Article today reported on TV news

[siddiqui]

What part of the situation will be improved by alcohol?

I don't know. I'm 24, haven't ever had a drink. Today is officially the worst day of my life

[malign]

I don't drink either; never really was interested.

But you know what anesthesia is, and how temporary it is. Add in hangover and cirrhosis, and you've about covered all the benefits of alcohol.

And the cool thing about the worst day of your life is that all the rest of them have to be better.

[Perseverance]

I remember when I used to smoke weed I had such a healthier mind. Made me really weed out all the bullshit that doesn't matter in life. Not to mention laugh with friends, enjoy food like I've never had in my entire life, think about life, and just enjoy everything in general. Too bad my job forbids it being in my blood.

But instead this kid is allowed to go out drinking in a terrible state of mind. If you read this I wouldn't. You have no idea what you're getting yourself into. Alcohol has its place in the right setting but certainly not when you're unexperienced and coming off the worst day ever.

Weed is a beautiful thing too bad we aren't allowed to take advantage. Society would be better off. It's a shame.

[siddiqui]

And the cool thing about the worst day of your life is that all the rest of them have to be better.

That's vain logic. Although it is very optimistic

[malign]

It wasn't meant to be logical, or predictive.

Thinking in absolutes is always dangerous, and all I was trying to do was to shake you out of that.

There's an old saying:

"Whether you think you'll succeed

Or you think you'll fail,

You're probably right."

Attitude counts for a lot, in psychology.

[dvnJ22]

I read this article recently about a guy with 1 inch micro and he says he is happy, proud, and wouldn't change it. Also that a lot women liked it. He said it took a while for him to get to this point, but as soon as he embraced it he felt better.

[IrmaJean]

That's a positive story. Good for him. I would think that many of us would feel better if we could accept and embrace ourselves.

I'm sorry you've had a rough day, siddiqui. I hope tomorrow is a bit brighter for you.

[Jessie]

I read this article recently about a guy with 1 inch micro and he says he is happy, proud, and wouldn't change it. Also that a lot women liked it. He said it took a while for him to get to this point, but as soon as he embraced it he felt better.

dvn,

1inch hard....mmm.... I wanna be as positive as the next person... but do you believe him when he says he WOUDNT change it.

Myself, I probably wouldn't bet the house that he is being entirely honest there.....

[Jessie]

Siddiqui,

Drink only works if you are already happy- otherwise you become a miserable drunk... thats not the way.... nor is drugs.... but thats just my opinion...

[newguy]

I don't know. I'm 24, haven't ever had a drink. Today is officially the worst day of my life

Wow pretty shocked that you never had a drink before in yourself .. I suppose we come from totally different backgrounds .. I was only a wee younging when I was having glasses of watered down wine with my Xmas dinner so drink had always been around yes I have gotta totally drunk and yes a pint of cider is great with a bbq ect but its never the answer to just drink away your problems as we could all end up alcoholics or druggies trying to doll the pain of being small .. by all needs have a wee (small) drink now and then with a meal but never look for answers and questions at the bottom of a pint glass it just makes life worse dude

[newguy]

I read this article recently about a guy with 1 inch micro and he says he is happy, proud, and wouldn't change it. Also that a lot women liked it. He said it took a while for him to get to this point, but as soon as he embraced it he felt better.

Damn I hope I can get to the stage in life where I am be proud or just learn to cope with it as this is destroying my life and it will not change unless I can be happy with being small unless we conquer and accept our selfs no women will accept us ... I believe its our own mind that is making us like this some women don't care about size its just the fact we can't come to terms with our selfs do that and we will not be depressed again but its finding it in side ourselfs to learn to cope with this .. its only us that is stopping us from living a life we can do whatever we like we are holding ourselfs back no one else there are women out there but 1st we have to learn to be confident with our bodies when we do we can then conquer r-ships

[newguy]

I read this article recently about a guy with 1 inch micro and he says he is happy, proud, and wouldn't change it. Also that a lot women liked it. He said it took a while for him to get to this point, but as soon as he embraced it he felt better.

proud and open you say ... Lol chessy pick up line ..... Hi I'm (insert name) and I'm hang like a dormouse... How could you be proud of that come on really one inch hard I am finding it hard to stop girls laughing at me as it is but that there is a point where you are just to small for sex and at one inche well I'm sure the best he can pull off is a blowjob is it was me I would go into porn as a freak of nature or would have killed myself long long time ago .. I am finding it hard being me as it is Hell no would I want to be that small imagine having the world record for smallest penis that is something I would be shame to have

[Perseverance]

I have to disagree Jessie. Just thinkin out loud here. I think there are some benefits to certain drugs. Not all. People here have a bad mental state. Drugs like marijuana can have very positive effects on depression and many other things. Psilocybin mushrooms have been studied somewhat and have shown to have a positive influence on people's long term lives in general. You can look it up. I even know of a few people who have taken mushrooms that kind of helped them sort out the important things in life and have moved on to college and so on. One of the main things thy stood out was the fact that when he was under the influence of mushrooms he realized so clearly how important it was to NOT to drugs and study and get his life together. Many drugs are terrible but some aren't. And maybe certain ones shouldn't be lumped in with the obviously terrible ones like they currently are. I can imagine maybe the ones I mentioned might have a positive effect on the way some people's mind work around here. Just a theory.

[Jessie]

for those with a scientific mind...

[Jessie]

I have to disagree Jessie. Just thinkin out loud here. I think there are some benefits to certain drugs. Not all. People here have a bad mental state. Drugs like marijuana can have very positive effects on depression and many other things. Psilocybin mushrooms have been studied somewhat and have shown to have a positive influence on people's long term lives in general. You can look it up. I even know of a few people who have taken mushrooms that kind of helped them sort out the important things in life and have moved on to college and so on. One of the main things thy stood out was the fact that when he was under the influence of mushrooms he realized so clearly how important it was to NOT to drugs and study and get his life together. Many drugs are terrible but some aren't. And maybe certain ones shouldn't be lumped in with the obviously terrible ones like they currently are. I can imagine maybe the ones I mentioned might have a positive effect on the way some people's mind work around here. Just a theory.

Oh look, Im opem minded, I have had vrious prescirbed drugs due to my depressions over the years.

I just think its generally best avoided.

Put it this way I cant think of any current user or ex user who benefited from illegal drugs.

[newguy]

Oh look, Im opem minded, I have had vrious prescirbed drugs due to my depressions over the years.

I just think its generally best avoided.

Put it this way I cant think of any current user or ex user who benefited from illegal drugs.

I have a friendly friend whos dad and another bloke that lives no far from me both these guys have smoked weed all there lifes they are both pushing 55 and both are gone shouting out to them selfs talking to people that ain't there so shows you drugs don't do anything for you ... Theres a reason there illegal they are bad for your healthy I have smoked weed but would never again or even do harder anyone who thinks drugs are fun come and stay with a drug addict .... Your so right drugs are just useless makes more problems then ever

[Perseverance]

Lol I know plenty of people who on their own time smoke weed who have good jobs and family's. that's a crazy statement. I don't know anyone who smoked weed then murdered someone. Can't say the same for people that have taken anti depressants. In fact most school shooters have been proven to use them. I've been told I should think about going on anti depressants and I said fuck that. I took action with my shitty thoughts. I personally would never put those types of pharmaceuticals in my body.

[Perseverance]

I'm not standing up for cocain meth and heroin. Damn. I'm saying there's a few drugs that can be beneficial and natural at that. Like weed and some soft hallucenagens like shrooms. For one weed is already become legal in the US. Two states have made it law. The bullsht lies are over in regards to that drug. Everyone is already smoking and society is not crumbling. In fact non violent people are being sent to jail over a victimless crime. The option of smoking weed over getting shit faced drunk while suffering from depression as we have just seen on this board is a FAR better option if someone chooses to deal that way. I'd put my money on the person actually getting better as opposed to drinking a few beers and starting a fight. You can't put a blanket over everything and call it all bad.

[dvnJ22]

The thing with that article was that reason he start to accept himself and be happy was that in highschool a girl saw him naked on accident and he should said he shouldn't be ashamed. There are a lot mean spirted people out there that nazi standards to what man or women should look like or act like, but there good people. If there are disabled people with wives, why can't small guys even micro get a woman?

[dhole]

I agree with Perseveranc 100%. Marijuana is in fact not "the devils harvest." It is up to the user to determine how much to consume. Not all people who drink are alcoholics. I would choose marijuana over booze any day. How many people get into lethal auto accidents after smoking pot vs. Getting smashed at a bar and driving home? Alcohol and bars are legal because the government makes tons of money taxing you for it then fining you if you get caught driving (playing their game). Little bit of population control going on there also. The government runs off numbers, not feelings of lost or jailed loved ones)... I would use marijuana over man made substances made by pharmaceutical companies which are designed for what? Not curing your ailments, but to keep you coming back and giving them more money. Government allows it. Doctors prescribe it. They all want to simply take more of your money. Sex, Drugs, Techno Music (formerly known as rock and roll). Man is the same as he's ever been. Killing brother over a piece of the pie. It is no different from my observations of the animal kingdom. There is something special about man, even though logically, man is the worst thing known to man. It is up to you to see just what you have here. I'm not sure if a soul (be it animal or man) is what most people believe it to be. You have to embrace you for what you are. You are special just because you're human. Nature does not need you to survive but quite the opposite. You are here regardless. Realize how amazingly special your opportunity to simply be here is. A small penis in life overall is really the least of your worries as a functioning human being.

But at any rate, this post is uber off topic. My junk is little and it bothers the f-word out of me! I really try to stay positive. I know that I've had several sexual relations with women, I did inhale, and all that good stuff. My last two sexual encounters were weird. The second to last encounter was with a pretty girl, my age (32) and she was on the rebound and all over me. I was in the middle of divorce so I figured "let's do this". I found out later that she had previously slept with a friend of mine (who packs a 9" wrecking ball who we call "mammoth moe") and when we got down to business she stopped me about as quick as we started. Next day she assured me that it wasn't me but later denied to our mutual friends that we ever even got that far. Figure out why for yourself... the next girl was very cute black chick from work. She literally bugged me so often that one night I was feeling "the urge" so I called her up and we had amazing sex! To fill you in, she was quite "promiscuous" if you will. And when I told her I wouldn't add up, she said her last encounter was about 10" but it didn't matter to her, she literally just wanted to rape the shit out of me. It was quite good for the both of us. We later broke our friendship because I would not let her have me again... these are truths.

It is up to each and every individual on how they wish to play their cards. I got a pretty good hand except for the joker card that isn't always able to be used as a wild card. But I'm going to play this hand till game over. Its still going to be a good game! This does not mean that I wouldn't trade all the good cards to get rid of that joker if I could. But I can't. You guys feel me?

[IrmaJean]

I like being me!

That's beautiful.

[dhole]

Thanks Ms. Irma. I ended up editing the crap out of my post because I use my mobile for internet. I originally posted a reply from the first page. I didn't realize how much I missed. Boy it got off topic on this thread!

I am not always super positive, but I try to be.

It really is hard to live with. But we have to realize how we perceive things plays roll number one on how we live and move forward. I find that everyone I've ever got to know personally is a beautiful person, even the assholes. 90% of people don't realize it and it's sad. I honestly believe the purpose of life is to experience love. Regardless of how it comes to you. Love is the single most powerful thing that I've ever witnessed. If you pass the chance to see it, you really missed the boat.

[IrmaJean]

I like your positive attitude. I hear you that it isn't always easy, but you have the ability to use a positive frame and that is wonderful.

I also believe in the power of love. I don't think of it so much as love coming to us, though; I believe the potential is within us. Our experiences and interactions with others help us to light up, feel, and connect with our own love, which really has infinite capacity in my opinion. Seeing love is looking deeply at ourselves and discovering our gifts. It's about wanting to share ourselves and connect with others. Those are my thoughts, anyhow.

When a person says I like being me, they are shining as the person they are. That is always beautiful to witness. :-)

Take care.

[siddiqui]

What part of the situation will be improved by alcohol?

its never the answer to just drink away your problems as we could all end up alcoholics or druggies trying to doll the pain of being small .. by all needs have a wee (small) drink now and then with a meal but never look for answers and questions at the bottom of a pint glass it just makes life worse dude

Drink only works if you are already happy- otherwise you become a miserable drunk... thats not the way.... nor is drugs.... but thats just my opinion...

Well you all were right about drinking. Didn't help much. I didn't even feel anything. 4 or 5 glasses of whiskey. Maybe I've been endowed with a great tolerance for alcohol and not on the penis end. Maybe I'm just supposed to keep drinking.

I'm sorry you've had a rough day, siddiqui. I hope tomorrow is a bit brighter for you.

It isn't any brighter. I really wish it was. I've been reading a lot of posts on this forum on this topic and it all really resonates with me. I see people who have just learned to cope with it. For some reason that just depresses me even more.

[Perseverance]

We all really have no choice but to get over it. I hated even hearin my ex say that. The reality of no change ever coming hurts like hell. I just try and do whatever I can to better myself. Sitting around and moping really does no good. I've said it before and ill say it again. Get in the gym and work out. Gettin thinner and more muscular really helped my self image. I feel better overall. Read some books and keep your mind occupied.

Whenever I get the chance to have sex I give it hell. Be dirty, don't be afraid to tounge a chicks ass or let her stick her finger in yours. Most girls love wild shit like that. At least from my experiences. I really don't care anymore. Whatever works. Not being able to stretch a chick out is depressing as hell but what the fuck you gonna do. Either buy a dildo and use it on her or invite another dude over. Those are my options. I probably make more of a deal out of it than she does. She might even give a shit. I'm not sure.

Noticed I'm getting less and less stressed about it. It's still pisses me off but it's not ruining my life like it was.