true-hope Posted January 15, 2011 Report Share Posted January 15, 2011 My dad passed away just before Christmas and I feel as though my little brother and I are the only ones in pain because of it.My brother's newborn daughter was born and died a few weeks after dad died.I feel soooooooo awful for him. I would do anything to be able to take the pain away for him.The thing that bothers me the most about dad passing away is that he was only 66 and he didn't need to die. It was his doctor's fault. I have a lawyer on it, but I don't know...I don't want money...I want my dad back and I want people to know that his doctor was a quack.My dad was having stomach issues. He saw his doctor several times and told him that he couldn't control him bowels. The doctor told him that he would deal with his bowel problems once he checked into a nursing home. A nursing home at 66!!So dad was in so much anguish that he asked the doc to fill out the forms to get him into said nursing home. The doc filled them out and said on the forms that there was nothing wrong with my dad...so of course they rejected him.What I want to know is...if there was nothing wrong with him then why did he have him on so many pills and why did dad die?His bowels blew up and he died of toxemia.Here comes the worst part...My dad was flown into the city by STARS, which means it's bad...When I arrived at the hospital I couldn't believe it was my dad. He was all bruised looking, black holes in his skin, it was terrible.My dad had made me his Power of Attorney just a few weeks before.The doctors in the city sent me home to get the living will papers.When I returned, this stupid piece of S**t woman that was supposed to be a professional (an intern) stood by the bed side and right in front of my dad said in a loud, booming voice "oh, you here to make your dad dead"!!My dad turned his head towards me and his look is forever burned into my brain. I will never, EVER, forget that look!!! I hate that stupid COW!!!!They tried to get that stupid piece of S**t out of the room but she didn't take a hint. The wonderful young nurse that had been watching my dad took the stupid cow by the arm and dragged her out of the room.They took me into another room with some pastors and stuff standing there, and the head chief tried to convince me that my dad was in a coma and that he didn't even know I was there....ya right! When I got back the nurse had asked my dad who I was...he had looked over at me and said in a forced breath "my baby girl"!!! Have you EVER seen a person in a coma before? I have! That guy didn't move, he didn't talk, he didn't reply...so how in heck could my dad, who was supposed to be in a coma, respond?The only thing that kinda worked out since then is that before his sudden death he had signed his farm over to me. My brother has muscular dystrophy and is on AISH, so he couldn't have his name on it. However, he was going to add me to his mortgage the day he died...so now I have a farm that I can't get a mortgage on because I'm already up to my armpits in debt and stuff.Then his ex calls me and starts in on me. She says that her daughter is the real executor of the will...thank God I remembered to tell my lawyer that my dad had burned his will (which in this country makes it null and void...which I had no idea of until I told me lawyer why we couldn't find his will).My dad had made out a new will 3 weeks before he died but the commissioner of oaths failed to mention to him that he needed 2 witness signatures and not one...so that makes this will null and void as well.My dad had made a legal separation paper with his ex and she had signed off on the dower rights as well, but unfortunately he forgot to call his ex employer and tell them that he didn't want her to have a thing...so we get stuck with the bills and she gets the pension and life insurance...which said employer told me there was none to be had, but called me a few days ago to say that there was indeed said fortunes and then proceeded to rub it in that his ex was getting it all...I called my lawyer and told him to call there because they said the conversation was recorded...and I hope it was because that woman's voice was full of nastiness. She almost sounded like she was bragging that his ex was getting it all. Then she asked me where to find her!I have no idea. She walked out on my dad years ago and I never liked here anyway...not like we ever called each other or wrote each other. Ok, I feel a little better now I guess.Sorry for such a long post, but I suffer from anxiety, depression, and ADHD and just need to find some release. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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