Rant...

[Mutton]

. I'm 5.5 inches in length and about 4.3 in girth, (6.1-6.3 inches in length when pressed on my fat pad), and I always thought I was small because of a bad experience. I have a question , if guys worry about penis size, do girls worry about breast/ass size just as much? are they just as insecure as men would be about their penis? if not, why? to some men, it does matter, to other it doesn't, just like girls... well somewhat, to MOST girls penis size doesn't matter, but to some it does (Those aren't worth anyones time anyway).

I've pretty much gotten over SPS because of simple fact. I took 4 years of AP health and anything above 3 inches in length is considered medically normal, the vagina fits around any variety size of penis, and to big actually hurts the girl since it rams into her cervix. Porn stars are in movies for a REASON. the top 1% of guys are in all those "Penis enlargement" pictures, and video and the girls screaming their lungs out, are FAKING it, sorry but no one would get paid to enjoy sex. We live in a society now that thinks "bigger is better" and its getting worse. 50% of guys are smaller than 5.7 inches in length (Fat pads pressed to the pubic bone) . only a VERY VERY small percentage of men actually have what you think would be amazing to have, but trust me, girls don't want horse dick, learn how to use your penis, if its above 3 inches use angles and certain positions to your advantage, and 95% of the time girls are gonna get off on ORAL and clitoris stimulation rather than pounding her like a jack hammer. GUYS, STOP WORRYING. I got over SPS because I took simple facts, put them together and called it a day and said im normal, because ALOT of guys are wishing they had what i thought was tiny. same for you, there are guys way less fortunate than you that probably have a worse SPS case than you. Get a girlfriend that's going to LOVE you, if shes going to leave you for your size, why the fuck would you want her as a life partner anyway? you don't. so FIND SOMEONE WORTH YOUR TIME.

-Rant over

[Victimorthecrime]

Good rant Mutton while i am not yet quite as optimistic as you I give you high marks for 1) staying on topic 2) applying logic 3) being encouraging. To add to your point I have also been told by females that stiffness, stamina, style, confidence & rythum matter more than size.

[dvnJ22]

not with my size....

[Cece.dedesl]

Girls worry just as much as you guys. I know a bunch of you will say tits and ass aren't needed to provide sexually enjoyment therefore our worries are "less important".

At the end of the day, body insecurities, regardless of the role they play in sexual intercourse still play a huge role in the overall sexual experience.

[Mutton]

Good rant Mutton while i am not yet quite as optimistic as you I give you high marks for 1) staying on topic 2) applying logic 3) being encouraging. To add to your point I have also been told by females that stiffness, stamina, style, confidence & rythum matter more than size.

Im 18 and i've had my girlfriend for little over 6 months and we're insanely in love with eachother, and i've hinted quite a few times my penis wasn't big at all, and that it was average and she doesn't care, and said but what you do have is an amazing personality, and that is what makes the relationship work, not having sex. Sex is a PART of a relationship, not the entire relationship. We haven't had sex yet, and we're both virgins, but even though she knows about my insecurities and size, she's still in love with me and can't wait for the day we decide to have sex.

That's the kind of girl everyone needs to look for, like that. That cares more about personality, and how you treat her rather than if shes gonna get fucked good. You see what im saying?

[Mutton]

Girls worry just as much as you guys. I know a bunch of you will say tits and ass aren't needed to provide sexually enjoyment therefore our worries are "less important".

At the end of the day, body insecurities, regardless of the role they play in sexual intercourse still play a huge role in the overall sexual experience.

One of my closest friends whos a girl and in college says this guy on campus is really well known, and he has a 4.5 or 5 inch penis and knows he has a small penis and laughs with people, and is so confident about it that he gets with ALOT of girls. So I agree with you. Confidence is HUGE. Girls worry about penis size just as guys worry about tit/ass size. when you're looking for a relationship, it really doesn't matter, or it shouldn't. that's how I am. my girlfriend doesn't have the biggest boobs, or the "best ass" but I love her heart, and how we are with eachother.

[Cece.dedesl]

Could you please become a porn star or a comedian so everyone with a low self image would listen to your insights?

Sorry if that sounds condescending but I'm having a really shitty night. It seems like unless a penis is acceptable in a porno or the media there is absolutely NO way it could be accepted in REAL life.

Your posts are great. Sorry if my outburst took away from the great message you're sending. Just a little pissed I can't get this message thru at home.

[dvnJ22]

Sorry your having a bad night Cece.

[Mutton]

Could you please become a porn star or a comedian so everyone with a low self image would listen to your insights?

Sorry if that sounds condescending but I'm having a really shitty night. It seems like unless a penis is acceptable in a porno or the media there is absolutely NO way it could be accepted in REAL life.

Your posts are great. Sorry if my outburst took away from the great message you're sending. Just a little pissed I can't get this message thru at home.

I couldn't get into porn because I wouldn't be able to hold an erection with the gaping holes my penis will be going into .

Hope you're having a better day today

[Jessie]

my career in porn depends on the ability of the actresses to suppress laughter and the quality of the zoom function on the video cameras...

ps but my depiction of Macbeth was much admired as a youngster... so who knows...

[malign]

{Lady Macbeth, to her dog: "Out, out, damn Spot!"}

{Sorry.}

[Jessie]

Maybe I could go for "Measure for Measure" ... heh

(yes - I did go to Wikipedia to find a vaguely connected play to willy size- don't anybody ever accuse of me of not leading a fulfilling existence!)

[malign]

On the bright side, perhaps, you did have to search to find one. It suggests that they don't exactly spring to mind ...

In order to reduce the scope of a problem, it is necessary to reduce the amount of space it takes up in your brain.

There's a well-known catch to trying to reduce the amount of time one spends thinking about a given subject, which is that you have to think about it to not think about it, if you try to do it consciously. The way that works is to deliberately think of other stuff, instead. Is that something you would be willing to try?

[firefighter38834]

If you percieved something more than likely it will happen. Our daughter is always in some damn drama in the 8th. grade. I am taking her to school and she is telling me she hates that school and these 2 girls talk about her. I asked her what they say and she says I don't know because they whisper. I told her if she thinks its bad she will take it bad. I told her to smile and them and wink.

That night I asked her was it different today and she said. It was a lot better. Those 2 girls even ate lunch with me. Our daughter told me when they asked why I winked; I told them I know about them.

My daughter dosent know anything except like her they are goofy 8th graders trying to grow up too quick. Our daughter though had control.

One night when I was in military they told us our team was going to really screw up some bad boys. We were going into thier neighborhood. We were kinda used to that stuff but it was the way they told us: X% possible casualties and on and on.

We were up all damn night working on already clean equipment psyching up. Got on the birds at 0300 and touched down. Nothing. .nothing. and hour later nothing.

They left about 8 hours before we got there.

Be positive ...99% of us with SPS worry too much.

In my marriage our big worry is rising cost of insurance. Having quality time together and getting our daughter to the next grade.

Yall already know how I deal with my penis size. Glad I am not running for office.

can you see it now. I end up serving on the oversight committee for small penis syndrome. A year later a reporter asked me by how much we have grown. My reply is "well sir, we dont grow but our efficiency rate is pretty high"