randomperson Posted March 10, 2011 Report Share Posted March 10, 2011 Ok I think I am ready to focus on growth and getting better.For the first time I got all my frustrations and worries out.. you all have been so patient listening to me and giving guidance.So how do I take the first steps to making more friends.. or even talking to more people? In my city people form small clicks or stick to their families and it is hard to get past this even when I do get to know them some.How do I approach a stranger and start to really talk and get them to really talk back?One instant thought on this part is maybe to talk to guys first as I will have much less anxiety and they will be much less fearful of starting a conversation.Maybe it is the process of understanding how friendships are formed and how they fall apart. Not sure but would like to hear others thoughts, advice.. anything on this topic.I tried dating sites when I was very hurt and rambling. Those sites hurt me more. Should I still avoid them or give it another shot? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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