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Have you ever been the one to break up a relationship? (even though you have a small penis)  

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Not really a relationship but my first girlfriend was dating a friend of mine until she got fed up with him and decided to break up with him and ask me to be her new boyfriend. I said yes even though I wasn't really into her that much. After a few weeks I decided to end it. She was so upset she decided to tell our friends that I had a small penis. Fortunately we didn't share many friends so it didn't have much of an impact. Anyway a short while later I found out from a weird source that the friend she was originally dating had an 8" penis. More than twice my size.

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18 minutes ago, Shrimp Fried Life said:

Not really a relationship but my first girlfriend was dating a friend of mine until she got fed up with him and decided to break up with him and ask me to be her new boyfriend. I said yes even though I wasn't really into her that much. After a few weeks I decided to end it. She was so upset she decided to tell our friends that I had a small penis. Fortunately we didn't share many friends so it didn't have much of an impact. Anyway a short while later I found out from a weird source that the friend she was originally dating had an 8" penis. More than twice my size.

Interesting story thank you..... I myself have just ended a relationship for the first time (I have had 3 girlfriends). I am having trouble figuring out how much, if at all, the SPS was an issue. She spoke of my penis as "normal" sized and she wasnt afraid to tell me that she had been with more endowed guys. But in not in a condescending way. It didnt bother me.

I used to hate women.....that has changed.

 

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16 hours ago, TheDane said:

as in a homosexual relationship?

Actually in both my 1 and only 1 homosexual experiment and in quite a number of heterosexual ones.

I was open to being submissive for a dominant, but always gravely disappointed each dominant took it too seriously.

None of them could see it as merely a game.  So, I would drop them fairly quickly. 

At first it was satisfying to provide dramatic orgasm for the partner, but, then, the relationship would become "one way."   I should have known immediately by comparing their so so reactions in our prior "vanilla" sex to the dramatic reaction to dominant - submissive sex.  No wonder.

They didn't want a submissive for fun, but for real.

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5 hours ago, TheDane said:

Interesting story thank you..... I myself have just ended a relationship for the first time (I have had 3 girlfriends). 

No idea why you ended it?    Not quite the reaction you had hoped for in sex?  Or other consideration?  There is a lot about people to accept or reject besides their sexual behavior!

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Interesting question. No, I haven't.

High school girlfriend...asked me out, ended with her shunning me, hating me, etc.

High school crush...rejected me when I asked her out

Real girlfriend #1...cheated on me while doing study abroad, dumped me without ever telling me

Real girlfriend #2...dumped me

Real girlfriend #3...still dating

I had a girl I went on a few dates with duck out of my kiss when I finally tried to kiss her.

I will say there were a couple girls where I never followed up with them after the first date, out of fear that they didn't like me on the first date

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On 1/23/2020 at 6:55 AM, GoldenBoyX said:

Interesting question. No, I haven't.

High school girlfriend...asked me out, ended with her shunning me, hating me, etc.

High school crush...rejected me when I asked her out

Real girlfriend #1...cheated on me while doing study abroad, dumped me without ever telling me

Real girlfriend #2...dumped me

Real girlfriend #3...still dating

I had a girl I went on a few dates with duck out of my kiss when I finally tried to kiss her.

I will say there were a couple girls where I never followed up with them after the first date, out of fear that they didn't like me on the first date

I understand you are quite the ladies man 😀

something tells me having a small penis is a bigger problem in the US

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@CircusLeavesTown hey.

 

saw your posts earlier and I understand you are hurting at the moment. I guess we have all been there.. ( I am 37 now and when I was 30 I felt like you). I spent 9 years not having sex.

 

now I don't know whether you have an actual small penis or it's sps or a little bit of both. the only advice I can offer you is to keep trying. have you tried viagra? it can be a confidence booster.

all the best from across the North Sea

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On 1/31/2020 at 10:30 PM, TheDane said:

@CircusLeavesTown hey.

 

saw your posts earlier and I understand you are hurting at the moment. I guess we have all been there.. ( I am 37 now and when I was 30 I felt like you). I spent 9 years not having sex.

 

now I don't know whether you have an actual small penis or it's sps or a little bit of both. the only advice I can offer you is to keep trying. have you tried viagra? it can be a confidence booster.

all the best from across the North Sea

Hello mate, where are you from btw?

I have thought about viagra and I might give that a shot. About my size, when soft it's about 2 inches but it can reach 5 when hard. Unfortunately my girth is pretty poor and that, as well as my soft size, makes me too self conscious to perform

I have SPS and a small penis.. I don't consider them mutually exclusive

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20 hours ago, CircusLeavesTown said:

Hello mate, where are you from btw?

I have thought about viagra and I might give that a shot. About my size, when soft it's about 2 inches but it can reach 5 when hard. Unfortunately my girth is pretty poor and that, as well as my soft size, makes me too self conscious to perform

I have SPS and a small penis.. I don't consider them mutually exclusive

well.... it could be much worse then. surprisingly England has relatively small penises compared to European standards(must be all the drinking 😛). and you are just below. the only thing you can do really is to throw yourself out there. combined with viagra you are sure to make 5 inches.

I am from Denmark btw.

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4 hours ago, TheDane said:

well.... it could be much worse then. surprisingly England has relatively small penises compared to European standards(must be all the drinking 😛). and you are just below. the only thing you can do really is to throw yourself out there. combined with viagra you are sure to make 5 inches.

I am from Denmark btw.

Which is strange because English women seem to demand a bigger size. It will probably take me a few more years before I'm able to put myself out there. I might not ever be able to. Thank you for the productive advice though, I appreciate it

I don't know how accurate this data is but it's worth a look I guess. According to this, the British are in the mid range. No mention of Denmark but the Swedes are an average of 5.9 compared to the 5.5 over here

https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/iv-drip/the-penis-size-study-how-do-british-men-fare-8192025.html

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On 2/4/2020 at 3:33 AM, CircusLeavesTown said:

Which is strange because English women seem to demand a bigger size. It will probably take me a few more years before I'm able to put myself out there. I might not ever be able to. Thank you for the productive advice though, I appreciate it

I don't know how accurate this data is but it's worth a look I guess. According to this, the British are in the mid range. No mention of Denmark but the Swedes are an average of 5.9 compared to the 5.5 over here

https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/iv-drip/the-penis-size-study-how-do-british-men-fare-8192025.html

luckily and maybe because of this , you have the very fitting word for these kinds of women..... cunts.

I gather you are in the "reading stage" of SPS. like when you think you got cancer.

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