Confused57 Posted October 1, 2008 Report Share Posted October 1, 2008 Would really appreciate some advice. I am in my early 50's, twice married and divorced, and I have been in a relationship for the last two years with a lovely man. The only problem is that he wants a commitment and I am not sure! I don't know if it is because I'm twice bitten thrice shy or if the doubt is because he isn't the right person. He is a good, kind-hearted man but we have very different personalities. I'm outgoing, adventurous, goal-oriented, 'juggle half-a-dozen balls at the same time' type of person and he is the opposite. He is a neat freak and I am messy. We also have very different tastes in just about everything. Can two such different people live together without driving each other crazy? He doesn't want to live together first because he feels like he would be on probation. I know I have to make a decision because my indecision is hurting him, but I just can't seem to say yes and I don't want to say no! Help! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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