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We've had a lot of new women lately. We are all searching for ways to move our relationships forward. To find a way to get the men in our lives to see how much we love them and their penises.

The simple fact, that more and more women are searching out support on SPS is a positive to point out.

If we all were all size queens, if an average or big penis was truly needed to satisfy all women we wouldn't have more and more women signing up.

Most of us have the same issues. We have no issues at all with our man's penis size. Our problems are with how they feel about their penis size. How their insecurities effect the relationship and hold it back.

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Yeah ended my relationship he turned out to be a selfish pig. Put your hand out and it gets ripped off. Chow all good luck with life andddd be nice to your woman ;-)

What did he do to become a selfish pig? Sorry, but I'm new here and I would like to find out more.

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He is just so angry all the time. He has instant mood swings then won't talk to me for ages, doesn't wanna talk about whats up and then we have sex I be nice and say "that was so good" he says "yeah for you" implying that I'm crap I guess I don't know he's a closed book. And it manifests as anger. I've tried but I think he needs to sort it out on his own. Doesn't want me or my help to help him cope..... Plus he's nasty in general , don't know if that's penis related or not..

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He is just so angry all the time. He has instant mood swings then won't talk to me for ages, doesn't wanna talk about whats up and then we have sex I be nice and say "that was so good" he says "yeah for you" implying that I'm crap I guess I don't know he's a closed book. And it manifests as anger. I've tried but I think he needs to sort it out on his own. Doesn't want me or my help to help him cope..... Plus he's nasty in general , don't know if that's penis related or not..

Hmm ok, when you say that it was so good, do you mean it or do you just say it to be nice? Anyway I haven't had sex yet, but when I do and she actually likes it and has plenty of orgasms, then of course I would happy. Because of a great performance you know. Anyway that's just me. Well sorry to hear that he doesn't want any help even though he clearly got something wrong going on.

P.S. Being nasty is horny related, not penis related.

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It sounds like you have a mixed version of my ex and my current boyfriend. Lol

My ex was nasty but his nastiness appeared when we're having "enough" sex. If I wasn't in the mood one night, the next night he would make sure my needs weren't met and just take care of himself.

My current boyfriend had so many insecurities sexually that when we started to have sex he would either have difficulties maintaining an erection or he would deny himself pleasure by not allowing himself to cum.

He would get to the point he was literally UNABLE to. We would have sex for 2-3 hours while I tried to hang in there so he could cum. Don't get me wrong, I enjoyed it but a girl can only orgasm so much til she gets tired! Lol

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Hope this isn't offensive but I think you should stop dating this dude. It will be a waste of your time and energy to try and change him. If his negative traits are causing this many problems this early into your relationship it isn't worth the effort.

I have an inadequate size but if I found a woman who was interested in dating me despite it I would assume she was one of the rare few who didn't have a problem with it.

Better to cut your losses and move on.

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Wow so is the not coming and pulling out and stopping thing to deny themselves pleasure? I never under stood why my feller was doing it, thought it was cos he wasn't enjoying it. I think that the thoughts in his head destroy the moment n he'd just stop.... Hard hey, like I wanna help but he can't take it... Sad :-(

With mine, he was overly concerned with making it good for me, lasting long enough, ect... I thought the same thing you did. I flat out asked him if I wasn't satisfying him. This guy isn't an ass so he told me that he stopped himself from releasing so he could make sure I was satisfied but the more he stops himself the harder it got for him to release.

We don't have this problem anymore. I had to practically give him permission to release and explain that satisfying sex doesn't have to be a marathon. That his pleasure was just as important to me as mine was to him.

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Let's just change this to a confidence thread. It ain't about my penis. Well a little bit. I have been very stressed. I am firefighter for 5 years. Firefighting jobs don't pay just a super salary but has good benefits. Well its budget time and close a few stations and furlough some guys. I think I am ok but even if not furloughed. We have more area to cover. It may seem to some we got an easy job and we do have beds for 24 hour shifts but many nights we roll 24/7 with only few hours rest.

Now potential job problems. Damn!

I always worry about money! My wifes a nurse in ER...she has job security but if we go and use her health plan. Its $1,000.00 a month. Mines a lot cheaper.

I was in a bitchy mood and told wife maybe I needed to take a 9 month trip with Blackwater or contractor for state dept security and I screwed our night up. She was pissed and told me; we would make it and quit whining. Now I am pissed.

Its been a week for us and we both needed to cuddle but I done copped an attitude. I went to bed early and turned opposite of her. I take a xanax at night to sleep and it will not get up after xanax. She turned facing wall also

this am she is up to head to work and I am feeling guilty but it still ain't getting up. But she opened her legs and I pushed it against her clit and she shut her legs.....it was hot sex and very intimate

. We both needed that intimacy. We also talked....she reaffirmed me that we are going to make it financially and I worry to much.

lot of insecurities here besides penis size.

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Lol...I will always worry about financial stuff.

We do ok but my penis is like our savings account.

Short and thin.......and I wish it was more!

You need to find an financial advisor and buy some name brand securities with an IRA.

Start out small and watch the proceeds grow. You accomplish this with dividend reinvestment. With the way the dimwits down in Washington are printing up money to finance their hair brained schemes with nothing to back the paper up, you'll need quite a bit in order to finance your lifestyle once you reach retirement age.

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First off, I've realized lately I only come on this site when I'm frustrated with my relationship. So, I've decided to post some of the positive things in my relationship.

My boyfriend is wonderful in so many ways. He is extremely supportive, loving, he understands me and more importantly accepts me. Faults and all.

We openly communicate, sometimes we need our therapist to get us back on track but the communication is there.

We are friends, we are lovers... We have become partners in a search for mutual happiness and love.

When I feel like giving up, he somehow finds the strength to pull me back up and I do the same for him.

Does it get hard at times, yes. Has the relationship been worth the work, yes. Do I think one day all these issues will be behind us, probably not completely. I know it will get easier tho. Some of our initial issues seem like a distant memory.

I am proud and amazed that he loves me so much that he is willing to face a lifetime of demons to make this relationship successful.

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  • 5 months later...

Hey all,

I just thought of a story I haven't shared on here yet. Another post reminded me if it.

This should make people in here feel a little bit better.

Ok so me and two of my friends got a suite one night in a very nice hotel where there are tons of people. We were walking around the lobby and the restaurants and we started talking to three girls. Perfect.

We head to the bar and start bullshitting and soon enough couple shots few beers. Hey lets go up to our suite and have some drinks in the hot tub.

This story wouldn't be complete without my friends getting naked right? Oh boy here we go right?

Leaves me with no choice. Take the pants off and get in. Yet again I'm the one with the tiny dick for all the girls to see. Well guess what. No one said shit. We all had fun.

Better yet the best looking girl followed me into the bathroom. We were gonna bang until her friends banged on the door and ruined it.

Lil bit later they leave.

Me and my friends continue the party hey lets go find some other girls.

Until my buddy got a phone call from one of the girls saying her friend wanted ME to meet her friend back in their room.

Lol the 4.5 inch dick guy gets an invite back to the room. I get there and we mess around. It was fun.

And my two buddies clearly had bigger penises than me.

I was funny I know that. I didn't hide myself. I remember playing with my dick in front of them. Fuck it I didn't feel uncomfortable. I was nervous at first you can bet your ass about that. Lol showing my dick to three random girls. Holy fuck.

But look at it. My small dick didn't get made fun of and to top it off even though it was out I was still a target for a sexual encounter with a pretty good looking girl.

Comments?

My only comment is that you may have a smaller dick but you've got guts. I wouldn't show my dick to three girls if my life depended on it.

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My only comment is that you may have a smaller dick but you've got guts. I wouldn't show my dick to three girls if my life depended on it.

All you need is one good experience to move forward. It felt amazing being naked and accepted in the group. Had I not joined my buddies would have been like "what are you a fag?" I'd be like yea... What am I a fag? Lol not trying to gay bash here but seriously. I went from being scared to laughing my ass off to having a girl on the bathroom counter with her pants off moments away from sticking my dick in her until her cunty friends starting banging on the door. Lol sucks for me but whatever. It was a crazy fun night and like I said before it helped me out mentally.

Let me tell you I do not like one night stands. It's not my thing. Anytime I've done anything I've always felt like it was some sort of test. Yea I had to search for some balls to follow through and when I found them it was well worth it. It's another way I cope. When I'm thinking clearly I can go back to that as a positive memory. I have a lot of them. Tons of shitty ones too though.

You should definitely show your dick to as many girls that are willing to look at it, touch it, fuck it

Or whatever. Some chick out there is going to like it or maybe even love it.

Goes back to the worst part about this. The social aspect. It's a killer to deal with. The girls are out there, go find them. If society would just calm the fuck down with the penis bashing we'd all be better off.

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All you need is one good experience to move forward. It felt amazing being naked and accepted in the group. Had I not joined my buddies would have been like "what are you a fag?" I'd be like yea... What am I a fag? Lol not trying to gay bash here but seriously. I went from being scared to laughing my ass off to having a girl on the bathroom counter with her pants off moments away from sticking my dick in her until her cunty friends starting banging on the door. Lol sucks for me but whatever. It was a crazy fun night and like I said before it helped me out mentally.

Let me tell you I do not like one night stands. It's not my thing. Anytime I've done anything I've always felt like it was some sort of test. Yea I had to search for some balls to follow through and when I found them it was well worth it. It's another way I cope. When I'm thinking clearly I can go back to that as a positive memory. I have a lot of them. Tons of shitty ones too though.

You should definitely show your dick to as many girls that are willing to look at it, touch it, fuck it

Or whatever. Some chick out there is going to like it or maybe even love it.

Goes back to the worst part about this. The social aspect. It's a killer to deal with. The girls are out there, go find them. If society would just calm the fuck down with the penis bashing we'd all be better off.

sounds great. but im not that secure.

since this is after all a forum to discuss organs, can you tell me what your width and girth are. my width is 1.5 and girth varies between 4.5/.6 and 5.2. i am very lucky if i can get over 5.0 but am not able to do so immediately. also, i am thicker near the base than in the stock. i have gotten my stock to 5.0 but it's rare.

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Since your friends know your size, are there still awkward moments and do you ever discuss this with them?

Not really. I've felt more comfortable naked in front of my friends than alone with girls. They're not huge themselves. Mostly normal or slightly above so it's not like they don't see big dicks and doubt themselves either. We don't really discuss it. I might bring up how I need a few more inches and anything said back is positive "stop bro your fine, your gf loves you"

Trust me my friends are also insecure, except they don't actually have small dicks. Porn has ruined most men IMO. Dudes don't want to picture their gf at one point being drilled by a huge cock and its always a strong possibility.

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sounds great. but im not that secure.

since this is after all a forum to discuss organs, can you tell me what your width and girth are. my width is 1.5 and girth varies between 4.5/.6 and 5.2. i am very lucky if i can get over 5.0 but am not able to do so immediately. also, i am thicker near the base than in the stock. i have gotten my stock to 5.0 but it's rare.

4.5 x 4.5

I dunno. You have nothing to lose. None of us do. We've all either hit bottom before or are there now. Only one way to go, up.

My buddy I've mentioned before who's actually a little smaller than me also has a gf. She's a very pretty girl. They adore each other and have been together for a while now. You guys need to relocate to where I live and maybe find a normal girl lol seems to be more floating around here.

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