bezoman Posted January 12, 2011 Report Share Posted January 12, 2011 My wife and I have been married for about three years, four months. In that time, we've had sex probably about 20 times. We have not had sex in at least 8 months. I have found many excuses for this:-The dog scratches at the door and kills the mood.-I'm too tired from work.-I'm too drained from jobhunting.-I'm too depressed.-I don't feel it right now.-It's too cold.-It's too hot.-We just ate.-I don't feel well.Etc. etc.In truth, I've found myself with absolutely no sex drive. It started before I was on meds and, while I'm sure my meds don't help, it hasn't gotten much worse.I have not initiated sex since we got married. On the other hand, my wife has tried to get me to have sex on numerous occasions. I feel like I'm being unfair to her but I don't know what I can do about it.As I mentioned in another thread, I have never had an orgasm during intercourse. Also, I may be suffering from phimosis, but I cannot bring myself to talk to a doctor about that. If I am suffering from phimosis, I have had it my whole sexual life and it could be a physical reason why I cannot climax.She deserves better than this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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