nightfalls Posted August 11, 2008 Report Share Posted August 11, 2008 A big problem I'm having in my relationship is me not being emotionally available to my husband, well that is how he puts it anyway. He expained to me that I am not involved in his life/issues/emotions/problems, he feels that I am not available to him. I try so hard to be? I don't see it all like this:( mabe I am, mabe I am not involved. I really don't know how else to try to be, I do feel detached from my life at times, sort of numb to all the stress, I get overwhelmed easy. I don't know why I am like this, I guess it is the anxiety/mood things. I am working on it but it just does not seem fast enough for him. Last year the relationship crossed a emotional abusive line I'd say and I thought to leave but have not, I chose to stay, the situation is better mostly but mabe this is where I have got stuck. I can't seem to forget it all, and go forward a new. He also says my mood shifts at night and some days he says it is obvious and he see's me not able to hand things, get all hyper and energized in conversations and emotional till I break down. Any ideas to what he might be talking about, why don't I see this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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