Cece.dedesl Posted March 31, 2013 Report Share Posted March 31, 2013 I think you could be right in some ways Retro but I'm starting to think the reason women and men find sex more satisfying with partners who pre-date their spouses is not really about the sex. When people engage in casual relationships it feels new and exciting every time. You lose that intensity when you're in a long term committed relationship. Casual relationships don't carry the massive responsibilities of long term relationships. Shared finances, children, household chores, ect...In casual relationships you see your sexual partner as just as sexual partner. You only see them at their best. People are putting off marriage later and later now. Men and women are engaging in sex younger and younger. There is no society or moral pressures to encourage couples to work through their problems and stay married. Even though there are still some lingering romantic ideals about marriage it not enough to overcome the reality. Marriage is work and when all the butterflies end and couples are not prepared for the real commitment, it's going to effect their sex life. How many of us feel hot and sexually aroused at work? We don't unless the boss hired some eye candy drool over but even that wears off after the day in and day out interaction. LolThe only way to keep sex exciting and satisfying in a long term relationship is to find a way to make you and your partner still feel like sexual beings. Go out on dates. Send each other flirty messages. Compliment each other on your physical attributes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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