58corvette Posted January 18, 2011 Report Share Posted January 18, 2011 Hello Everyone;Yesterday I was having a good Day; Enjoying Football & My Post on "Lounge" section here with Linda, Shannon, Athena & a Few others. Again Thank You So Much.Anyway all the Sudden my Son brought up our inpending Homeless Situation coming up Shortly & Who, What & where we are going to Stay with or do. I dont know why he does this to me; But Everytime I start feeling good about Myself & Things Again He Brings me DOWN. It's almost as if he wants me to stay down about things & Focus on Him?Anyway Now im back to worrying, being Depressed, Scared & Generally Freaking Out about what to do or where to go; When I become Homeless. He wants me now (a bit Late) to stay with My Daughter & Her Boyfriend after Talking Bad about Both of Them & to be Leary of just what may happen. While he has an offer to stay at a friends & use My Van to be Able to Sleep in.So Naturally Now I am a bit Concerned & Leary for both of us. He is afraid to go to Jail cause he hasnt taken care of Legal Issues, & he is worried if he gets a Job they will catch him, & he will lose his job. A Catch 22. But I know the Fact is he needs to go to Court & Turn himself in. See what Punishment he gets & move on from there.As far as me; I truly dont want to live with my Daughter & YES I am Leary Myself of her Boyfriend & His Intentions. But right now I just dont know what to do or any other alternatives? I dont want to ruin my Daughter & I's relationship by moving in & things go bad with her boyfriend. He is only a few years younger than me & has A son a year older than my Daughter. Which is wierd to me. I know this may offend some here like "Waiting" who I consider a Good Person & Man.That is not my intent. And I know Waiting Himself is going through Hell & being condemmed for something that is unjust for him. The Situation with My Daughter & Her Boyfriend is different & I believe I am justifiably Leary of his Intentions. I just dont want to cause any more problems. If she is Happy that is what is important to me. But her boyfriend has already caused Conflict with Both my Son's & My Ex. So I dont want to be the nest inline if His Intentions are not well meaning.I hope all of you can understand my Dilemma on this Touchy Situation. I only want what is best for all my Children & Myself; without anymore Conflict. Anyway; I also read Deadman's Continuing Conflict in his Thread Titled "Frozen" & that also brought my down more. Then I got on a sports blog & another Person was able to access some Personal Information on me & exposed it for ALL to see. So I had to change my Personal Info. I reported the Abuse, so hopefully things will be OK?Now however I dont know if I am my recieving my Personal Mail from Others or from this Site with responces to Post & Threads? Can someone who reads this PLEASE respond so I can check my Mail to see. That way I can change whatever it is I have to to correct.Now I just Have to Pick Myself up by the BootStraps again & remain up & optimistic enough to keep searching for Work & A Place to live. I need to remain Calm, Focused & Not Panic as it will do me No Good At All. And it is so important I make the right Decision & Do The Right Thing at this Point in time.On the Positive Side I have seen Deadman is starting to Calm Down a Bit & realise People here are only trying to help the best we can. Thanx to recent post by Professional, well meaning People. And I mean that in every sence of the words.Thanx Again to All Of You as I continue to find my Place & Meaning in Life.Sincerely; Jim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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