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We all talk about penis size and function, but I've noticed that aesthetics are rarely discussed so I'd like to get some dialogue going. Does it matter what a penis looks like? What constitutes a good looking penis? How much could this play into your sps? Thank you.

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For some reason I don't think knowing a girl thought my penis was ugly would bother me. It would only be that much more satisfying to make her cum despite that. I know some girls have preferences regarding curves, foreskin, and whatnot, but these discussions are so dwarfed by the issue of size that I've never thought to tie up any self-esteem in the aesthetics of my dick. When I care about it the most neither of us can see it anyway; who gives a fuck.

Even when I watch porn I'm not particularly struck by the aesthetic beauty of women's genitals. They can look nice, but I don't find myself admiring the curves and colors of them the way I do with legs or asses. I guess I've always just assumed women feel similarly about penises. Maybe I'm wrong.

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Hi Small. I think size and appearance are inseparable, and I think the appearance of largeness matters more than the largeness itself. Personally I think a thick penis is most appealing, one that is thicker at the base and tapers like an elephant trunk. Those are the most impressive. Excessively veiny ones look like varicose veins, which is unappealing. I'm indifferent regarding circumcision. 

I'm waiting for the day HBO debuts a new program that is a penis fashion show. If you remember, I suggested once that codpieces would make a comeback in men's fashion, and I still believe that, only now I think they may have slits or grills in them that provide a tempting glimpse of the goods beyond a mere bulge. Really, based on what I've seen recently on a college campus, I think men will eventually wear nothing but a thong with a cod piece and flip flops. And phone booth type cubicles all over the place where people can engage in casual sex when a woman spots a particularly superior specimen and the lust becomes overwhelming to the point that she must have that penis then and there or burst into flame. 

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16 hours ago, Pax said:

 I think the appearance of largeness matters more than the largeness itself. Personally I think a thick penis is most appealing, one that is thicker at the base and tapers like an elephant trunk. Those are the most impressive.

I completely agree with this!

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2 hours ago, jazz said:

Hope this fashion prediction is wrong... :image:

You think I'm being facetious but the first day it got above 70 F the jocks were out running in nothing but those spandex type running shorts and tennis shoes - shirtless, crotch bulging, just human animals advertising their brute physiques like draught horses at an auction. It's nothing new and I highly doubt this university is unique. Females the same, except instead of totally shirtless they do have the modesty to wear a sports type bikini top that shows cleavage.

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Oh plenty. It's an orgiastic garden of fleshly delights. A breeder farm filled with genetic rewards. I've built an altar in my apartment to try and capture this sexual energy for a powerful magical rite to grow my penis and make me good looking. I'll let everyone know how it goes. It involves filling three magnum condoms with the fresh blood of a dog in heat and then hanging them above a roasting passion fruit while massaging the genitalia in a rhythmic way in front of a picture of Dr. Ruth.

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Those Saudis have it made. With their long white robe thingies. You never see them in stupid crotch revealing skinny jeans and what have ya. Even if you wore a kilt, traditionally you have to be naked underneath, can't see any problems with that in a strong wind ?. I'm almost resigned to misery when it comes to the human bulge condition. It's weird, my package is bigger naked than people I've seen on TV and elsewhere, but put me in jeans or shorts or just pants and it's bulge go bye bye. Could it be my thighs? Could it be the underwear? Could it be the thing that compels me to jump off a fucking bridge? ?. 

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12 hours ago, YahwehOrTheHighway said:

 It's weird, my package is bigger naked than people I've seen on TV and elsewhere, but put me in jeans or shorts or just pants and it's bulge go bye bye. Could it be my thighs? Could it be the underwear? Could it be the thing that compels me to jump off a fucking bridge? ?. 

I look really flat in jeans but it's never bothered me all that much. But it certainly gets to me when I'm out swimming only to come out of the pool to see my wet shorts stuck flat on to me and no bulge to speak of. Man that cuts deep.

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4 hours ago, YahwehOrTheHighway said:

You're braver than me TBD. I haven't been swimming since 2003. Feels pathetic not having the confidence to take my kids swimming, but I make it up doing other things like bike rides, walks and trips to the park. Still, like you said, cuts deep and feels pretty shitty. 

Man, silly as this may seem I almost teared up reading that part about you having fun with your kids. I remember I used to dream about that all day in my teens. That vision died a very slow and painful death but reading your comment I imagined myself taking my kids for walks, teaching them life lessons, playing games and holding them tightly in my arms... see what you did now Yahweh....?I hope you're happy...

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(@TBD) To be honest, it's not something I ever thought would happen for me, but it saved my life (sanity) in many ways. Having kids is a blessing, and it does change your priorities for the most part. But physical insecurities have a sneaky way of creeping back into the old fish bowl and sabotaging what should be no-brainer happy moments. If I'm honest, it's a daily struggle to deal with old childhood memories and nagging repetitive thoughts of victimisation etc. But I love my boys, they make me feel like I'm here for a reason and make me so proud. I just hope they don't ever have to go through this bullshit, I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. It's not easy being a man, it's tiresome and monotonous. It's all testosterone and lies with a bullshit finish. 

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It's my suspicion that some sps issues are displaced aesthetic shortcomings. It isn't all about the ruler. I've compiled a list of what I find to be desirable penis aesthetics. I think perception is everything when it comes to the phallus, and bigger isn't always better.


Girth Distribution:

I like a v shape, where the penis gradually gets thicker towards the base (thickest point) and is thinnest just before the glans. I also prefer a penis to look thicker than it is long. 


Erection Angle:

So long asthere's no downwards slant, the closer to horizontal the better. Most people prefer a slight upward tilt but for me, the sort of curvature needed to achieve this simultaneously portrays a lack of thickness.


Chubby look:

A penis can look chubby/swollen if there's a generous amount of erectile tissue on the outer layers of the penis, beneath the skin. Even the girthiest of penises can look defined/slim if the majority of tissue is situated inside the inner shaft. I find the former more spectacular than the latter.


Complexion:

All sorts of colours. But the most important thing is consistency of colour. A dual tone between the glans and shaft is fine, so long as each is rich in it's respective colour subsequently providing a glow.


Skin:

Generous and thick. Skin crawling up and down the shaft upon stroking really brings a penis to life. 


Foreskin:

I like thick folded foreskin that covers about 3/4 of the glans when erect. Most people probably prefer a fully retracting foreskin or none at all.


Glans:

I like a short chubby glans that hugs the shaft tightly. Thick ridges are nice, but the smaller the span from the shaft the better.


Veins:

The fewer the veins the better but more important than quantity is colour. The colour should match the skin tone as opposed to being green etc.


Balls:

I'm not a fan of low hangers. The more closely the scrotal skin hugs the balls the better. 


Misc:

Minor detail, but the connecting tissue between the bottom of the shaft and scrotum always looks better with a sag or hang.
 

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