MrKanista Posted July 13, 2008 Report Share Posted July 13, 2008 Hi I'm going through a bit of a confusing period in my relationship and I was hoping someone with a higher "emotional intelligence" than me might be able to help me a bit.Me and my girlfriend have been together for just over 2 and a half years. In the last year or so we've been having some problems and they seem to mainly revolve around sex and, more specifically, the fact that I don't give her enough of it. And I'm not exactly sure why.About a year ago I emigrated to her country of residence to be with her and it has pretty much started since then, I have been less interested in sex, I just don't feel like it so much anymore and when I do do it, it feels unexciting and like a chore and I am happy when its finished. I usually have to fantasise about other women too.I was hoping maybe someone might be able to help find the cause of it? I guess it could be because the "honeymoon period" of our relationship is over and things have become more predictable etc. I guess it could also be because I am often depressed or stressed. And maybe also because I have found it difficult to settle in her country because of having to learn the language and finding it difficult to meet new people and have a proper life of my own. Sometimes I even think it is because I don't love her anymore and that I would prefer to be out there playing the field and experiencing things before settling down, but then other times I feel so in love with my girlfriend!!Has anyone ever experienced anything like this in a relationship? Any help would be well received as I'm so confused!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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