Well i was doing okay...

[Mutton]

....Until I started my fears again and searched on the internet just to be back into that stupid loophole my brains always in....

Does size matter.

that plays in every single guys head.

It kills me when a girl says "It does matter" because I know, even though i'm average (6 Inches length, 4.3 Inches girth) i'll feel small and anxiety fills my life again..

what do i do? why am i average and anxiety keeps doing this to me? it's so annoying.

[IrmaJean]

Do you struggle with anxiety in general? What helps to relieve it?

[Mutton]

Do you struggle with anxiety in general? What helps to relieve it?

Yes...

I have hypochondria, and somewhat of socializing in general... I just hate the fact that I have these thoughts when i'm perfectly average. it's destroying my mind...

and i'm starting to pick up habits of some kind of eating disorder because the last few days i've been making myself throw up because i feel disgusted with my body...

I have yet to figure out what relieves my anxiety. i'm young, 17 year old (Incase you wanted to know)

[newguy]

Dude I understand your pain I'm 24yr super small and super skinny 4inches by 1inch so yeah I understand your pain there really isn't a place in this world for guys that don't fit in with the media body image

But you are fine dude il love to be your size you really do have nothing to worry about don't let all the size queens put you down your average it could be a lot worse dude you could be a micropenis so be proud of what you got there are girls out there that will not bat an eye lid over your size

[Mutton]

Dude I understand your pain I'm 24yr super small and super skinny 4inches by 1inch so yeah I understand your pain there really isn't a place in this world for guys that don't fit in with the media body image

But you are fine dude il love to be your size you really do have nothing to worry about don't let all the size queens put you down your average it could be a lot worse dude you could be a micropenis so be proud of what you got there are girls out there that will not bat an eye lid over your size

But my brain tells me that i'm small. that's what i don't get. that's what doesn't click to my understanding, is that the numbers dont lie, but my brain is telling me something else and i'm in this constant loop...

have you ever considered jelqing?

[Jessie]

There is no cure

jelqing and pills is nonsense.

If this were true it would be clinically proven and it would be an international revelation of the greatest magnitude.

ps and forget operations- they cannot change erect length and often cause scarring, shortening and lumps.

[newguy]

But my brain tells me that i'm small. that's what i don't get. that's what doesn't click to my understanding, is that the numbers dont lie, but my brain is telling me something else and i'm in this constant loop...

have you ever considered jelqing?

Dude Jessie is right now pills magic cream or op will fix what we have we are stuck with it ... I believe you have been suckered into this idea of a media body this image of what a body should look like is rubbed into our faces daily so of course you are gonna feel that you are small porn uses the top 1% of the dicks out there women that are size queens believe 8inches is best ect so of course your gonna feel depressed dude ... But you have to break away from this body that the media keeps telling us is perfect your really di have to stop listening to it ... We are all born different and some girls yes do like a very large freakshow dick and some girls do like the smaller average guy better as sex is less painfull ... Dude your young you have nothing ro worry about you should stop listening to all this media body bull as there is some many girls out there that would be happy with your size ... It's all this bigger is better idea bigger meals bigger drinks bigger tits skinnyer people is all making us all depressed .. just say to yourself over and over your proud of your size it could be worse and there are girls out there that will love my size and hold your head up high and be proud of what you got I know i would be if I was your size dude and don't let any size queens put you down dude

[newguy]

There is no cure

jelqing and pills is nonsense.

If this were true it would be clinically proven and it would be an international revelation of the greatest magnitude.

ps and forget operations- they cannot change erect length and often cause scarring, shortening and lumps.

Alright Jessie .. having a good week ... Tell me my good sir how do you cope with being small as you never seem down all I ever wanna do is run away and hide how are you so always up beat my friend

[Jessie]

let me tell you- I have my bad days....

I had to take time off work not long ago and a few years ago came real close to the edge...

But I have a great family, good friends and have found a really good specialist counsellor.

Shes made me look at things differently and from a scientific point of view as well as others points of view.

First off this isnt YOUR fault. Its not a cruel joke from above, or punishment for misdeeds in a former life.

The fact is genetic code and/or pre-natel conditions created the body I have.

I enjoy good health and am quite bright.

If I had a choice of being me or a well endowed guy with chronic back ache or a disfigurement, or even being 4 foot tall- then I would choose my body.

I have been ill quite a lot recently and made me appreciate simple health more- we take these things for granted.

PLUS- coming here helps a great deal. Just venting can be some relief ...

[Mutton]

Dude Jessie is right now pills magic cream or op will fix what we have we are stuck with it ... I believe you have been suckered into this idea of a media body this image of what a body should look like is rubbed into our faces daily so of course you are gonna feel that you are small porn uses the top 1% of the dicks out there women that are size queens believe 8inches is best ect so of course your gonna feel depressed dude ... But you have to break away from this body that the media keeps telling us is perfect your really di have to stop listening to it ... We are all born different and some girls yes do like a very large freakshow dick and some girls do like the smaller average guy better as sex is less painfull ... Dude your young you have nothing ro worry about you should stop listening to all this media body bull as there is some many girls out there that would be happy with your size ... It's all this bigger is better idea bigger meals bigger drinks bigger tits skinnyer people is all making us all depressed .. just say to yourself over and over your proud of your size it could be worse and there are girls out there that will love my size and hold your head up high and be proud of what you got I know i would be if I was your size dude and don't let any size queens put you down dude

Guy above me is right, you're always positive... thanks Jessie

i think it might be just because it looks un-proportional to my body .

i'm 5"10-5"11 and 190ish pounds. if i got into average weight i bet it would look normal... i'm already starting to lose weight just because i want to... we'll see when i hit my goal.

thanks so much

[newguy]

let me tell you- I have my bad days....

I had to take time off work not long ago and a few years ago came real close to the edge...

But I have a great family, good friends and have found a really good specialist counsellor.

Shes made me look at things differently and from a scientific point of view as well as others points of view.

First off this isnt YOUR fault. Its not a cruel joke from above, or punishment for misdeeds in a former life.

The fact is genetic code and/or pre-natel conditions created the body I have.

I enjoy good health and am quite bright.

If I had a choice of being me or a well endowed guy with chronic back ache or a disfigurement, or even being 4 foot tall- then I would choose my body.

I have been ill quite a lot recently and made me appreciate simple health more- we take these things for granted.

PLUS- coming here helps a great deal. Just venting can be some relief ...

You know what Jessie .. I have never looked at it like that before .. there is nothing wrong with me apart from being a bit overweight I can change that and apart from being small but at least I have 2 arms 2 legs 2 eyes like you said il rather be small than be in a wheelchair so maybe I do have life pretty could maybe we worry about stuff that's wrong with us to much and don't appreciate that we don't have something worse in our lifes . Maybe we have to try and be a bit more positive in life to get though life