. 3 inches is a different ball park, it'd take serious ingenuity and work arounds. But nobody deserves a living hell. There's always another way. Admittedly it'd be a nightmare finding someone organically, showing them your cock, them being cool with it and happy ever after. But there has to be a work around. Maybe joining a website with sexual specifics and just biding your time. Otherwise it's just keeping yourself busy until death. 

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58 minutes ago, Resolute said:

like i said, you two just don't get it.

I drank a lot during my early years and I could barely keep it up, I fluctuated from semi to stump for the most part. If it's anything like that or worse you're right, admittedly, I probably don't get it. I know it sounds like we're doing fine over here, but the grass isn't as green as it looks. I don't mean to make light of what you're going through, sorry if it sounded like I was. ☮

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