xfrostyxcolax Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 I have a Masturbation AddictionI struggle not to watch porn & every time I Masturbate, I feel guilty.I try to demonstrate self control ,but I typically fail in the end.I also practice abstinence (until marriage) & I find it hard to control my sexual urges.I'm a 16Any help would be appreciated. Thank you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IrmaJean Posted January 4, 2013 Report Share Posted January 4, 2013 Hello, and welcome to the community, frosty.I hear that you are feeling upset about this. I hope you can be gentle with yourself. Masturbation is common human behavior. Do you feel it is excessive? Would it be possible to limit your access to the pornography?16 can be a busy and stressful time too. You're branching out, becoming more independent, and lots of changes are taking place. Do you have supportive family and friends? How is school?I hope to hear more from you. Take care. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AmericanPsycho Posted January 5, 2013 Report Share Posted January 5, 2013 EVERYBODY does it so don't be so hard on yourself. You might have a problem if you masturbate 15 times a day like my 3rd stepfather does. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xfrostyxcolax Posted January 8, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 The guilt is a little much for me to handle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IrmaJean Posted January 8, 2013 Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 I know that guilt is an uncomfortable feeling. What purpose do you think it serves in this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xfrostyxcolax Posted January 8, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 I believe the guilt comes from the fact that I can't trust me self not to masturbate & the lack of self control is a really big factor Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xfrostyxcolax Posted January 8, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 Myself* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shane Posted September 22, 2022 Report Share Posted September 22, 2022 Ok no problem I understand and can offer help from a mans point of view.im wondering about your religion or why you are practicing abstinence.what is your reward? Navigateing this is difficult and can be a moral delama . Masterbation I think by its self can help you get the relief you need . It can be beneficial for waiting to have sex befor marriage . If you feel like porn is not helping you or is not in line with your religious beliefs then I would suggest cutting back or put some parameters in line for your self. Also if stopping porn is your goal dr.cam Stanley (lifeafterporn) will help.also be easy on your self this is normal and ok . Your learning how to navigate this. Im here for you .your not alone.let me know how its going.see ya. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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