Darren15 Posted June 18, 2015 Report Share Posted June 18, 2015 I'm gay and small and the major advantage is that if another guy doesn't like it then you just turn over. The major disadvantage is having a direct comparison in the room with you. In my experience nearly every guy i've ever been with is about 7+, not good for the ego when all you have is 4.5 - 5.P.S. I can't really get in on the 'do they, don't they' like big re women but imo nearly every bi/gay guy wants a guy with a big dick.Jeez 7+... floyd brownlee 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wutty3 Posted June 19, 2015 Report Share Posted June 19, 2015 Yep I'm as queer as a $3.00 bill. An old queen with a little dick. The weird old dude that lives in cul de sac that yells at the twerp kids to get off my lawn. floyd brownlee 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robert Posted June 19, 2015 Report Share Posted June 19, 2015 Gay or straight it seems having a small dick is one of the worst things to have I wish I could say its not all bad and theres someone for everyone, size dosent matter etc. But I cant keep lying to myself floyd brownlee 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darren15 Posted June 19, 2015 Report Share Posted June 19, 2015 Gay or straight it seems having a small dick is one of the worst things to have I wish I could say its not all bad and theres someone for everyone, size dosent matter etc. But I cant keep lying to myselfThere's a lot of worse things people can have! Plus there are plenty of examples of people with small penises getting married and living happily etc. But I understand your pain floyd brownlee 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robert Posted June 19, 2015 Report Share Posted June 19, 2015 I get what your saying but theres a difference between sps and actually having a small dick not just below average but borderline toddler penis but things could be worse like you said Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darren15 Posted June 19, 2015 Report Share Posted June 19, 2015 I get what your saying but theres a difference between sps and actually having a small dick not just below average but borderline toddler penis but things could be worse like you saidYeah it seems this forum is not just for SPS but for those with genuine small ones (like micro) to express themselves aswell. Things could be worse but that doesn't ease the blow Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattyboy77 Posted June 23, 2015 Report Share Posted June 23, 2015 I haven't been with anyone in over 2 years. I occasionally go to gay bars (well, just one, the only one that's near me), and I have zero self confidence. I don't think I'll ever be accepted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Dude1981 Posted August 30, 2015 Report Share Posted August 30, 2015 Flaccid size 1.6 -2 inches/ 4-5cm depending on situation is a problem for me, hard 5.5 i feel ok RonaldU 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattyboy77 Posted November 6, 2015 Report Share Posted November 6, 2015 Ughh, having such a hard time lately. Just started dating a guy for the first time in my life. I told him up front I was small and he said he didn't care about that. He has seen my erect length and he didn't seem bothered by it. He himself is well endowed. We had been seeing each other every other day or so for the past few months and he asked me to be his boyfriend. Now, I haven't seen him in 5 days. Tried to make plans but he said he had a rough week at work (which isn't all that new, though it seemed extra bad). Texted him last night to ask if I could give him a call and say goodnight...no response. Then, against my instinct, texted him again this morning to say hope his day is off to a good start. He normally texts me in the morning when he gets up but no response today so far. Feeling upset, ashamed and worthless. I think it's because of my penis and inability to be more intimate. Any advice would be much appreciated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted November 6, 2015 Report Share Posted November 6, 2015 @ matty; don't jump to conclusions. give it some more time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IrmaJean Posted November 6, 2015 Report Share Posted November 6, 2015 Maybe he needs some space? Maybe try and wait things out and see if he contacts you? I think all of us have different needs regarding closeness and space and we may cope differently as well. How can you take care of yourself and your needs at this time? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattyboy77 Posted November 6, 2015 Report Share Posted November 6, 2015 Thank you both for the advice. I agree that waiting a bit and not jumping to conclusions is probably best. As far taking care of my needs it's difficult to say. I'm depressed, not liking my job and unhappy where I am in my life. Meeting this guy was so exciting and gave me something to look forward to. From the jump though, the relationship has made me feel the best about myself and the most insecure at the same time. He was the one that asked me to be his boyfriend, he asked me to meet his family...I had a wall up initially then allowed myself to care about him. Early this week he told me I was a bright spot in his life...then last night when I told him I miss him and wanted to spend some time with him his response was along the lines of: I am pretty awesome, aren't I? I know he was probably kidding but there was no reciprocation for the things I'd said to him. It's really messing with my head. Can't help thinking I've done something wrong. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted November 6, 2015 Report Share Posted November 6, 2015 Last Tuesday he told me I was a light in his life...then last night when I told him I miss him and wanted to spend some time with him his response was: yeah, I am some kind of wonderful. I know he was probably kidding but there was no reciprocation for the things I'd said to him. It's really messing with my head. Can't help thinking I've done something wrong.perhaps he's feeling insecure, himself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TinyBrazilian Posted November 6, 2015 Report Share Posted November 6, 2015 It is easier to be gay for those who have small penisyou can use "other body part" mattyboy77 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattyboy77 Posted November 6, 2015 Report Share Posted November 6, 2015 It is not easier in any sense. First, most gay guys (and people in general), are obsessed with penis size. It also doesn't help when there is another guy in the room right there to compare yours with. rupablo22 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TinyBrazilian Posted November 8, 2015 Report Share Posted November 8, 2015 just fuck with ass Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted November 8, 2015 Report Share Posted November 8, 2015 just fuck with assno shit! pun intended. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
51 Years of Misery Posted November 10, 2015 Report Share Posted November 10, 2015 I don't get being Gay, it is too complex for me to understand.Why do soo many Gays dress up like Women and the such-like, then want a Big Dick? Surely you have given up trying to be Masculine? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Classic-tales Posted January 17, 2016 Report Share Posted January 17, 2016 It is indeed so distressful being gay and have a small penis. Whole day my mind revolves around what can I do to change it. I feel if out there was a community of sort that would be like me or help me feel okay about myself, things will be better. I really want to do big things in life but such mental blocks resurface all the while and everything stops. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Classic-tales Posted January 17, 2016 Report Share Posted January 17, 2016 Whole day this condition depresses me and I feel really bad and that affects almost all my activities. I know these are just mental blocks that are taught to us and doesn't mean much however they do exist and somehow they do make you feel like an outcast. I really want to be acquainted with people who would be like me or understand me and we can together be more strong. If any of you know of any community out there that has people with small penis conditions, gay/straight whoever, do let me know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alex16 Posted October 22, 2016 Report Share Posted October 22, 2016 mattyboy17, I was just wondering what happened with you and your boyfriend. Just joined the site and hope things are ok with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alex16 Posted October 22, 2016 Report Share Posted October 22, 2016 I have a small penis and it's a grower so tiny when soft. Just discovered this forum. Wish I'd discovered it years ago. To all my small brothers out there, thanks for all the sharing and support you give on here. I'm gay and there's always been part of me that wondered whether I was gay because I was looking for the proper penis I never had. But I realise there are lots of gay guys with big ones and lots of straights with small ones... u.r.what.u.is 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OMNIBUS Posted November 20, 2016 Report Share Posted November 20, 2016 I'm a gay guy with an average sized penis. I just wanted to chime in and let you guys know I think small penises are really sexy depending on who it is attached to, and I would prefer to date guy with a small penis over a large one any day. Just take care of yourself(this goes for any penis size man) and someone will find you attractive, as everyone likes different things. Just try to exercise regularly, and eat somewhat healthy( I do these things myself). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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