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Trying to get my mum and dad back again

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Hi.. I am currently 10 years old and I've been recently depressing myself with this one thing. I really love my dad, and my life would be way easier than it is now if he was in the house. He currently has his own house to live his life in, and he has a job. I still have no help from this topic and I've been talking to my mum and dad about this. I talked to Mum about this half an hour ago and she just responded to me "There's nothing I can do about it." and I said to myself "There is always something you can do about it...." 1 minute later she came back talking about it and we used examples about it like having a cat (which we actually do have. They split up when I just started school, just because of one argument about my dads laziness before he got a job. When I was in Year 3, my dad had an operation about weight. That week when he came out of hospital that was a week of them spending time together. I really loved that week, we watched movies together and had KFC (the kfc wasn't a thing I loved about it). That was a week I enjoyed, even I was in the mood to go to school. I really need your help about it, and I will try all your tips, and see if they work. I really hope you understand what I am talking about, because I am a bad explainer. I've been hoping them to get back together ever since I heard about it. I love my dad. I need him back so I can enjoy life again..

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Hi Brayden. Welcome. You have done a wonderful job expressing yourself.

This sounds like a painful and confusing time for you. I'm sorry you feel sad and miss your dad. :(

I don't think there is any way that you can get your parents back together again. If it does happen, it would be their choice to do it. I'm sorry, I hear how much you want them to be together. It's good that you are talking and sharing with them about your feelings and needs. I think that's very important. Even though your parents are living separately, you still need and want them both in your life. I hope you are able to spend more time with your father soon.

Brayden, it's okay to feel sad, angry, frustrated or whatever you might be feeling. I hope you will continue to care for yourself and listen to your needs.


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