Verbally abused? Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 Is there something wrong with me if I go through nimpholike phases? Well I know there is something wrong with me in my head, I just don't know what it is.I go through these spells that are completely opposite. One week, I just can't get enough, the next week I don't want to be touched. the next week, it is just a simple "if it happens, it happens". Then it starts all over again.. I just don't get it. Can anyone else understand these things? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pseudome Posted June 1, 2011 Report Share Posted June 1, 2011 I don't know that this is abnormal at all unless it's causing relationship problems of some sort. One thought (I've noticed this with my girlfriend...pardon if this is too personal...) does this seem to coincide at all with your monthly cycle? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Verbally abused? Posted June 2, 2011 Author Report Share Posted June 2, 2011 To hard to tell for certain. I had this procedure (permanent birth control) called Essure done, which sorry for TMI, made me lose way too much blood. So then I had another procedure called Hydroplasia (I think) done which was like a really warm really long lasting dusche done by the doc. The last procedure has made it so that if I have any type of knowledge of a cycle going on, it is only spotting. I was lucky enough to not get cramps. I feel bad for the ladies that do.I still have all of my female organs they all work, I just don't bleed anymore, so it really is too difficult to tell if it has anything to do with my cycle or not.Once again, I apologize if this was TMI for anyone reading. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SweetSue Posted June 2, 2011 Report Share Posted June 2, 2011 Hi VA "if in doubt get it checked out", it might be worth discussing with your GP/Dr.Is it possible that the extremes you are experiencing, have anything to do with mood swings. IDK, I can only go by my own experiences, but I know with me, when I am hyper or in a good mood, well thats when I'm more inclined to want sex, and intimate contact, however when I am grouchy and down in the dumps I dont want anyone near me, and well you can kiss goodbye any idea of having sex. :)Take care Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralph Posted June 2, 2011 Report Share Posted June 2, 2011 I'm a guy but this happens to me too. No idea if it's supposed to be a problem or not. My dr. has never asked me about fluctuations, so I never really worried about it. I'd like to know if it is something that can be helped with, but I'm already on meds which are supposed to blunt sex drive (as a side effect) and they seem to have that effect only during the phases of less nympho-like drive.Y'know, what I really thought is that high drive is the normal state and lower drive is due to aging. :confused: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Verbally abused? Posted June 2, 2011 Author Report Share Posted June 2, 2011 Sue, I would check with doc if I had one to check with. Haven't had aregular constant doc other than ob's since my pediatrician.Ralph, I don't think I can chalk it up to age, I am only in my thirties, female. Isn't this supposedly when women go through their sexual peak? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SweetSue Posted June 2, 2011 Report Share Posted June 2, 2011 Oh crumbs sorry I didnt realise you never had a Dr, I guess I take mine for granted, but then we have the NHS here, and dispite all its many faults, atleast everyone has a doc, and access to treatment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Verbally abused? Posted June 2, 2011 Author Report Share Posted June 2, 2011 What is NHS? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SweetSue Posted June 2, 2011 Report Share Posted June 2, 2011 Oh its the National Health Service,We do have private health care over here aswell, but mostly we use the public hospitals. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralph Posted June 3, 2011 Report Share Posted June 3, 2011 I am only in my thirties, female. Isn't this supposedly when women go through their sexual peak?Oh yeah I remember hearing that. I'm similar age but male, so lamentably I am allowed to blame age (yes, I would like some cheese with my whine, thank you very much). I happen to be gay so lady stuff is a mystery to me, even more so than for the average guy. I do have some girl friends though who now that you mention it do seem to be quite... peak-ish, if you could call it that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strauss Posted August 1, 2011 Report Share Posted August 1, 2011 I think your nimpholike dilemma or hypersexual state at some instances maybe due indeed to the medications or medical procedures you’ve gone through. hypersexuality is characteristically linked with lowered sexual inhibitions, and several drugs or even alcohol can affect an individual's social and sexual inhibitions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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