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malign Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 Why can't you go?Why can't that be what you tell her?I know I'm asking naive questions, but it sounds like you're avoiding whatever the real problem is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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malign Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 Es, do you see how hamstrung I am, trying to discuss this with you if you won't say what the problem is?About the best I can do is: in a move involving four people, you're not going to be alone for even a moment with any one of them. I can't even guess what you fear will happen. You'll feel something inside? You'll do something?I'm not trying to embarrass you, or make you say something "out loud" here that you don't want to. I'm just pointing out that this entire thought process is completely confined within your own head, so you have no way to test the reality of any of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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malign Posted August 11, 2011 Report Share Posted August 11, 2011 I mean, discuss the thoughts with someone whose job is not to judge you.Of course I don't mean "just try it and see if it turns out badly." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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