meyoumeyou08 Posted September 10, 2008 Report Share Posted September 10, 2008 ok so here is the situation. my husband came home from work one night and told me he would be attending a dinner with me now mind you I volunteer for his command and the base will be honoring volunteers by having an appreciation dinner. I first told him he didnt need to go later that night when we were laying in bed i told him "the reason why i said you dont need to go is because i dont want you there looking and checking out other women. you are there to support me". so a few days later we were talking about the dinner and he goes "well im not sure if im going to get out of work in time" I KNEW that would happen. and then the other night after a great day and great sex i was looking at my husband cell phone.. not looking for anything just looking. i asked him about a private number and he got very defensive. i let it go so then he went into the computer area to do some work i came to sit by him and again he got defensive. now mind you i have done this sitting by him when he is on the computer MANY times before and he had never gotten defensive before. we are both in our late 30s no little kids to take care so its just us now. i was flabbergasted. another time he set a little book on his dresser and i picked it up to look at it and he started getting defensive about that. he says i dont trust him. i told him i have been looking at his stuff for YEARS in fact i looked at his steno pads while he was shaving; he came talked to me for a minute and went back to the bathroom. No defensiveness there. so this has got me confused. he loves to throw the "you dont trust me: line and its gettin old and tired. i am curious, i am nosy i told him that. i just dont know anymore what is going on with him. i am very confused. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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