Troubledperson Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 It seems like my wife dont never want to have sex she just does it to shut me up. I take it but i dont like it, she barely kiss me while we have sex and never wants to be in control just lays there. I do everrything for her in the bed i mean everything and its never a wam bam thank you mam. I always take my time and make sure shes satisfied before i am. so with all this is there anyone that can tell me whats going on. Is it me or is it someone else doing it better.Please reply Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 Person, I'd suggest that the only person who can tell you for sure what's going on is your wife. Have you ever tried to talk to her about it?I know you have fears of losing her, but believe me, not talking to her is one of the easiest ways to do just that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Troubledperson Posted April 8, 2010 Author Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 we talk all the time about everything its just seem like everything that i love about her is slowly fading like she loosing intrest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 Well, if you talk about it, what does she say?Does she say that things are fading, for her, or is that just in your mind?And do you also tell her about your fears, that you might be losing her?Basically, it would be hard for us to speculate, because lots of things might be happening. You have more information at this point than we do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Troubledperson Posted April 8, 2010 Author Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 wow you remember everything. yes we talked about all of that and she says its not true. I know im having issues but im not crazy i can feel and sense when somethings out of place. Lately alot just havnt been right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 Meh, I remember a fair amount and I know where to look up the rest. :-)I could recite the 40 digits of pi I learned in middle school, but all that would prove was that I was a dork at 14.Well, for all we know, there is something wrong; we just don't know what it is, yet. No one says you're crazy. But it's really easy to convince ourselves of the worst explanation for stuff that isn't even connected.Have you suggested couple counseling to your wife? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Troubledperson Posted April 8, 2010 Author Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 aint this a shame i had put her threw the samethings but now the tables are turned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweetmom2 Posted April 19, 2010 Report Share Posted April 19, 2010 Y is she distancing herself from you. Not kissing, passive... Maybe shes depresd ? Talk to her about it and tell her that either she tells you whats going on cuz ull listen or to a therapist Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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