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5.75 - 6" length with 4.4-4.5" girth


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I have sometimes measured my length to be 6" but in most states it might be 5.75".

My girth is around 4.4-4.5"

I have a lot of conflict about this.

If I date a short girl, is she likely to enjoy the sex?

My question is this?

IS THIS ENOUGH to elicit any kind of response??

Does the 6" length mean anything if girth is a little bit below average.

I feel demonized and totally tormented. I check it several times every day.

Please answer.

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Um length wise I think 80% of white women will think you are ok.

I have heard a minority of white women say they need at least 7 in real life and on the 'net' its common for black women to say they need 7 or 8

(which is mind boggling to me) (and not wishing to be racist at all- simply reporting what I have seen is all)

So if you stick to down to Earth, white, 'normal' kind of girls (not too showy or wears short skirts etc) then 5.75 to 6 is totally fine.

However, if you ave obsessing about girth you will already know the nhs puts the range at 4.7-5.3 inches circumfrance.

Girls usually say girth is most important (which you also know Im betting).

So I guess you are outside of the lower range which means you are in the lower 14% of the bell curve.

So my guess its on the thin side but due to decent length many girls would give you a pass on the issue.

I guess pick your girls carefully and do positions that assist a narrower penis.

Count your blessings- you beat me by miles in both areas!

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You must be really good at measuring if you can get to a hundredth of an inch "as seen from above".

Spending that much time measuring something that isn't going to change suggests a deeper problem, wirelan, such as obsessiveness. Would you consider having that checked professionally? You don't have to tell them what you obsess about; the general trend in your thinking will probably be enough for a professional to know what to do.

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Wirelan, I think and hope that a lot of your anguish will simply disappear once you have sex. I am assuming you are a virgin at this point - please correct me if I am wrong. Your anatomical dimensions are fine. My own equipment is smaller than yours (lengthwise at least...I don't know my girth), and I have not encountered a problem with women sexually. Granted, I have only had three partners, but my encounters with them have completely countered my long-standing fears of inadequacy. I feel like a new human being.

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urhwatuis, thanks a lot for the support.

I'm still anguished though I did have a few moments of reprieve.

The girth problem is killing me. My base is a bit less than 5.0 which is fine, no make that great. It's completely fine.

However, as I go up, it decreases. Around mid shaft it gets around 4.5-4.7

I have absolutely no clue how to feel about this. Without the confidence I cannot approach women. I want to rub a vagina desperately but I need to know whether I am okay girth wise and how to measure girth. Does base girth count or not. I mean she will be feeling it at the end of a thrust. But is that time fraction enough to elicit even a sigh.

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As a girl (feel weird chiming in but here goes) A real woman will not care if anything it's more about length then girth which I had to look up by the way because I didn't even know what it was. who cares about average everyone is unique in there own way. And if you look at a diagram a woman gets narrower the further you go, your penis is perfectly fine I am sure. -Yoda - Me thinks, obsessing to much, you are.

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As a girl (feel weird chiming in but here goes) A real woman will not care if anything it's more about length then girth which I had to look up by the way because I didn't even know what it was. who cares about average everyone is unique in there own way. And if you look at a diagram a woman gets narrower the further you go, your penis is perfectly fine I am sure. -Yoda - Me thinks, obsessing to much, you are.

wow .. wow .. wow..

so you're saying im fine? my penis is fine?

you are sure?

it's more about length? awesome .. coz i happen to be in the 70-80th percentile according to length. how much length would be good .. I can get it as long as 6.1 something if measured from the front, and if measured from the side, which gives a higher value, it would be 6.4.

Also, at the base I am 5.0 and I am under the impression that the entrance contains most of the nerves. So I could probably stimulate them. and if the vagina gets narrow i can still make some pushing action which would be absolutely lovely. i absolutely can't wait to get in. i wanna know how it feels. both to me and to her.

HOWEVER,

Just so that I can be sure you're telling the truth, can you define a cut-off length and/or girth which would be a turn on or a turn off for you. i know that it's not an abrupt function of these values, but a rough idea would suffice. i've heard that anything below 5 inches is considered small.

ALSO,

Does length cause any physical pleasure. And if it does, what kind of pleasure. Is it the psychological need of having something inside, or is it the physical stimulation or is it the length of the strokes.

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Wirelan the correct way to measure girth is to take three measurements....at the base, midshaft and the corona. Add the three together and divide the sum by 3. This will give you average girth. My girth is 4 inches as is my length.

Wutty, have you ever had sex? How was it for you and for the woman?

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Sedseed/Wirelan,

"The deeper you go the more the girl feels..."

Pretty crappy news for these of us much shorter than average! sigh....

But you are in the significant minority on this topic Sedseed.

All the female sexperts and all the female surveys consistently show girth to be far more critical and important than length

ps If you are over 5 in girth Wirelan, at any part of your dick, the majority of girls wont mind.

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Their other ways to please a women then just intercourse...

Get an Asian chick ;)

Sex in general isn't everything, I would much rather be with some who thinks of me before himself then someone who is good in bed... Which I am lucky enough to have found.

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I didn't mean to insult anyone if that is the case... Besides I am not saying you have to be hung like a horse I am just saying personally length is more important in my opinion then girth. But you can please a girl with either or, KEY factor is the girl. I can only stick 3 inches in my mouth anymore then that is extra...

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sedsed, cool. what is your bf's dimensions.

actually there are many women who think length is important. in fact when you talk about size the first thing people mention is length.

also, i like sedsed's point that the deeper you go the more it feels. i guess if you're not really going very deep, you're leaving a lot of the vagina unutilized which can be disappointing for the woman in question. thankfully there are women like sedsed out there who make me feel good.

another thing is .. how importance is 'width'. i get a width of about 1.65 inches mid stock which according to common concensus should result in a girth of 3 times 1.65 equals 4.95. The problem is that my dick tends to be flat so that it is wide but it's not wide in the perpendicular direction. if width is important since it stretches the vagina in one direction at least, then I think I can put this behind me.

also, when i mentioned feeling myself and feeling 'thick as shit' i was referring to this direction, not the perpendicular one.

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But if you read what I showed you a woman's Gspot is not all the deep...

We have never measured it lol but I would say about 41/2 when erect. Still hurt though the first time all the same...

Be happy with what god gave you and move on find a girl in real life and figure your shit out.

A little education can do a man wonders.

this is just a diagram...

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/0/0d/Female_anatomy_with_g-spot-en.svg

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sedsed, is it possible that you have an unusually tight vagina? you're hurt by a 4.5 inch penis? i think most people in this forum would love you.

do you think a 6 inch penis like mine would also cause discomfort? have you ever had a vaginal orgasm during intercourse?

where do you live? i want to get to you as soon as i can. just kidding. lol.

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Don't you think this line of questioning is getting a little personal, wirelan? Not to mention a touch creepy ...

Something you guys miss is that not everybody is obsessed with measurement. How is a girl going to know if she's "unusually" proportioned? I don't think girls can compare with each other the way guys can.

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On 9/18/2013 at 11:08 PM, wirelan said:

wow .. wow .. wow..

so you're saying im fine? my penis is fine?

you are sure?

it's more about length? awesome .. coz i happen to be in the 70-80th percentile according to length. how much length would be good .. I can get it as long as 6.1 something if measured from the front, and if measured from the side, which gives a higher value, it would be 6.4.

Also, at the base I am 5.0 and I am under the impression that the entrance contains most of the nerves. So I could probably stimulate them. and if the vagina gets narrow i can still make some pushing action which would be absolutely lovely. i absolutely can't wait to get in. i wanna know how it feels. both to me and to her.

HOWEVER,

Just so that I can be sure you're telling the truth, can you define a cut-off length and/or girth which would be a turn on or a turn off for you. i know that it's not an abrupt function of these values, but a rough idea would suffice. i've heard that anything below 5 inches is considered small.

ALSO,

Does length cause any physical pleasure. And if it does, what kind of pleasure. Is it the psychological need of having something inside, or is it the physical stimulation or is it the length of the strokes.

 

Hey man, first of all, you have just about the exact same size penis as I do.  I'm 41 years old, I've been having sex since I was 18, and my penis is about 5.7 length, and around 4.5 girth (measuring length from the pelvic bone on the top side of the penis, which is how you're supposed to do it, and girth at the middle).  The average penis size is 5.16 length and 4.59 girth.  

Mine kind of tapers off as it gets more towards the head, which is pretty small compared to a lot of other guys' heads, but I ALWAYS have a thinner penis than every one I've ever seen.  Just slightly.  But it really won't make a difference if you find a woman that actually cares about you.  I've had women say my penis was skinny, and even my own wife of 10 years has told me that mine is the skinniest of the 3 guys she's been with (and she's a small woman), but she's never complained.  It's all about how you use it.  It kind of sucks when you're with someone who has a stretched vagina (from having kids, etc) or when a woman is extra wet, because you lose some friction, but you have to learn how to position yourself.   Also, this might just be me, but I've noticed my penis is bigger sometimes in different positions, more than others.  If I'm sitting up, it's the biggest.  When I'm lying on my back, it isn't quite as big.  A lot of it goes inside the body.  

If you can't find someone to have sex with and want to know what it feels like, the closest thing I can tell you that works and isn't too far off, is the old latex glove / sponge vagina.  You get a cup, put a plain latex glove (non-powdered) in between 2 large sponges with the softest sides facing in / toward each other, and shove them inside the cup, then fold the wrist of the glove over the ends of the sponges and cup.  Then, lube the hole with a water based lube and that's it.  That's about as close as you can get without spending a fortune on toys.   

The girl that said length is more important is completely wrong.  Girth is more important, because it's all about hitting the walls of the vagina.  It doesn't matter how far in you go, at all.  Learn about the G spot, which will be responsible for most of the inner vaginal orgasms, if you give your woman any at all.  If your woman is lying on her back, and you put a finger inside her with your palm facing up, you put your finger in about an inch and a half (about to the first knuckle) and curl your finger up, so you're hitting the front wall.  You'll feel an area that feels like ridges, which is the G spot.  You want to angle yourself so you rub that spot.   There's another spot called the A spot (aka the deep spot) which is along the front and back wall just before the cervix.  You stick your middle finger in as far as it can go, and you'll feel the cervix.  Just before the cervix, and up / down against the walls, feels like a Frisbee end.  That's the A spot.    The base of the penis doesn't matter at all.  You can try to hit the clit with your pubic bone, but I usually just concentrate on the G spot.  One position I use which is great for hitting the G spot, is have the woman lie on her back.  You get on your knees and put her legs up, over your shoulders, and that's it.  So, your body is upright, while she's on her back, and you just lift her up and down by her thighs.  Girls love it. 

One word of advice, though...   don't worry so much about this.  Seriously, your penis is average and it really isn't that big of a deal to the women that matter.  A bigger problem you might want to hope you don't have, that I've dealt with my entire sex life, is premature ejaculation.  It sucks.  I always ejaculate about 2 or 3 seconds after I'm in, and sometimes, don't even get all the way in.  There are other times (although, really rare) where I can't ejaculate at all, but that's if I try a second or sometimes third time.  Sometimes, the first 2 times are always really quick, and the third time, I can't finish.  But sometimes, that third time, I can't stay erect, either.  It's a pain in the ass.   Luckily, I can hold an erection for a while after I ejaculate the first time, if I'm really hard when I start.  But not every time.  It's a really good thing to be able to make a woman orgasm with your mouth / fingers, that way, you can get them off first, if you have to.  DO NOT learn how to eat a girl from porn.  They do it wrong to get good camera angles.  There are videos that show you how to do it properly.  Search how to eat pussy on pornhub.  There's a great video that's about an hour and a half long, which has a few different porn stars showing you the proper way to do this.  

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I wasnt able to tell whether you are a virgin. 

My penis size is similar to yours.... maybe a little smaller and I worry just like you even though I'm 35 years old. I havent measured it quite as thoroughly as you though.

there are good news...... with 6 inches just about every girl is going to give the chance. They have with me.

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Another myth you might wanna drop is this crap about dating short women or Asian women or petite women. The size of a woman's body has absolutely nothing to do with the tightness or depth of her vagina. In fact it seems to me that smaller more petite woman can take more cock than taller women. In the end though you really can't tell. It's a crap shoot just as penis size is for women.

Most women can't really take as much cock as they think they can. The phrase "eyes bigger than your belly" comes to mind.

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