Wastedlife Posted June 28, 2013 Report Share Posted June 28, 2013 http://life.nationalpost.com/2013/04/08/size-does-matter-women-rate-men-with-larger-genitalia-as-more-attractive-ottawa-biologist-says/gg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Victimorthecrime Posted June 28, 2013 Report Share Posted June 28, 2013 "That attraction, however, wasn’t a simple formula of bigger is better." Quote from the article. This article came out about 4 months ago & created quite a stir & has been reprinted a million times. They showed women an outline drawing of a male physique and nothing more. Of course the eye is going to be drawn to the penis. I think the methodology was designed to get the response the "researchers" wanted. Furthermore the article bashes short men & I know lots of short stocky guys that score heavy w the ladies so there is another flaw. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted June 28, 2013 Report Share Posted June 28, 2013 This is stupid. I've been one of the more cynical on here and even I can see how dumb these things are. In the 90's they did a study to see how the sex lives of men with micropenis are doing. The study found positive findings, one of the guys even had mistresses. All of this studies contradict each other. You'll have one that is unfavorable, and you'll have one that is favorable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted June 28, 2013 Report Share Posted June 28, 2013 Good stuff Dvn. Certainly there are women to whom size figures into their equation but this study was clearly flawed in its methodology and just used for eye catching headlines and to further attack and degrade men. That's my view, not trying to be didactic. We are who we are, others are who they are, we have one life to live and I am living mine with zero regard to size queens, cheap shot artists, low life's, narcissists, haters, etc have to say. dvnJ22 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted June 29, 2013 Report Share Posted June 29, 2013 “It's better to die standing than live on your knees.”― Emiliano ZapataI feel the same way. I'm just going to live a good life. After my suicide attempt early this year I realized suicide was meaningless and not something I want to do. So I need to live, I won't live letting people put me down, and I won't live just to endure either. I will enjoy life how I want to do it. I'm not a bad person, I don't hurt people, I'm not selfish. According to lifestyle condoms my penis is possessed by only 0.2% of men, I'm sure it's a little higher, but it still unique. Look it my only be 3 inches, but it gets erect, and it fits in my hand (I have small hands as well). I don't care if this makes me look less of a man - $&@#% men! I don't want to be a porn star, or know for a having big dick.I'm taking a lesson from my grandfather, short little Mexican (like me) didn't care what people though. Tough as nails. He fought a freaking high ranking major in the military, and fought at D-day! He's dead now, I know he loved me a lot. He didn't fight ww2, just to have his grandson mope around. I literally climbed out of the depths of insanity. If you ever saw taxi driver in the end when de Niro was crazy, I was like that for years! I made the choice to get better and I did. siddiqui 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted June 29, 2013 Report Share Posted June 29, 2013 Wow DvnJ22! That is a powerful testimony, I re-read it, saved to my collection of inspirational quotes. The sacrifices our ancestors made is something we all should consider more often because it really puts things into context. Each day that goes by is a day we will never see again - live it! dvnJ22 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 Well it's been hard and I'm not going to say I'm better or have accepted myself - every time I do, I mess up again. Right now I feel good, I feel good about my body. I don't know if a girl will accept it. I think I'm ok being virgin, of course virginity is my choice - because I'm not interested in one night stands or hookers. If I can't have sex with love I don't want it. So even if I die a virgin - right now I feel good. I like my penis the way it is. I don't want to add inches to it.I've been trying to be "zen" I guess you could say. Victimorthecrime and u.r.what.u.is 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
u.r.what.u.is Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 Bravo, dvnj22!! You are a MAN, goddammit! I think you will find someone while you are not looking...I sure hope so, you deserve a wonderful woman. You are in a good place in your mind - keep that guarded, safe from the stinkin' thinkin' that so many fall into. Victimorthecrime and dvnJ22 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted June 30, 2013 Report Share Posted June 30, 2013 You have to separate your mind from other people's thoughts, once I did that I started to like myself. Its not easy and takes much solitude to see clearly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
u.r.what.u.is Posted July 1, 2013 Report Share Posted July 1, 2013 You have to separate your mind from other people's thoughts, once I did that I started to like myself. Its not easy and takes much solitude to see clearly.You have my admiration, and my wishes for your happiness in a relationship someday. dvnJ22 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted July 1, 2013 Report Share Posted July 1, 2013 Thanks u.r, I hope one day it does happen. But even if it doesn't I'm still going to be happy. I have many things in my life I want to do, a relationship is just one. So if it doesn't work out I still got a ton of other things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IrmaJean Posted July 1, 2013 Report Share Posted July 1, 2013 It's great that you are feeling better, dvn. Right now I feel good, I feel good about my body.That is wonderful. I wish you all the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted July 2, 2013 Report Share Posted July 2, 2013 You have to separate your mind from other people's thoughts, once I did that I started to like myself. Its not easy and takes much solitude to see clearly.Yeah, I just had to quote this, too. I have nothing to add to it; you said it all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted July 2, 2013 Report Share Posted July 2, 2013 You have to separate your mind from other people's thoughts, once I did that I started to like myself. Its not easy and takes much solitude to see clearly.I have plenty of solitude going on.When it comes to solitude I'm 'better endowed' than most. Comes with the territory....But I cannot completely separate my mind as they have voices and I have ears and Im not a sociopath... siddiqui 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siddiqui Posted July 2, 2013 Report Share Posted July 2, 2013 I agree with Jessie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted July 2, 2013 Report Share Posted July 2, 2013 It's not about being a sociopath, I still care about people. However people that focus on a penis and make you feel bad because you don't measure up I ignore. Now people are bringing in evolution and really I don't care anymore, evolution seems to hate everyone according to the media. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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