Small Penis - One Man's Pain

[Victimorthecrime]

Sorry to hear you are still struggling Eric. A lot of us here have not had a date in a long long time so you are not alone. Is there anything that is going well for you? I hope so. We are here.

[EricDavis2]

Thank you "Resolute" and "Victim" for the very kind words. It's pretty amazing to me how great people are here.

Oddly enough, just this morning I saw an article in today's paper about a man who is also 60 and hasn't dated in 25 years. He's divorced and lonely and called himself "inadequately endowed". I felt his pain and started to cry because I know how painful it is to feel this way. This problem saps your love of life. And you can't confide in anyone because of the shame and the fact that most guys can't relate to this at all.

So, thanks guys, for those words. It means a great deal to know people support you. Good luck to you.

[IrmaJean]

However, in typical fashion, I chickened out. My self-confidence goes away quickly. I'm not as worried about striking up conversations with women as I did when I was younger, but when I think there's any chance of physical contact, my fears and same about my small penis scares me from following through.

Hi Eric, it's good to hear from you again. I'm sorry things have not improved much for you.

You do mention here that it's not as difficult to start up conversations with women. That's positive. :-) Maybe it's something to build on? Have you thought about trying to make friends with women without any expectations to start with? Who knows, maybe she will be the one to initiate something further?

So, that's it. Stlll alone. Still ashamed. Still afraid of taking a chance. It's a joke I'm still screwed up at my age. And no friend can help me out of this. I need to do it myself, but I just can't. Hope other guys are doing better than I am. Take care.

Maybe today, you feel that you can't. Possibly that changes down the road? I hope you are open to it. I'm sorry things are hard.

Take care, Eric, and best wishes.

[TinyBrazilian]

you have a micropenis

Surgery is indicated in those cases

[Lifeswhatyoumakeit]

I don't know if this threads still going but I have a bit of a problem I need to ask a question to the men who are on the small side.

I want to go to my local chemist with my new guy to buy viagra as due to him having a small penis he gets embarrassed and it stays floppy so my question

How do I approach him and how do I ask him is he willing to go get help

Thanks x

[ShameOnThem]

I don't know if this threads still going but I have a bit of a problem I need to ask a question to the men who are on the small side.

I want to go to my local chemist with my new guy to buy viagra as due to him having a small penis he gets embarrassed and it stays floppy so my question

How do I approach him and how do I ask him is he willing to go get help

Thanks x

He needs to be there to get the pills? If you got them online or w/e would he actually take them? Is it just the embarrassment aspect for why he won't get them, or is he unwilling to take them if you get them online? Because I would recommend just checking my spam folder, sounds like you can get some really good deals as well.

[EricDavis2]

My annual update:  I still deal with the anxiety and shame of having a small penis. I have periods of depression, especially when I'm alone with my thoughts. I am jealous of people I know or work with who get married, or have a baby, or meet someone special. I'd like to be happy for them because they're not the root of my problem, but it's hard.

I'm trying to accept that it's never going to happen for me at this point of my life, so I can better deal with my situation. It's not realistic to think I'm suddenly going to reverse 60 years of failure. My problem years ago was not recognizing when an opportunity presented itself and missing out on possible date. Now that I try to be more aware that someone may be interested in me, there IS no interest.

I understand that no one is gonna look at a 60 year old man that's never been married, is now overweight, and has no game, no confidence, no ability to stand out from the crowd. Just being a "nice guy" has never been god enough - you need to be aggressive, confident, and somewhat bold. I can't be a phony and be something I'm not. Time to stop crying and accept that fact.

[Resolute]

sorry to hear you're still suffering, eric. i don't know what to say, except i feel your pain, man; i really do. i'm sure many of us here can relate to your pain.

[EricDavis2]

thanks "resolute" I appreciate your concern

[IrmaJean]

It's good to hear from you, Eric. I'm sorry that things continue to be difficult and painful for you. Sending my care to you.

[Victimorthecrime]

Hey Eric, I wish you would post more than annually but good to hear from you but I do wish things were better.  

I am 54 so I can relate to a lot of what you say.  I encourage you to not give up hope but to look within your self for answers.  Life is not a choice between perfect and nothing, there is a lot of room in between.  

But regardless, wishing you the best.  

Wanted to add one more thing Eric and that is that not all these married guys are as happy as the image they project so don't envy them too much.  

Edited November 1, 2016 by Victimorthecrime

[YOTH]

On 31/10/2016 at 10:48 PM, EricDavis2 said:

My annual update:  I still deal with the anxiety and shame of having a small penis. I have periods of depression, especially when I'm alone with my thoughts. I am jealous of people I know or work with who get married, or have a baby, or meet someone special. I'd like to be happy for them because they're not the root of my problem, but it's hard.

I'm trying to accept that it's never going to happen for me at this point of my life, so I can better deal with my situation. It's not realistic to think I'm suddenly going to reverse 60 years of failure. My problem years ago was not recognizing when an opportunity presented itself and missing out on possible date. Now that I try to be more aware that someone may be interested in me, there IS no interest.

I understand that no one is gonna look at a 60 year old man that's never been married, is now overweight, and has no game, no confidence, no ability to stand out from the crowd. Just being a "nice guy" has never been god enough - you need to be aggressive, confident, and somewhat bold. I can't be a phony and be something I'm not. Time to stop crying and accept that fact.

I have faith in you, brother. Your next pop in will be a happy one. ☮?. ❤