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I feel like I shouldn't be posting here, because I don't have a small penis. I fear that I will not be welcomed here. But here goes...

I don't know if I can say I have "Small Penis Syndrome", because my penis is actually pretty big, but I constantly wish it was bigger and I am completely obsessed with it. I feel like my life would be better if I had another inch in length and girth, even though pretty much everyone I've been with sexually has complimented me on my size, or at least mentioned it, and a few have had problems taking it all. But that doesn't seem to impact how obsessed I am. I literally feel like as long as there are dicks out there bigger than mine, I'm not good enough. People don't like me or respect me because I'm not the most well endowed man on the planet. Which is absolutely insane. I know on a rational level that this makes no sense. I know I have body dysmorphia and a fear of rejection, and that it has to do with how my mother treated me as a kid, and how I have been socially maladapted my whole life. My dick is not a problem. My head is. My social skills are shit. I can get laid, but I can't keep a girlfriend. I can't make friendships beyond the superficial. I watch way too much porn and spend way too much time on dating apps, cam sites, and doing enlargement exercises to have anything like a regular life. My friends think I'm this super cool stud, because i have a good job, look good, dress well, and get girls, but on the inside I am just a dead empty shell.

I've been perusing this forum for a while and I've noticed some guys here are pretty average, but I haven't noticed any bigger guys. So hopefully it's not a problem for anyone. Again, my fear of rejection. 

 

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On 19/12/2017 at 1:12 AM, hungbutinsecure said:

I feel like I shouldn't be posting here, because I don't have a small penis. I fear that I will not be welcomed here. But here goes...

I don't know if I can say I have "Small Penis Syndrome", because my penis is actually pretty big, but I constantly wish it was bigger and I am completely obsessed with it. I feel like my life would be better if I had another inch in length and girth, even though pretty much everyone I've been with sexually has complimented me on my size, or at least mentioned it, and a few have had problems taking it all. But that doesn't seem to impact how obsessed I am. I literally feel like as long as there are dicks out there bigger than mine, I'm not good enough. People don't like me or respect me because I'm not the most well endowed man on the planet. Which is absolutely insane. I know on a rational level that this makes no sense. I know I have body dysmorphia and a fear of rejection, and that it has to do with how my mother treated me as a kid, and how I have been socially maladapted my whole life. My dick is not a problem. My head is. My social skills are shit. I can get laid, but I can't keep a girlfriend. I can't make friendships beyond the superficial. I watch way too much porn and spend way too much time on dating apps, cam sites, and doing enlargement exercises to have anything like a regular life. My friends think I'm this super cool stud, because i have a good job, look good, dress well, and get girls, but on the inside I am just a dead empty shell.

I've been perusing this forum for a while and I've noticed some guys here are pretty average, but I haven't noticed any bigger guys. So hopefully it's not a problem for anyone. Again, my fear of rejection. 

 

 

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You mightn't have SPS but we all have PS. If you obsess to the point of exhaustion then it's an issue that needs addressing. The penis problem seems to stem from having one full stop, if you don't love it the way it is then there's only one way to go, against it. 

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19 hours ago, hungbutinsecure said:

I fear that I will not be welcomed here. But here goes...

No worries man, from what I have encountered so far in my <24 hours as a member of the site, this is a pretty safe place and people would never tell you to take your big dick elsewhere lol.

However, I don't think I can add much. I'll just say, what he said (YOTH) right below:

11 hours ago, YOTH said:

You mightn't have SPS but we all have PS. If you obsess to the point of exhaustion then it's an issue that needs addressing. The penis problem seems to stem from having one full stop, if you don't love it the way it is then there's only one way to go, against it. 

Most of all, man, take pleasure in knowing that your dick isn't 4 inches or smaller. Imagine what your pain would be like if that were the case?

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You are definitely welcome here in my book. But I'm not sure you're going to find too many folks here who can relate to your issue. Personally, I wish I was in your predicament. Fix the mental issue and walk away with a healthy mind and a big dick. Those of us who are truly small have an anatomical shortcoming that no amount of therapy can fix, and never fails to drag our minds and hearts back into the mud. But your problem is real and if you find what you need here, that's great.

FWIW, I think I'd be the same way if I were already big. Bigger is always better, at least for those of us with big fragile egos.

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