thouroghlyunhappy Posted January 23, 2013 Report Share Posted January 23, 2013 Doe's life suck for us? Yes.Are our options limited? Yes.But we're not entirely hopeless. I've been doing the craigslist chick for a few months now and had a hook up with the cougar that wanted to do weird things with me (via "casual encounters" section on craigslist)......and other guys with small peckers have come here whom were married...and then there's the micro-penis guy on the Howard Stern video who gave a shout-out to his girl of 8 years.So what is everyone here planning to do? Seriously, do any of you have plans of moving forward or are you going to stay as you are?Just curious. nemanedovioto and honeys3l1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recluse Posted January 23, 2013 Report Share Posted January 23, 2013 Not sure what my long term plans are. I plan on seeing legitimate independent escorts occasionally on some trips I will be taking. That really isn't moving forward as I have been doing that sporadically for some time. As I am 30 in less then a year, never having had a relationship of any form, my lack of experience is unacceptable to most women. I have probably paid for sex about 7 times in my life. I am uncomfortable having even basic physical contact with females even with little shit like putting my arm around them. I rarely even hug my female friends and they have joked about my being a very unphysical person. These things are all the result of having no confidence due to my lack of girth.The things I have going for me are that I am good looking and fit and my personality does not deter women so I have had to build up other defenses to deter them. I have female friends who I am close with and have known for years some of whom are very attractive so conversationally I have no major issues interacting. My current situation in the military will probably prevent me from having opportunities to meet women. Maybe when I am out of Korea that will not be the case. Time flies so I probably won't be able to get it together and improve my situation. I think all I can do at this point is maintain constancy with the healthy things I do in life and accomplish my career goals once I am out of the service. The key is in not letting the depression of this drive me to heavy drinking or prevent me from being inspired to maintain the other areas of my life as this has happened before. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted January 23, 2013 Report Share Posted January 23, 2013 If clinical depression appears to rear its head then get help fast.People don't know how dangerous this is and the medical profession can have a great impact- therapists, certain prescribed drugs etcI really agree its essential to keep up with healthy past times- things to occupy the mind.Im often happiest at work when I'm focussed on something.My worst moments are by myself in the evening or in the company of couples socially- so be kind to yourself and plan to avoid these situations. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted January 23, 2013 Report Share Posted January 23, 2013 Still trying to get a job, but this economy is killing me. I'm also trying not to commit suicide, and find peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted January 23, 2013 Report Share Posted January 23, 2013 maybe do voluntary work?- good for the CV and keeps you active? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted January 23, 2013 Report Share Posted January 23, 2013 Yeah I do voluntary work in my congregation. Sometimes though I think there really is no purpose to life and so it's hard to get up in the morning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted January 23, 2013 Report Share Posted January 23, 2013 Good to hear it- keep getting up.I hear you about the black days- nothing brings you pleasure? that heavy feeling? whats the point?...but its not permanent... and happy days can still be had. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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