sadgreeneyes Posted July 15, 2009 Report Share Posted July 15, 2009 (edited) Hi,I have been on the board here some weeks ago because I have been emotionally abused. He has two sons,10 and 13 years old. One day( two months ago) I saw that the 13 year old son watched a video/dvd that contained sadistic sexual humor, no one was naked in the movie and the movie was more like theatrical,like on a close stage), but it was clear sexual behavior where one woman was standing on her knees with leather tied up in her mouth and to the wall screaming and shaking her head trying to get lose while another woman was touching her breasts!! I was in shock and told the father how he could let his sons watch that kind of movie. His answer was ahh, it´s only humor! Even they had clothes on and even it was the 13 year old sons dvd( I think it was) this can not possible be normal to let sons at this age watch? If children watch this kind of movies what will they learn to think,grow up to think this is normal?? I don´t think I overreact on this, please tell me this is not normal, I find it rather sick. Is this child abuse if the child choses to watch it himself? how can the father think this is ok? This can not possible be normal? I told his exwife this but now I feel confused. I think I did the right thing? and if the father should be angry for this isn´t he then even more abusive? I know that I would never let my children or any other child watch something like that. But since the father has told me things, what to do with me, then I guess he thinks its normal kids learn this too. Wouldn´t a normal father take the sons dvd away and throw it? The exwife was thankful I let her know about children and she also gave me information I need to hear, that he is not normal and when I told him he treated me very bad she could tell me he treated his children very bad. She said the last about children before I told about the dvd. If I remember correct. Edited July 15, 2009 by sadgreeneyes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
juststarting Posted July 16, 2009 Report Share Posted July 16, 2009 the first pornography i was ever exposed to was my fathers. it wasnt hard to find. i guess i was 6 or 7 . here thirty years later its still a problem for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sadgreeneyes Posted July 16, 2009 Author Report Share Posted July 16, 2009 the first pornography i was ever exposed to was my fathers. it wasnt hard to find. i guess i was 6 or 7 . here thirty years later its still a problem for meI am sorry to hear this, I was exposed to pornography at age 12 and met many bad men as adult, I have had PTSD for 10 years now because of this.I hope someone will tell me soon that what the father/son did was not normal? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ASchwartz Posted July 16, 2009 Report Share Posted July 16, 2009 Hi Sadgreeneyes,I am always amazed by the number of people who do not merely watch porno, but leave the material lying around the house where their children can and do find it.In my opinion, and this is my opinion, you did the right thing. That "father" never, ever should have allowed his kids to view that stuff and for him to dismiss it as "humor." His children should NEVER have been allowed to watch that stuff. People are unbelievably thoughtless and insensitive.You are correct, you are right, and do not doubt yourself about this. Good job!!! Allan:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sadgreeneyes Posted July 16, 2009 Author Report Share Posted July 16, 2009 (edited) Hi Allan:)thank you for answering my question. Did you see that it was not porn they watched, but a theatrical show? I don´t know if you misunderstood me since you mentioned porn? It was a sadistic humor show with sexually behavior, but no naked people. It´s wrong anyway, right? and is it child abuse? the father is now calling me a liar, but I don´t care, I know I am not.Hi Sadgreeneyes,I am always amazed by the number of people who do not merely watch porno, but leave the material lying around the house where their children can and do find it.In my opinion, and this is my opinion, you did the right thing. That "father" never, ever should have allowed his kids to view that stuff and for him to dismiss it as "humor." His children should NEVER have been allowed to watch that stuff. People are unbelievably thoughtless and insensitive.You are correct, you are right, and do not doubt yourself about this. Good job!!! Allan:) Edited July 16, 2009 by sadgreeneyes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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